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The Threeway Issue

emandlo — Thu, 18 Apr 2013 12:00:59 +0000

Confession: 8 Rules for the Third Wheel in a Threeway
And you thought the couple had it hard!

Top 10 Tangled Love Triangles in Film
The tangled love triangle is such a cinematic trope that we could probably put together a list for every year. Here, we just pick the best ever.

Poll: Have You Ever Had a Threesome?
The results may surprise you.

Dream Interpretation: I Keep Dreaming About a Threeway
Why these dreams seem to be bumming her out, we have no idea.

Wise Guys: What’s the Big Deal with Threeways?
Is the FFM threeway really the holy grail for straight guys? If so, why? And if it’s not, why do so many people assume it is?

Dear Em & Lo: My BF Wants to Watch Me Have Sex with Another Man
We advise one couple on dipping their toes into the open relationship pool.

Your Call: Can a Marriage Survive a Consensual Third Party?
If he’s not satisfying her, should they bring in a pinch hitter?

Poll: What Do You Think About a Girl with Two Guys?
Automatically a little bit gay? Vote and see the results so far.

Wise Guys: How Can I Have a MMF Threeway?
There is hope, however slim!

Do It Tonight! Have a Pretend Threeway
Oftentimes, the fantasy is much better than the reality.

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The New Year’s Issue

emandlo — Fri, 21 Dec 2012 13:00:34 +0000

A Refresher Course for Your New Year’s Kiss
Brush up on your midnight pucker up.

20 Naughty New Year’s Resolutions
Screw the gym membership.

What’s a Man’s Ideal New Year’s Eve?
Good wine. Good food. Good friends. And maybe a disco beat?

One More Time: What’s a Man’s Ideal New Year’s Eve?
Three more of our Wise Guys lay it out for you.

Your Sex-Related New Year’s Resolutions
More great ideas for the brand new year.

Is Your New Year’s Resolution to Be Single? Hello, D-Day!
January is the season for divorce, but don’t blame it on office holiday party nookie.

Top 10 Kinky New Year’s Resolutions
Which includes buying our new book 150 SHADES OF PLAY, of course!

The Naughty and Nice Issue

emandlo — Thu, 20 Dec 2012 12:00:06 +0000

‘Tis the season to be sexy. So brush up on your sex etiquette for the holidays with our best festive advice below. This of course includes buying everyone you know our new book 150 SHADES OF PLAY, so you can give everyone a Merry Kinkmas!

What’s the Worst Holiday Present You Ever Received from a Partner?
Can you top reader H? They received an autographed photograph of Garth Brooks… and they’re not even a fan!

Rules for Surviving Your In-Laws This Holiday Season
Take long walks with your partner, let it go if you don’t get to share a bedroom, and much more!

How to Navigate the Crappy Holidays Alone
On counting your blessings and not impulse-shopping for a partner.

What’s a Good Holiday Present for a Man?
Bourbon, blowjobs, and gadgets, oh my! And check out how some of our other Wise Guys answered the question here and then here.

Your Call: Should She Dump Him Before or After Xmas?
Is it heartless to dump someone days before Christmas — or is prolonging the inevitable patronizing and worse?

What Is the Etiquette of Saucy Holiday Gifting?
At what point in a relationship is it acceptable to give a sex-related gift?

Wise Guys: Is a Striptease a Good Last-Minute Gift?
Should you unwrap yourself for your man this holiday season? (If you intend to, here’s how.)

Can I Give a Sex Toy as a Present?
Yes, but… it can’t be just any sex toy.

Wise Guys: Is a Saucy Love Ring a Good Gift for a Dude?
It is a kind of gadget, after all…

LELO’s Pleasure Sets: For Someon Who’s Been Naughty AND Nice
If you’ve met each other’s parents, then we think you’re ready to up the naughty factor a little…

Oops! I Slept with a Co-Worker at the Office Holiday Party!
Because not every kiss under the office mistletoe ends with a Jim-and-Pam-style happy ending.

How Not to Regret Your Holiday Office Party in 4 Easy Steps
Navigating the open bar, the micro-mini dress, and that dreaded Xerox machine.

150 Shades of Play Is Here!!!
Have yourself a merry little kinkmas with this book… the perfect gift for your best friend/partner/sister-in-law/White Elephant party.

The Thanksgiving Issue: Love in the Time of Turkey

emandlo — Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:00:19 +0000

Wise Guys: How to Win Over His Mother at Thanksgiving
Don’t miss Joel Derner’s fail-safe technique for winning over mothers at the holidays!

Wise Guys – When Can I Invite Him for Thanksgiving?
Sage advice from three men who like turkey.

10 Ways to Win Over Your Partner’s Parents This Thanksgiving
“Engage in no more PDA than your partner’s parents do” — and other invaluable advice for the holidays.

Your Call: Why Didn’t He Invite Me to Thanksgiving?
It’s obviously too late to help this reader in particular, but the debate in the comments about when to invite a partner for Thanksgiving is evergreen.

No sex? Deal-breaker. No turkey together? That’s okay, says New York court.
Turns out, in the eyes of the law, that he’s only truly not that into you when the sex stops.

The Halloween Issue

emandlo — Thu, 25 Oct 2012 12:00:56 +0000

How to Have Sex with a Vampire
A top 10 for all you Twilight fans.

Are Halloween Couples’ Costumes Cute or Cloying?
What do you think? Let us know!

Halloween Haiku Contest Winners
please, babe? just the tip? / he thrusts, and…did it break off? /
no more zombie sex

Wise Guys: How Can I Get Him to Dress Up for Halloween?
You’re into the fantasy and fun, he’s a fuddy-duddy.

Halloween Is for Roleplaying
It’s the perfect excuse to become someone else for the night…

Should He Use Halloween to Introduce Her to His Kinky Side?
Your call.

Poll: What Do You Think About Sexy Halloween Costumes?
Tacky or liberating?

How to Really Enjoy National Chocolate Day.
Here are some naughty ways to spend October 28th.

How Not to Kiss Like a Zombie
A step-by-step guide.

Wise Guys: What’s the Best Costume
You’ve Ever Seen a Woman Wear?
Only one out of three votes for the “sexy” route!

My Fiance Bit Me Like a Vampire in My Sleep
And I liked it.