Comment of the Week: “Attraction” Doesn’t Just Mean Looks | 1 Chime in! photo via flickr In response to the post “Your Call: How Can I Talk to Men Without It Being About Sex?” reader Alisa (who was the original letter writer in the “Your Call” post) said, “I believe lots of guys like and respect women they find attractive.” Reader Chin Up, Chest High would like to clarify, on behalf of men: It is the other way around… men are attracted to women who are likeable and have things other than her body to attract a man. Ambition, character, and a sense of humor are incredibly sexy to us. If you have at least one of these things, you will get the sort of attention you desire from the men you want attention from. MORE LIKE THIS ON EMandLO.com: How Can a Woman Enjoy Lots of Sex Without Shame? 10 Worst Lines in Rom Com History 4 Reasons Why the Grammys Were Better Without T&A Comments SHARE THIS | 1 Chime in!