8/11/10
Comment of the Week: Bring Back the Bush

When it comes to pubic grooming, whatever makes you feel sexy and confident is what you should do. But in an age when the majority people feel hair removal is a moral imperative — that you’re skanky and lazy if you don’t — you may feel like you don’t have much choice in the matter. Which is why it’s nice to hear from the minority from time to time:

Glad this has come up! I have been absolutely mystified why removing one’s pubic hair could ever be thought of as sexy! Back in the 70’s many women were  fighting with the docs to NOT shave us when we gave birth as it was viewed by us to be degrading and about men wanting us to look like children, it did not reduce infection rates, but INCREASED them; we interpret the practice as one of an attempt to DE-sex us. It was an issue of who controlled our bodies. We thought that guys who were into their women sporting what are now called “brazillians” were closet pedophiles, and we were horrified. We were comfortable with our bodies; pubic hair our southern crowning glory…the curls that we and our lovers toyed with, the shine, the “real” blondes, not wearing panties and feeling the sexiness of the feel of summer breezes tickling our airy furbelows. Razor stubble, wax burns and red infected skin bumps are NOT sexy. The time it takes could be put to better use pleasuring ourselves or our lovers; that part of our body should be treated to as much pleasure and fun as possible. Waxing, shaving lasering = NOT FUN.

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Caryn
Caryn
5 years 8 months ago

I refused to shave for the longest time. I was personally against it and thought it was unnecessary and uncomfortable. However, I feel the same way about oral sex. I still will only trim but that’s mainly because I’m worried about what my potential partner might think. I’m very self-conscious.

Tim
Tim
5 years 9 months ago

Manscape the hedge bud just like a rockstar

frenchmix
frenchmix
5 years 9 months ago

All I have to say is I don’t appreciate it when I go down on my boyfriend and get a load of hairs in the back of my throat, so I make him trim it down there. Why shouldn’t I do the same for him? (By the way, he doesn’t like the “bare” look, but instead prefers it to be a little hairy)

Sean Whalen
Sean Whalen
5 years 9 months ago
Why does everyone keep framing this as only an aesthetic issue. It is that (and like most guys, I much much much prefer nicely trimmed, NOT BALD), but this also has to do with how much nicer it is to kiss and feel as much as it’s nicer to look at. It is nicer to look at, too, but that’s only part of the equation. Of course it’s okay to do whatever you want with your own pubic hair, but guys generally like some trimming, and I’ve heard them talk about being bummed out/grossed out by women with full bushes.… Read more »
SS
SS
5 years 9 months ago

Well, having tried it both ways (back in my younger days, shaving what showed beyond your panties was all that was required)I can say that nearly bare feels a lot better, and a lot cleaner. (I know, people say you’re more at risk for infection with less hair, but I don’t know anyone who’s had that happen). Of course, it’s a pain to maintain, but so are pedicures, blow drying ones’s hair, and putting on make-up every morning. Yeah, those are optional, too, but I like the results.

Black Iris
Black Iris
5 years 9 months ago

My impression is that this is a hugely age-related thing. In the end I think it comes down to the styles have changed and the younger generation, as usual, doesn’t want to look like their parents.

The odd thing here is that porn seems to have shaped the fashion, but the original reason for shaving in porn was probably related to making it easier to take a picture.

AlanK
AlanK
5 years 9 months ago

While it is quite true that a surprisingly large number of women look good with either a shaven head or a very short butch cut, most do not. Equally true, while many women look good with hair that looks as if they had just fallen out of bad, most do not.

Most adult men don’t give a damn.If you have one who does care…well, it’s pretty silly. Most men like women with both short and long hair, because most men like most naked women. Heterosexuality is funny that way.

There is probably a moral here somewhere.

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