Comment of the Week: Bring Back the Bush

When it comes to pubic grooming, whatever makes you feel sexy and confident is what you should do. But in an age when the majority people feel hair removal is a moral imperative — that you’re skanky and lazy if you don’t — you may feel like you don’t have much choice in the matter. Which is why it’s nice to hear from the minority from time to time:

Glad this has come up! I have been absolutely mystified why removing one’s pubic hair could ever be thought of as sexy! Back in the 70’s many women were  fighting with the docs to NOT shave us when we gave birth as it was viewed by us to be degrading and about men wanting us to look like children, it did not reduce infection rates, but INCREASED them; we interpret the practice as one of an attempt to DE-sex us. It was an issue of who controlled our bodies. We thought that guys who were into their women sporting what are now called “brazillians” were closet pedophiles, and we were horrified. We were comfortable with our bodies; pubic hair our southern crowning glory…the curls that we and our lovers toyed with, the shine, the “real” blondes, not wearing panties and feeling the sexiness of the feel of summer breezes tickling our airy furbelows. Razor stubble, wax burns and red infected skin bumps are NOT sexy. The time it takes could be put to better use pleasuring ourselves or our lovers; that part of our body should be treated to as much pleasure and fun as possible. Waxing, shaving lasering = NOT FUN.

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5 years 2 months ago

I refused to shave for the longest time. I was personally against it and thought it was unnecessary and uncomfortable. However, I feel the same way about oral sex. I still will only trim but that’s mainly because I’m worried about what my potential partner might think. I’m very self-conscious.

5 years 3 months ago

Manscape the hedge bud just like a rockstar

5 years 3 months ago

All I have to say is I don’t appreciate it when I go down on my boyfriend and get a load of hairs in the back of my throat, so I make him trim it down there. Why shouldn’t I do the same for him? (By the way, he doesn’t like the “bare” look, but instead prefers it to be a little hairy)

Sean Whalen
5 years 3 months ago

Why does everyone keep framing this as only an aesthetic issue. It is that (and like most guys, I much much much prefer nicely trimmed, NOT BALD), but this also has to do with how much nicer it is to kiss and feel as much as it’s nicer to look at. It is nicer to look at, too, but that’s only part of the equation.

Of course it’s okay to do whatever you want with your own pubic hair, but guys generally like some trimming, and I’ve heard them talk about being bummed out/grossed out by women with full bushes. Call them boys or paedos or whatever you may, but if you don’t trim, you will put off a good chunk of the male population.

Is it just because it’s the pubic area in question that men aren’t allowed to have any sort of preference here? We like shaved legs, too, for the most part. Is that just as wrong? There are probably guys who like a woman with big, bushy leg hair, but I’ve never met one.

5 years 3 months ago

Well, having tried it both ways (back in my younger days, shaving what showed beyond your panties was all that was required)I can say that nearly bare feels a lot better, and a lot cleaner. (I know, people say you’re more at risk for infection with less hair, but I don’t know anyone who’s had that happen). Of course, it’s a pain to maintain, but so are pedicures, blow drying ones’s hair, and putting on make-up every morning. Yeah, those are optional, too, but I like the results.