I think there is a lot to be gained from casual sex, with this single requirement; you have to be in total control of your situation. Be picky and choosy. Be upfront with the man saying, “hey this is just sex. I don’t know you, don’t want to be friends, don’t want to know about your family, this is a physical thing, period.” And if he tries that emotional crap the next day, cut him off ASAP and move onto the next one.
I also think this is the time to experiment, try out things you never have but are curious about. If its just about sex and not about emotion you will have pretty strong shell on. This is a great time to figure out who you are sexually w/out emotion getting in the way.
Most importantly, be safe. Always use condoms, no dark alleys, always drive your car to and from, buy your own meals, and don’t drink so you are in control of yourself.
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