Comment of the Week: Size Really Doesn’t Matter. Really.
Barb, on the post “My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis”:
I went from dating a very well endowed man to dating a, well, not so well endowed man. I was shocked at first too. He was without a doubt the smallest man I had ever dated. To my amazement, he was also the most gifted lover I have ever had. His insecurity over his penis size caused him to really work on his other skills. Our relationship ended a few months ago and I still find my mind wandering back to our love making sessions. I never think of Mr. Well Endowed. It’s true what the ladies tell you guys: “It’s not what you have but how you use it.”
I can’t believe people still are confused about this topic. I’ve slept with enough women and have read probably 20 articles about this topic, and here’s the summary:
– Most women do not care about size, as long as the man understands how to “satisfy” her with their hands, mouth, or “using” whatever sized unit they have (assuming 5 inches or longer).
– Some women don’t like huge unit – it apparently hurts (seems reasonable). Other women love it. Sorta like how some women like bondage, or getting spanked, while others don’t…there are personal preferences here.
– Generally speaking, 4 inches or smaller is probably pushing the “too small” category, so you boys better learn some other skills.
– Conversely, I think 8 inches or longer could be deemed too much for your average 5’5″ lady, so you boys might have a harder time finding a perfect “fit” as well.
I’m happy with my 6 inches, but still have learned the requisite oral/spanking/spooning skills. And most of the women I’ve slept with in relationships have been open to booty calls post-relationship, so I think I’m doing ok.
Boys – don’t be lazy…make SURE your women achieve orgasms. You want them to keep coming back for more, right?
Funny… the comments on here seem to be representative of what women feel all over… most don’t care, but some do…
Check this out, I asked this question on a forum, and I recieved the following answer from women:
“What Women Really think of a Man with a Small Penis: Actual Responses from Women”
Have a good one!
Oh and large balls do not count!
Size does matter. I just ended a relationship with someone who had a small unit. Even though he was very gifted in other areas I still felt like something very important was missing. It just wasn’t cutting it for me. I always felt that I wasn’t quite satisfied even though I always faked like I was. As the days go by and I do miss sex, I am happy that I don’t have to feel frusterated by “almost” and very happy I will be out with at leaset average sized units and satisfied.
That is very true. My man now has a good sized penis but I have had bigger but it just doesn’t matter with how he works it!!! It’s so much better than with a bigger one, it seems like he fits perfectly inside of me.