Comment of the Week: Telling on a Cheat Could Save a Life | 2 Chime in! Reader Jay Bee said the following in response to our post, “Your Call: Should I Tell Her He’s Cheating on Her?” As someone who may die from the cervical cancer my cheating exhusband gave me from one of his mistresses, you NEED to tell the wife. I highly doubt you are the first person he’s cheated on his wife with. While you have the benefit of being able to choose to use protection, married women in relationships they believe to be monogamous see no reason to use protection as they believe there is nothing to be exposed. My ex-husband was tested for everything before we got married, he was my first sexual partner and I discovered the hard way that he was cheating on me when it was discovered I had cervical cancer from HPV he picked up from one of his many mistresses and manstresses he was having unprotected sex with. I had no idea, and now I could die as a result. Yes she may go crazy at you, and she may not be grateful, but from one human being to another, you owe her the truth to save her life. MORE LIKE THIS ON EMandLO.com: Dear Em & Lo, Should I End This Relationship? Dreams: Every Night I Cheat on My Boyfriend with My Ex and Get Caught Poll: Have You Ever Cheated? Cheaters, Comments, HPV, STDs SHARE THIS | 2 Chime in!