Comments for Em & Lo: Sex. Love. And Everything in Between. http://www.emandlo.com Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Fri, 25 Jul 2014 23:41:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on KEGEL WEEK: Dear Dr. Kate, How Do I Tighten Up Down There by discovery http://www.emandlo.com/2012/08/kegel-week-dear-dr-kate-how-do-i-tighten-up-down-there/comment-page-1/#comment-74029 discovery Fri, 25 Jul 2014 23:41:11 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=19632#comment-74029 This is eye opening. http://breakingmuscle.com/womens-fitness/stop-doing-kegels-real-pelvic-floor-advice-for-women-and-men I'll definitely be doing squats as week as kegels. Makes me wonder if a nice butt implies good vaginal muscle health too. Add far as composing, if it's comfortable, wipe away some juice. Getting really lubricated can reduce friction and guys can't always tell why the friction is gone just that it feels good so want more. This is eye opening.
http://breakingmuscle.com/womens-fitness/stop-doing-kegels-real-pelvic-floor-advice-for-women-and-men
I’ll definitely be doing squats as week as kegels. Makes me wonder if a nice butt implies good vaginal muscle health too.
Add far as composing, if it’s comfortable, wipe away some juice. Getting really lubricated can reduce friction and guys can’t always tell why the friction is gone just that it feels good so want more.

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Comment on Your Call: She Doesn’t Like Going Down by lolol http://www.emandlo.com/2011/06/your-call-she-doesnt-like-going-down/comment-page-1/#comment-74022 lolol Fri, 25 Jul 2014 01:37:24 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=15342#comment-74022 loool@the guys for who it is a dealbreaker or who would leave their partner for not getting a blowjob. GROW THE FUCK UP loool@the guys for who it is a dealbreaker or who would leave their partner for not getting a blowjob. GROW THE FUCK UP

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Comment on Design Your Own Sex Toy, Win Fame and Cash! by Jessica http://www.emandlo.com/2011/02/design-your-own-sex-toy-win-fame-and-cash/comment-page-1/#comment-74008 Jessica Wed, 23 Jul 2014 02:41:18 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=14413#comment-74008 I have an idea for a sex toy. You could call it "The Triton". 3 dildos, one for anal, one for vaginal, and the third for the clitoris, they could all vibrate. If that wouldn't increase an orgasim entirely, I don't know what will. I have an idea for a sex toy. You could call it “The Triton”. 3 dildos, one for anal, one for vaginal, and the third for the clitoris, they could all vibrate. If that wouldn’t increase an orgasim entirely, I don’t know what will.

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Comment on Dear Dr. Kate: Can the Cervix Get Hurt During Intercourse? by Maggie Alvarez http://www.emandlo.com/2012/01/dear-dr-kate-can-the-cervix-get-hurt-during-intercourse/comment-page-1/#comment-74004 Maggie Alvarez Mon, 21 Jul 2014 02:47:46 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=17403#comment-74004 I knew i was goin to start my period so we had sex because we usually have sex everyday, but we used toys for the firat time n it was a 7 inch n i love it deep thays why we tryed a toy. But when it went in deep it felt like another opening. It was wiered, so i started period next day, but lots of back pains n side pains, i take provera to start period witch it normally doeant give me that bad of pain. I am very scared. I dont kno of i need to be checked or is it jus my period that is goving me bad cramps. Sex was awesome so o didnt think anything till i started getting bad pains. I knew i was goin to start my period so we had sex because we usually have sex everyday, but we used toys for the firat time n it was a 7 inch n i love it deep thays why we tryed a toy. But when it went in deep it felt like another opening. It was wiered, so i started period next day, but lots of back pains n side pains, i take provera to start period witch it normally doeant give me that bad of pain. I am very scared. I dont kno of i need to be checked or is it jus my period that is goving me bad cramps. Sex was awesome so o didnt think anything till i started getting bad pains.

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Comment on How to Choose Your Very First Vibrator by Nikki http://www.emandlo.com/2014/07/how-to-choose-your-very-first-vibrator/comment-page-1/#comment-74002 Nikki Sun, 20 Jul 2014 02:46:15 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=29536#comment-74002 Ah, memories. The pink pocket rocket was my very first vibrator. Suggested by the kind lady at the sex shop in the East Village where 18-year-old me went in search of one. Ah, memories. The pink pocket rocket was my very first vibrator. Suggested by the kind lady at the sex shop in the East Village where 18-year-old me went in search of one.

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Comment on Spank Tuesday Wise Guys: Why Do Men Like to Spank in Bed? by cronin http://www.emandlo.com/2010/01/wise-guys-why-do-men-like-to-spank-in-bed/comment-page-1/#comment-73995 cronin Fri, 18 Jul 2014 19:49:42 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=7012#comment-73995 I have never wished to be spanked in bed--or any other time---Our sex like is very good and our marriage is very good----but once in a while for something extra serious---I get my bare butt paddled by my wife---Its totally consenting and i sure got it coming---BUT MY BUTT HURTS Do not fantisize about getting spanked/ paddled it hurts and there are a million better ways to have sexual expression----God! I hate the pain of a bare paddling! and i got it coming I have never wished to be spanked in bed–or any other time—Our sex like is very good and our marriage is very good—-but once in a while for something extra serious—I get my bare butt paddled by my wife—Its totally consenting and i sure got it coming—BUT MY BUTT HURTS Do not fantisize about getting spanked/ paddled it hurts and there are a million better ways to have sexual expression—-God! I hate the pain of a bare paddling! and i got it coming

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Comment on Do Spoiled Children Grow Up to Be Bad Sex Partners? by Eve http://www.emandlo.com/2012/07/do-spoiled-children-grow-up-to-be-bad-sex-partners/comment-page-1/#comment-73992 Eve Thu, 17 Jul 2014 19:56:45 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=19354#comment-73992 Definitely. Definitely.

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Comment on Comment of the Week: How to Get Past His Porn Habit by grainne http://www.emandlo.com/2013/04/comment-of-the-week-how-to-get-past-his-porn-habit/comment-page-1/#comment-73988 grainne Thu, 17 Jul 2014 04:52:33 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=23711#comment-73988 I do not understand why good sites (as opposed to sex columns oh MSN, Yahoo, etc) such as this do not differentiate between the many different types of pornography--not all of it is degrading, bestiality, fake orgasms and so on. I did see 1 article on this site about feminist pornography, which is wonderful. I'm talking about articles like, "ways to get past his porn habit" instead of addressing how many women and girls might not really care that their men look at it, if it did not affect their thinking about what most women find pleasurable. Dave Lampert, inventor of the Sybian machine, said it best: "I have long maintained that the greatest hoax played upon the world is the importance of the male stroking during intercourse. The in-and-out motion of stroking is used in nearly all male/female porno material. This movement gives the viewer a better view of what turns them on. It is what they wish to see. Thus most viewers think this is how intercourse is performed. To my knowledge, (I admit to not having made a study on this point.) man is the only animal in the kingdom that strokes. (Stroking should not be confused with the natural movement of trying to force the penis in further, which does have a slight in/out movement in the attempt to thrust deeper.) Please do not try to tell me that man strokes because he has the ability to think. It is the opposite, he strokes because he is not thinking or because he is selfish. I believe that stroking is 95% to the benefit of the male and the 5% received by the female would come under the category of “priming the pump”. In a new book “Revealing the ‘G’ Spot & other Modern Sexual Mysteries” I see the statistic that about a third of all women say it feels good, to a degree, but only 18% say they believe they can have an orgasm from any form of stroking." I do not understand why good sites (as opposed to sex columns oh MSN, Yahoo, etc) such as this do not differentiate between the many different types of pornography–not all of it is degrading, bestiality, fake orgasms and so on. I did see 1 article on this site about feminist pornography, which is wonderful.
I’m talking about articles like, “ways to get past his porn habit” instead of addressing how many women and girls might not really care that their men look at it, if it did not affect their thinking about what most women find pleasurable.

Dave Lampert, inventor of the Sybian machine, said it best: “I have long maintained that the greatest hoax played upon the world is the importance of the male stroking during intercourse. The in-and-out motion of stroking is used in nearly all male/female porno material. This movement gives the viewer a better view of what turns them on. It is what they wish to see. Thus most viewers think this is how intercourse is performed. To my knowledge, (I admit to not having made a study on this point.) man is the only animal in the kingdom that strokes. (Stroking should not be confused with the natural movement of trying to force the penis in further, which does have a slight in/out movement in the attempt to thrust deeper.) Please do not try to tell me that man strokes because he has the ability to think. It is the opposite, he strokes because he is not thinking or because he is selfish. I believe that stroking is 95% to the benefit of the male and the 5% received by the female would come under the category of “priming the pump”. In a new book “Revealing the ‘G’ Spot & other Modern Sexual Mysteries” I see the statistic that about a third of all women say it feels good, to a degree, but only 18% say they believe they can have an orgasm from any form of stroking.”

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Comment on Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed? by Tony http://www.emandlo.com/2010/06/your-call-hes-kinky-shes-vanilla-is-the-relationship-doomed/comment-page-2/#comment-73987 Tony Wed, 16 Jul 2014 23:19:54 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=10509#comment-73987 Vixen- I am so sorry for what you and your daughter are going through. I wanted to wish you strength, peace, blessings, and light. Vixen-

I am so sorry for what you and your daughter are going through. I wanted to wish you strength, peace, blessings, and light.

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Comment on 15 Reasons Why Everyone Should Masturbate by Bellend http://www.emandlo.com/2009/04/15-reasons-why-everyone-should-masturbate/comment-page-1/#comment-73986 Bellend Wed, 16 Jul 2014 23:01:06 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=2867#comment-73986 Ive been at it since the age of 12 least once a day. Sad thing is that even though in a relationship for 10 years still needing to and tbh I do it even more now out of pure frustration! Sometimes I wish I had gone with a girl with a sex drive..I hate having to ask/beg for sex I mean wtf...anyway all this frustration is making me want to wank again. Plese excjse my typimg fronm now kn as itd very hard to tyspe....zzzzzzzz Ive been at it since the age of 12 least once a day. Sad thing is that even though in a relationship for 10 years still needing to and tbh I do it even more now out of pure frustration! Sometimes I wish I had gone with a girl with a sex drive..I hate having to ask/beg for sex I mean wtf…anyway all this frustration is making me want to wank again. Plese excjse my typimg fronm now kn as itd very hard to tyspe….zzzzzzzz

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