Comments for Em & Lo: Sex. Love. And Everything in Between. http://www.emandlo.com Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Tue, 02 Sep 2014 07:25:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Confession: 10 Reasons Why I Like Shower Sex by Hannah http://www.emandlo.com/2011/09/10-reasons-why-i-like-shower-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-74270 Hannah Tue, 02 Sep 2014 07:25:29 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=16010#comment-74270 Really like these kinds of steam showers Here is my page; steam shower whirlpool (<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_UMgTK9uceI" rel="nofollow">Hannah</a>) Really like these kinds of steam showers

Here is my page; steam shower whirlpool (Hannah)

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Comment on Your Call: When Your Partner’s Fantasies Are Seriously Disturbing… by S.s http://www.emandlo.com/2010/10/your-call-when-your-partners-fantasies-are-seriously-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-74268 S.s Mon, 01 Sep 2014 21:42:56 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=12592#comment-74268 I'm sorry that your man had to be such a loser. You totally did the right thing. Well done for being strong and not sweeping it under the carpet. So many people ignore warning signs and complain too late when damage is done. I know friends and relatives abused by their dads, uncles and grand fathers. Looking at this online is one sick thing and I wouldn't chance my children's safety for any mans mistakes. You are their protector so protect at all costs. I’m sorry that your man had to be such a loser. You totally did the right thing. Well done for being strong and not sweeping it under the carpet. So many people ignore warning signs and complain too late when damage is done.
I know friends and relatives abused by their dads, uncles and grand fathers.
Looking at this online is one sick thing and I wouldn’t chance my children’s safety for any mans mistakes. You are their protector so protect at all costs.

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Comment on Why You Should Lie When He Asks About His Penis Size by Dave W http://www.emandlo.com/2014/08/if-he-asks-about-his-size-should-you-tell-him-the-truth/comment-page-1/#comment-74256 Dave W Sun, 31 Aug 2014 06:52:39 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=29852#comment-74256 On Nikki's response - yes, exactly. I would never ask this question and would call shenanigans on it if asked something similar. Well, maybe not shenanigans but, "I don't answer that question". Regardless of the nature of one's naughty bits, or your partner's opinion of them, it's just not a fair question. If your partner likes you and accepts your relatively smaller parts - not cool to ask. If your parts are on a higher part of the bell curve, the question is still fraught with peril. So, if asked, I'd also add, "The statistics are all available on the internet. Maybe you already know where you stand. I hope I demonstrate how I feel about you daily". On Nikki’s response – yes, exactly. I would never ask this question and would call shenanigans on it if asked something similar. Well, maybe not shenanigans but, “I don’t answer that question”. Regardless of the nature of one’s naughty bits, or your partner’s opinion of them, it’s just not a fair question. If your partner likes you and accepts your relatively smaller parts – not cool to ask. If your parts are on a higher part of the bell curve, the question is still fraught with peril. So, if asked, I’d also add, “The statistics are all available on the internet. Maybe you already know where you stand. I hope I demonstrate how I feel about you daily”.

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Comment on Wise Guys: Is Sex on a First Date a Relationship Killer? by Melisa http://www.emandlo.com/2013/04/wise-guys-is-sex-on-a-first-date-a-relationship-killer-2/comment-page-1/#comment-74248 Melisa Sat, 30 Aug 2014 05:29:02 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=23541#comment-74248 Ok so assuming sex on the first date happens and it occurs because of stellar chemistry, who does the communication after the first date fall on? It's it ok for the girl to reach out after a day or two? Or two we follow the three day gender protocol, the guy calls first? Ok so assuming sex on the first date happens and it occurs because of stellar chemistry, who does the communication after the first date fall on? It’s it ok for the girl to reach out after a day or two? Or two we follow the three day gender protocol, the guy calls first?

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Comment on Comment of the Week: How to Really Talk About Sex with Your Spouse by Nane Tolson http://www.emandlo.com/2014/08/comment-of-the-week-how-to-really-talk-about-sex-with-your-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-74240 Nane Tolson Thu, 28 Aug 2014 19:27:45 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=29858#comment-74240 Great reply - and as always communication is the key to all problems in and out of the bedroom. I agree that it sounds as if a therapist may be needed at this point. Great reply – and as always communication is the key to all problems in and out of the bedroom.

I agree that it sounds as if a therapist may be needed at this point.

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Comment on Why You Should Lie When He Asks About His Penis Size by Johnny http://www.emandlo.com/2014/08/if-he-asks-about-his-size-should-you-tell-him-the-truth/comment-page-1/#comment-74237 Johnny Thu, 28 Aug 2014 12:24:49 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=29852#comment-74237 ^ Great point. ^ Great point.

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Comment on Your Call: Should My Fiance Throw Out Memorabilia of His Ex? by Ralphie http://www.emandlo.com/2014/08/your-call-should-my-fiance-throw-out-memorabilia-of-his-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-74233 Ralphie Wed, 27 Aug 2014 15:26:32 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=29843#comment-74233 I agree with Johnny. It is reasonable for him to keep his memories, but you shouldn't have to encounter them. How he stores this material really depends on the extent of your relationship with him. If the two of you are living together, it would be appropriate for him to stash the material away in a box (not necessarily hermetically sealed) in the back of his closet. If you have not been together that long, him having the material in his desk draw is not unreasonable. Everyone has some type of a past. He is not wasting his time pining for his; there is nothing wrong with holding on to old memorabilia. I agree with Johnny. It is reasonable for him to keep his memories, but you shouldn’t have to encounter them. How he stores this material really depends on the extent of your relationship with him. If the two of you are living together, it would be appropriate for him to stash the material away in a box (not necessarily hermetically sealed) in the back of his closet. If you have not been together that long, him having the material in his desk draw is not unreasonable. Everyone has some type of a past. He is not wasting his time pining for his; there is nothing wrong with holding on to old memorabilia.

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Comment on Your Call: Is Intellectual Inequality a Deal Breaker? by henry http://www.emandlo.com/2014/08/your-call-should-she-stick-it-out-or-cut-run/comment-page-1/#comment-74225 henry Tue, 26 Aug 2014 19:33:04 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=25449#comment-74225 I've been married 14 years. I've always thought my non-college educated woman a bit "simple." Recently though, she explained some things about the work she does in such an eloquent way that I realized that perhaps I was all along judging her on my experiences and priorities, not hers. I’ve been married 14 years. I’ve always thought my non-college educated woman a bit “simple.” Recently though, she explained some things about the work she does in such an eloquent way that I realized that perhaps I was all along judging her on my experiences and priorities, not hers.

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Comment on Why You Should Lie When He Asks About His Penis Size by Nikki http://www.emandlo.com/2014/08/if-he-asks-about-his-size-should-you-tell-him-the-truth/comment-page-1/#comment-74223 Nikki Tue, 26 Aug 2014 17:08:22 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=29852#comment-74223 Follow up piece: "Why You Should Never Ask Your Partner If Your Penis Is Good Enough" - because of the above conundrum. Also, fielding that question is a huge turn-off. Follow up piece: “Why You Should Never Ask Your Partner If Your Penis Is Good Enough” – because of the above conundrum. Also, fielding that question is a huge turn-off.

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Comment on Your Call: Should My Fiance Throw Out Memorabilia of His Ex? by Johnny http://www.emandlo.com/2014/08/your-call-should-my-fiance-throw-out-memorabilia-of-his-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-74221 Johnny Tue, 26 Aug 2014 13:49:25 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=29843#comment-74221 Tell him you'd appreciate it if he stuck all that stuff somewhere that you're guaranteed never to see it. Taped-up box in the attic, top shelf of his personal closet, whatever. I agree with him that you shouldn't tell hom to throw his stuff out, but I agree with you that it shouldn't be lying around like little jealousy booby-traps. That's the fairest compromise. PS are you "opening" us, here? Because this situation is literally straight out of the pickup artist's handbook of conversation starters. It is known as the "jealous girlfriend routine." Tell him you’d appreciate it if he stuck all that stuff somewhere that you’re guaranteed never to see it. Taped-up box in the attic, top shelf of his personal closet, whatever. I agree with him that you shouldn’t tell hom to throw his stuff out, but I agree with you that it shouldn’t be lying around like little jealousy booby-traps. That’s the fairest compromise.

PS are you “opening” us, here? Because this situation is literally straight out of the pickup artist’s handbook of conversation starters. It is known as the “jealous girlfriend routine.”

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