Comments for Em & Lo: Sex. Love. And Everything in Between. http://www.emandlo.com Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Fri, 24 Apr 2015 17:50:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Is Cuckolding a Real Trend, Or Just Another Internet Meme? by DandJ http://www.emandlo.com/2013/08/is-cuckolding-a-real-trend-or-just-another-internet-meme/comment-page-1/#comment-76717 DandJ Fri, 24 Apr 2015 17:50:26 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=25024#comment-76717 My wife and I have played with the fantasy for over a year. And then just 2 nights ago we invited an educated young hung Carribean fella over for some fun. Wife enjoyed all 5 orgasms over the 2 straight hours of their intercourse. I watched every second of my wife being satisfied in ways I could never satisfy her. And it brought me the same satisfaction. Recommend it to anyone who is interested in it. My wife and I have played with the fantasy for over a year. And then just 2 nights ago we invited an educated young hung Carribean fella over for some fun. Wife enjoyed all 5 orgasms over the 2 straight hours of their intercourse. I watched every second of my wife being satisfied in ways I could never satisfy her. And it brought me the same satisfaction. Recommend it to anyone who is interested in it.

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Comment on Everything You Need to Know About the Nuva Ring by lauren http://www.emandlo.com/2009/10/everything-you-need-to-know-about-the-nuva-ring/comment-page-2/#comment-76716 lauren Fri, 24 Apr 2015 11:05:03 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=6297#comment-76716 how far do you need to push the nova ring in ? how do you know when to stop? I'm worried i haven't done it correctly as i can feel it quite close to the vaginal entrance. how far do you need to push the nova ring in ? how do you know when to stop? I’m worried i haven’t done it correctly as i can feel it quite close to the vaginal entrance.

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Comment on A Male Perspective on Circumcision by Dave W http://www.emandlo.com/2015/04/a-male-perspective-on-circumcision/comment-page-1/#comment-76715 Dave W Fri, 24 Apr 2015 03:47:05 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=32849#comment-76715 Having a vagina increases your risk of contracting a number of STDs. If at all possible, I think I'd choose to conceive a boy instead of a girl. But there's a dilemma - if I have a girl, should I cut her vagina out? Also, I'm a real suck freak when I "dine on the vagine", but reading about the above STD info, with all its bacteria and moisture talk, may have squicked me - should I knock off that shit? Having a vagina increases your risk of contracting a number of STDs. If at all possible, I think I’d choose to conceive a boy instead of a girl. But there’s a dilemma – if I have a girl, should I cut her vagina out? Also, I’m a real suck freak when I “dine on the vagine”, but reading about the above STD info, with all its bacteria and moisture talk, may have squicked me – should I knock off that shit?

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Comment on Dream Interpretation: I Had Sex with Tim Curry As Frank-N-Furter by Nikki http://www.emandlo.com/2015/04/dream-interpretation-i-had-sex-with-tim-curry-as-frank-n-furter/comment-page-1/#comment-76714 Nikki Fri, 24 Apr 2015 01:52:26 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=32869#comment-76714 I'm abstaining, because although I'm inclined to vote not a dealbreaker, I realize my vote is heavily influenced by the fact that I'm poly. Not a humble brag, I promise. It's just mononormative poll, or whatever the kids are calling it these days. I’m abstaining, because although I’m inclined to vote not a dealbreaker, I realize my vote is heavily influenced by the fact that I’m poly. Not a humble brag, I promise. It’s just mononormative poll, or whatever the kids are calling it these days.

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Comment on Your Call: My Husband Won’t Give Me Oral by Layla http://www.emandlo.com/2014/09/your-call-my-husband-wont-give-me-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-76713 Layla Fri, 24 Apr 2015 00:25:45 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=30105#comment-76713 Right on Dave! OP: If he has a true distaste for it, it's with bring sensitive to that, not pressuring, and having a frank conversation about how to make it easier for him, but badgering or threatening is just BS that will further undermine the marriage and hurt you both. If he used to do it more, finding out what changed sends like a good conversation to have about this. What is his response when you are honest about how much it hurts to feel that he is withholding? That tells a lot. If he is sensitive to your feelings but is firm about his boundary then it's up to you if it's a make or break or something you seek permission to find elsewhere. If he doesn't care about your needs, I say ditch him. Right on Dave!
OP: If he has a true distaste for it, it’s with bring sensitive to that, not pressuring, and having a frank conversation about how to make it easier for him, but badgering or threatening is just BS that will further undermine the marriage and hurt you both.
If he used to do it more, finding out what changed sends like a good conversation to have about this. What is his response when you are honest about how much it hurts to feel that he is withholding? That tells a lot. If he is sensitive to your feelings but is firm about his boundary then it’s up to you if it’s a make or break or something you seek permission to find elsewhere. If he doesn’t care about your needs, I say ditch him.

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Comment on The Real Reasons Why Men Send Pics of their Penises by Lea http://www.emandlo.com/2015/04/the-real-reasons-why-men-send-pics-of-their-penises/comment-page-1/#comment-76712 Lea Thu, 23 Apr 2015 21:20:51 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=32878#comment-76712 Number 8 makes me a little sad. I've always appreciated the male "bits". I've even been in relationships with men that had what I thought were gorgeous bits. And yes, I did compliment them. And yes, I have said yes to pics in relationships. But a guy I don't know, or haven't met...NO thank you. Number 8 makes me a little sad.
I’ve always appreciated the male “bits”.
I’ve even been in relationships with men that had what I thought were gorgeous bits. And yes, I did compliment them. And yes, I have said yes to pics in relationships.
But a guy I don’t know, or haven’t met…NO thank you.

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Comment on Comment of the Week: Please Don’t Go Down On Me. Seriously. by Layla http://www.emandlo.com/2014/12/comment-of-the-week-please-dont-go-down-on-me-seriously/comment-page-1/#comment-76709 Layla Thu, 23 Apr 2015 17:01:51 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=31168#comment-76709 That woman needs to understand the concept of boundaries. This is coercion and abuse. That woman needs to understand the concept of boundaries. This is coercion and abuse.

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Comment on What to Do When You Like a Guy… Until You See His Penis by Mama http://www.emandlo.com/2015/04/what-to-do-when-you-like-a-guy-until-you-see-his-penis/comment-page-1/#comment-76708 Mama Thu, 23 Apr 2015 10:11:45 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=32735#comment-76708 LOVE/EMOTION counts way more than any size. LOVE/EMOTION counts way more than any size.

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Comment on What’s the Female Equivalent of Blue Balls Called? by Crystalnebula http://www.emandlo.com/2010/01/whats-the-female-equivalent-of-blue-balls-called/comment-page-1/#comment-76707 Crystalnebula Thu, 23 Apr 2015 01:06:39 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=7743#comment-76707 I'm going with purple pussy! I’m going with purple pussy!

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Comment on Dear Dr. Joe, What Do You Think About Circumcision? by life insurance http://www.emandlo.com/2010/08/dear-dr-joe-what-do-you-think-about-circumcision/comment-page-1/#comment-76705 life insurance Wed, 22 Apr 2015 19:45:27 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=11687#comment-76705 Excellent commentaire d’Alphonsi.Cet article est puant par son manque d’objectivité. On fait passer la « pauvre » famille pour des martyrs et le cadre ATD pour un justicier des opprimés. Il aurait été préférable selon moi de fournir a ces gens de quoi se vêtir convenablement et de quoi se laver avant de les emmener au musée. Par respect pour eux mêmes. Le cadre ATD est en parti responsable de l’échec et de l’humiliation reçu par ces gens. Excellent commentaire d’Alphonsi.Cet article est puant par son manque d’objectivité. On fait passer la « pauvre » famille pour des martyrs et le cadre ATD pour un justicier des opprimés. Il aurait été préférable selon moi de fournir a ces gens de quoi se vêtir convenablement et de quoi se laver avant de les emmener au musée. Par respect pour eux mêmes. Le cadre ATD est en parti responsable de l’échec et de l’humiliation reçu par ces gens.

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