Comments for Em & Lo: Sex. Love. And Everything in Between. http://www.emandlo.com Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Tue, 25 Nov 2014 19:35:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Your Call: Do I HAVE to Go to My Partner’s Family Thanksgiving? by Johnny http://www.emandlo.com/2014/11/your-call-do-i-have-to-go-to-my-partners-family-thanksgiving/comment-page-1/#comment-74816 Johnny Tue, 25 Nov 2014 19:35:05 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=30893#comment-74816 ^ No, don't do that. You don't walk into someone else's house insisting on anything. If you can't live with their rules, you stay home. ^ No, don’t do that. You don’t walk into someone else’s house insisting on anything. If you can’t live with their rules, you stay home.

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Comment on Your Call: My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm by Janelle http://www.emandlo.com/2012/09/your-call-my-husband-wont-even-try-to-give-me-an-orgasm/comment-page-1/#comment-74815 Janelle Tue, 25 Nov 2014 16:35:58 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=20389#comment-74815 Going through the same thing with my boyfriend of 6 years. Our sex life has been fabulous and satisfying but for the last 2 month.... since I've moved into his home. All he wants is oral sex. I will oblige thinking I too will be satisfied by oral or other. However lately he will reach orgasm and then he rolls over soon to be snoring. Knowing he is sound asleep I head to the shower with my vibrator... im getting sick and tried of the plastic and not having his touch. No children involved and I need to feel a man's desire for me. I read the previous comments and taking my options in. Going through the same thing with my boyfriend of 6 years. Our sex life has been fabulous and satisfying but for the last 2 month…. since I’ve moved into his home. All he wants is oral sex. I will oblige thinking I too will be satisfied by oral or other. However lately he will reach orgasm and then he rolls over soon to be snoring. Knowing he is sound asleep I head to the shower with my vibrator… im getting sick and tried of the plastic and not having his touch. No children involved and I need to feel a man’s desire for me. I read the previous comments and taking my options in.

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Comment on Your Call: Do I HAVE to Go to My Partner’s Family Thanksgiving? by Inness http://www.emandlo.com/2014/11/your-call-do-i-have-to-go-to-my-partners-family-thanksgiving/comment-page-1/#comment-74814 Inness Tue, 25 Nov 2014 07:24:32 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=30893#comment-74814 If I were in your shoes, I would go, but ONLY if I really, really loved the guy. Otherwise, I would politely bow out. I think you're well within your rights. If you DO go, insist on sharing a room. If I were in your shoes, I would go, but ONLY if I really, really loved the guy. Otherwise, I would politely bow out. I think you’re well within your rights. If you DO go, insist on sharing a room.

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Comment on Top 10 Reasons for Being – and Staying – Non-Monogamous by Lou http://www.emandlo.com/2010/10/top-10-reasons-for-being-and-staying-non-monogamous/comment-page-1/#comment-74813 Lou Tue, 25 Nov 2014 04:48:45 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=12756#comment-74813 Interesting article. My wife brought her best friend into our marriage because she was not into some of the sexual things that I was into. As one poster said, she was glad for her space. Our triad lasted 28 years and our marriage is now in its 43rd year. Funny how it did not seem strange or out of the ordinary while we were living a poly lifestyle. It was just our normal life. We provided each other with something that any of us could provide on our own. We have had a glorious and wonderful life. Interesting article. My wife brought her best friend into our marriage because she was not into some of the sexual things that I was into. As one poster said, she was glad for her space. Our triad lasted 28 years and our marriage is now in its 43rd year. Funny how it did not seem strange or out of the ordinary while we were living a poly lifestyle. It was just our normal life. We provided each other with something that any of us could provide on our own. We have had a glorious and wonderful life.

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Comment on Your Call: My Husband Isn’t Interested in Sex with Me by Lori http://www.emandlo.com/2013/02/your-call-my-husband-isnt-interested-in-sex-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-74812 Lori Tue, 25 Nov 2014 03:37:49 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=22901#comment-74812 I have been married 10 years and am sick of always "begging" for sex. I am to the point where I am way too young to let someone that has an issue with sex on his part for me to just "settle" because we are married. I am filing for a divorce and will just date and have as much sex as I can until I don't want it anymore. It's a bunch of crap that people tell you "it's not your fault but have you tried to do....." blah blah blah. Men are just lazy and don't care if their wife is unhappy. All they care about is themselves... UNLESS they find another women that turns them on, then they are sex animals 24-7 until they get bored again. I have been married 10 years and am sick of always “begging” for sex. I am to the point where I am way too young to let someone that has an issue with sex on his part for me to just “settle” because we are married. I am filing for a divorce and will just date and have as much sex as I can until I don’t want it anymore. It’s a bunch of crap that people tell you “it’s not your fault but have you tried to do…..” blah blah blah. Men are just lazy and don’t care if their wife is unhappy. All they care about is themselves… UNLESS they find another women that turns them on, then they are sex animals 24-7 until they get bored again.

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Comment on Your Call: Do I HAVE to Go to My Partner’s Family Thanksgiving? by JK http://www.emandlo.com/2014/11/your-call-do-i-have-to-go-to-my-partners-family-thanksgiving/comment-page-1/#comment-74811 JK Mon, 24 Nov 2014 23:01:25 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=30893#comment-74811 Being in a "long" relationship (is six months the cut-off?) means doing a lot of things that you may not want to do. And it goes both ways. Talk it out with him without telling him the whole truth. Not going may cause more problems and hurt than it's worth. You may not live it down if he expects you to go and you pass. If you go, try and find someone there who's pleasant and easy to talk to. That'll help pass the time. Have a big glass of wine if necessary. And above all, remember Thanksgiving is a time for Family and for giving thanks. Being in a “long” relationship (is six months the cut-off?) means doing a lot of things that you may not want to do. And it goes both ways. Talk it out with him without telling him the whole truth. Not going may cause more problems and hurt than it’s worth. You may not live it down if he expects you to go and you pass. If you go, try and find someone there who’s pleasant and easy to talk to. That’ll help pass the time. Have a big glass of wine if necessary. And above all, remember Thanksgiving is a time for Family and for giving thanks.

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Comment on Your Call: Do I HAVE to Go to My Partner’s Family Thanksgiving? by J http://www.emandlo.com/2014/11/your-call-do-i-have-to-go-to-my-partners-family-thanksgiving/comment-page-1/#comment-74810 J Mon, 24 Nov 2014 18:28:53 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=30893#comment-74810 I mean, is the food gonna be good? Bc if the food is gonna be, like, really good, it might be worth it. Plus, it could shed some light on whether you would want to deal with this family forever, just in case he starts to seem like the one. I mean, is the food gonna be good? Bc if the food is gonna be, like, really good, it might be worth it.

Plus, it could shed some light on whether you would want to deal with this family forever, just in case he starts to seem like the one.

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Comment on Your Call: Do I HAVE to Go to My Partner’s Family Thanksgiving? by Johnny http://www.emandlo.com/2014/11/your-call-do-i-have-to-go-to-my-partners-family-thanksgiving/comment-page-1/#comment-74809 Johnny Mon, 24 Nov 2014 14:37:55 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=30893#comment-74809 Nah, I don't think you're obligated to go at only 8 months of semi-serious dating. Particularly if you "really, really don't want to". I can't promise that your boyfriend or his family will see it the same way though. As for his family's values, try to look past it. Separate rooms seems a bit old-fashioned, but unless they're nasty, judgmental, critical jerks about their beliefs, try not to hold their opinions against them. Nah, I don’t think you’re obligated to go at only 8 months of semi-serious dating. Particularly if you “really, really don’t want to”. I can’t promise that your boyfriend or his family will see it the same way though.

As for his family’s values, try to look past it. Separate rooms seems a bit old-fashioned, but unless they’re nasty, judgmental, critical jerks about their beliefs, try not to hold their opinions against them.

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Comment on Dear Dr. Kate: Can the Cervix Get Hurt During Intercourse? by Busisiwe http://www.emandlo.com/2012/01/dear-dr-kate-can-the-cervix-get-hurt-during-intercourse/comment-page-1/#comment-74808 Busisiwe Mon, 24 Nov 2014 08:41:37 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=17403#comment-74808 My boyfriend has a big penis, i enjoy having sex wit him but most of the time it hurts and i will go straight to my period the day after we had sex, im worried that maybe my cervix will be damage or something else might be affected. My boyfriend has a big penis, i enjoy having sex wit him but most of the time it hurts and i will go straight to my period the day after we had sex, im worried that maybe my cervix will be damage or something else might be affected.

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Comment on Wise Guys: Do Men Have Multiple Orgasms? by Jimmy http://www.emandlo.com/2010/04/wise-guys-do-men-have-multiple-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-74807 Jimmy Mon, 24 Nov 2014 05:28:59 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=9262#comment-74807 I'm not the only one! I’m not the only one!

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