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Sat, 25 Oct 2014 16:09:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Confession: I Like the Sounds of Sex by Ellyn http://www.emandlo.com/2011/03/confession-i-like-the-sounds-of-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-74671 Ellyn Sat, 25 Oct 2014 16:09:09 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=13906#comment-74671 Have never believed in the supernatural or talk less of spell or even voodoo.In my head there was nothing on earth that was ever going to get me involved in such thing but life as we know throw s**t at your door and some how the doors opens up and let it strike you.************* About five years ago if anyone had asked me if i trust my twin sister with my life, believe me i would bet my life on it that i can.I couldn't even bring myself to think that my twin sister can put a knife at my back Yes i know everything about our childhood and youth age was always about who is better that who in everything and frankly i was better that me in academic aspect of life.I was smarter more skilled that her but this ought to be no reason to want to have every guy that was dating me or should it? cos the last i checked twin protect themselves not try and hurt the other.That was what my twin sister is all about.Even though we looked identical she was cuter than i was.She had her way around boys more that i did.Like she knew how to get what she want in whatever way she wanted it from both boys and girls.I don't know, she had a way or rather she was good at messing around with peoples brain not like in a psychic way, it was more like all about her body.In other words you can say she was very sexy, attractive and hard to resist.I have always had to work very had to get what i want but she, things just falls in her lap without having to labor for it.She falls for every guy she knows i like.I mean every guy i dated in high school broke up with me to date her and it was really hurtful for me.I thought it was just high school and boys cos in college it wasn't like that and for the first time in forever, not that i thought but the comparison between us over.Some how the old life we had arose again this time it happen that the guy my sister fell for, fell for me and i fell for him also i made sure it was okay with her before i went on the first date with him.I don't want this to seem like a story so i will just cut to the chase.My twin sister was having an affair with my long time boyfriend the every guy one we both fell for but picked me.I mean i only found out the day he told me was no longer want to be with me that he was in love with my twin sister and he has been cheating on me with her.This was after four year of dating.I was heart broken and i wished to God that he had told me he was sleeping with me and my twin sister when our relationship was still young i would have like always, backed down and let them bask in what ever they think they were doing.But no they waited and in the process i fell deeply in love with him.I mean who wouldn't fall for him he was cute caring and always knew what to say at the right time.I know i ought to have been mad at him for what he did but i was more mad at my sister for what she did cos i mean if she had turned him down he would have left her on her own and she was not even sorry for what she did to me. she became my twin sister in high school all again wanting to hurt and ruin my life steal the man i love.Heaven knew i was in love with this guy and hating him was not even an option for me all the hatred was channeled to my twin sister cos some how she made him hers.I lived in pain for a whole year having to see her face every family thanksgiving day with the man i love sitting side by side kissing him and hugging maybe to piss me off or something it only made me hate her more and more desperate to get my boyfriend back.I got him back finally yes i did, but i can fail to say i did not use the normal way. Metodo Acamu help me cast a spell to kill their relationship and rekindle ours to how we were before they started their affair.In case you asking asking yourself how possible it is believe me i don't know and won't tell you i understand cos like i said i never in my life thought it would result to me using a spell or something but there is one thing i know is that the spell worked for me and made my love fall in love with me again.There not much i can say to emphasize how the spell worked all i know is that i was asked to get some materials for the spell of which i was to buy and go present the materials myself to Metodo Acamu or send over or send the expenditure to him to get the materials need for the spell.To me it was less expensive to wire the cash to him to get the materials cos they are the expert in it.But i know in the end METODO ACAMU pulled through with the spell and made me whole again.Like honestly my main purpose for writing this was to let those out there know that other comment about METODO on the internet is really cos here i am tell you my story it can get anymore real than it is already.I can never forgive my twin sister even though i have got my love back.Use this email address as METODO ACAMU contact metodoacamufortressx@yahoo.com Have never believed in the supernatural or talk less of spell or even voodoo.In my head there was nothing on earth that was ever going to get me involved in such thing but life as we know throw s**t at your door and some how the doors opens up and let it strike you.************* About five years ago if anyone had asked me if i trust my twin sister with my life, believe me i would bet my life on it that i can.I couldn’t even bring myself to think that my twin sister can put a knife at my back Yes i know everything about our childhood and youth age was always about who is better that who in everything and frankly i was better that me in academic aspect of life.I was smarter more skilled that her but this ought to be no reason to want to have every guy that was dating me or should it? cos the last i checked twin protect themselves not try and hurt the other.That was what my twin sister is all about.Even though we looked identical she was cuter than i was.She had her way around boys more that i did.Like she knew how to get what she want in whatever way she wanted it from both boys and girls.I don’t know, she had a way or rather she was good at messing around with peoples brain not like in a psychic way, it was more like all about her body.In other words you can say she was very sexy, attractive and hard to resist.I have always had to work very had to get what i want but she, things just falls in her lap without having to labor for it.She falls for every guy she knows i like.I mean every guy i dated in high school broke up with me to date her and it was really hurtful for me.I thought it was just high school and boys cos in college it wasn’t like that and for the first time in forever, not that i thought but the comparison between us over.Some how the old life we had arose again this time it happen that the guy my sister fell for, fell for me and i fell for him also i made sure it was okay with her before i went on the first date with him.I don’t want this to seem like a story so i will just cut to the chase.My twin sister was having an affair with my long time boyfriend the every guy one we both fell for but picked me.I mean i only found out the day he told me was no longer want to be with me that he was in love with my twin sister and he has been cheating on me with her.This was after four year of dating.I was heart broken and i wished to God that he had told me he was sleeping with me and my twin sister when our relationship was still young i would have like always, backed down and let them bask in what ever they think they were doing.But no they waited and in the process i fell deeply in love with him.I mean who wouldn’t fall for him he was cute caring and always knew what to say at the right time.I know i ought to have been mad at him for what he did but i was more mad at my sister for what she did cos i mean if she had turned him down he would have left her on her own and she was not even sorry for what she did to me. she became my twin sister in high school all again wanting to hurt and ruin my life steal the man i love.Heaven knew i was in love with this guy and hating him was not even an option for me all the hatred was channeled to my twin sister cos some how she made him hers.I lived in pain for a whole year having to see her face every family thanksgiving day with the man i love sitting side by side kissing him and hugging maybe to piss me off or something it only made me hate her more and more desperate to get my boyfriend back.I got him back finally yes i did, but i can fail to say i did not use the normal way. Metodo Acamu help me cast a spell to kill their relationship and rekindle ours to how we were before they started their affair.In case you asking asking yourself how possible it is believe me i don’t know and won’t tell you i understand cos like i said i never in my life thought it would result to me using a spell or something but there is one thing i know is that the spell worked for me and made my love fall in love with me again.There not much i can say to emphasize how the spell worked all i know is that i was asked to get some materials for the spell of which i was to buy and go present the materials myself to Metodo Acamu or send over or send the expenditure to him to get the materials need for the spell.To me it was less expensive to wire the cash to him to get the materials cos they are the expert in it.But i know in the end METODO ACAMU pulled through with the spell and made me whole again.Like honestly my main purpose for writing this was to let those out there know that other comment about METODO on the internet is really cos here i am tell you my story it can get anymore real than it is already.I can never forgive my twin sister even though i have got my love back.Use this email address as METODO ACAMU contact metodoacamufortressx@yahoo.com

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Comment on The 10 Saddest Things About Being Single by Nikki http://www.emandlo.com/2014/10/the-10-saddest-things-about-being-single/comment-page-1/#comment-74668 Nikki Sat, 25 Oct 2014 05:59:05 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=30499#comment-74668 You're not just lonely. You're depressed. I have been lonely for a long time, so I "get it." But I never succumbed to the kind of despair that oozes out of this piece. A month without being touched? Do you never hug your friends? Your family? Hell, I got massages not just for my tense back, but for an hour of human touch. You need a good therapist more than you need a partner right now. I really hope you can manage to pull yourself out of this darkness. This is not the kind of thing a romantic relationship can fix. You’re not just lonely. You’re depressed. I have been lonely for a long time, so I “get it.” But I never succumbed to the kind of despair that oozes out of this piece. A month without being touched? Do you never hug your friends? Your family? Hell, I got massages not just for my tense back, but for an hour of human touch. You need a good therapist more than you need a partner right now. I really hope you can manage to pull yourself out of this darkness. This is not the kind of thing a romantic relationship can fix.

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Comment on Your Call: My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm by notgivingup http://www.emandlo.com/2012/09/your-call-my-husband-wont-even-try-to-give-me-an-orgasm/comment-page-1/#comment-74667 notgivingup Fri, 24 Oct 2014 23:08:37 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=20389#comment-74667 I am sad to see so many of us in the same boat . I do feel that a man should automatically be willing to give of himself in the bedroom , and that he should take pleasure in the knowledge that he is making his woman happy....sex is a sacred act, taking the man you love into your body , it's as close as you can get without donating an organ to each other . When my bf and I started making love I was thrilled with his slow and sensuous style , my ex had never understood that I need it slow to climax. After three years , I am still incredibly attracted to him, don't want to cheat bc I only want him, love his body and moves but growing ever more angry at his lack of concern for my pleasure . He had never given oral before me so I asked that he try it bc I refuse to do without. To his credit he researched online for techniques and brought his own sensual style to the table , and I expected it to be kind of bad while he learned but it was the best oral I have ever had . So what's the problem right ? For one he rarely does it, if I ask he will but I want him to want to taste me. My ex once came giving me oral and while I was slightly frustrated it was mostly a huge ego boost. I felt like I was important enough and so sexy that my pleasure sparked his....I would like to have that feeling with the man I love today. I often give him oral,no need to ask me, I love giving him pleasure . ..I touch his dick and stroke it and I would happily explore his body with touch, taste, everything , for hours. I want the same from him. We have sex daily and he has the habit now of putting my hand on his dick as we lay in bed watching tv, and then hopping up on me, a few kisses and then a few minutes of sex while he watches tv out of the corner of his eye. I feel like an unattractive , unloved, piece of meat. He is basically jerking off with my vagina. So why do I allow it? I have low self esteem I guess , I feel afraid to ask for what I want because if he rejects me I will be completely devastated. I have told him how I feel and he replied with , if you don't like it , there's the door . So with that comment he made me feel that I don't matter at all n he could give a shit if I stay or go. I don't believe he really feels that way , I think he reads into my comments that I'm dissatisfied incorrectly , thinking I am insulting him or his body or his ability . ..I'm not, at all. I adore him. He is as insecure as I am , but in a different way . So it's two people basically just settling for nothing bc I am afraid of demanding respect and love and perhaps he is afraid trying to give me the love I crave , afraid that he will give all of himself in the bedroom and I will still be unhappy . And then there is nothing left , n he will have failed . But the fact is , the only failure is not trying . Bc I would never be disappointed in him if he was simply focused on pleasing me. The willingness to care and show it intimately is all I need to be turned on. If he's touching my skin , then it's already perfect . If he's interested in what I like , I'm going to be amazed. I have a high sex drive too, I'm already turned on...I truly believe it's the knowledge of his indifference and my feelings of insecurity in the face of this that prevent my climax . I have to find a way to tell him he is great while telling him that he has no chance of failure , and that I need him to love me better, without being emasculating, insulting , insensitive or overbearing . ..talking to men is like speaking swahili. But overall for all of us sex ally frustrated females we have to believe that we are worthy of love and respect . That's the hardest part of the whole thing . .. I am sad to see so many of us in the same boat . I do feel that a man should automatically be willing to give of himself in the bedroom , and that he should take pleasure in the knowledge that he is making his woman happy….sex is a sacred act, taking the man you love into your body , it’s as close as you can get without donating an organ to each other . When my bf and I started making love I was thrilled with his slow and sensuous style , my ex had never understood that I need it slow to climax. After three years , I am still incredibly attracted to him, don’t want to cheat bc I only want him, love his body and moves but growing ever more angry at his lack of concern for my pleasure . He had never given oral before me so I asked that he try it bc I refuse to do without. To his credit he researched online for techniques and brought his own sensual style to the table , and I expected it to be kind of bad while he learned but it was the best oral I have ever had . So what’s the problem right ? For one he rarely does it, if I ask he will but I want him to want to taste me. My ex once came giving me oral and while I was slightly frustrated it was mostly a huge ego boost. I felt like I was important enough and so sexy that my pleasure sparked his….I would like to have that feeling with the man I love today. I often give him oral,no need to ask me, I love giving him pleasure . ..I touch his dick and stroke it and I would happily explore his body with touch, taste, everything , for hours. I want the same from him. We have sex daily and he has the habit now of putting my hand on his dick as we lay in bed watching tv, and then hopping up on me, a few kisses and then a few minutes of sex while he watches tv out of the corner of his eye. I feel like an unattractive , unloved, piece of meat. He is basically jerking off with my vagina. So why do I allow it? I have low self esteem I guess , I feel afraid to ask for what I want because if he rejects me I will be completely devastated. I have told him how I feel and he replied with , if you don’t like it , there’s the door . So with that comment he made me feel that I don’t matter at all n he could give a shit if I stay or go. I don’t believe he really feels that way , I think he reads into my comments that I’m dissatisfied incorrectly , thinking I am insulting him or his body or his ability . ..I’m not, at all. I adore him. He is as insecure as I am , but in a different way . So it’s two people basically just settling for nothing bc I am afraid of demanding respect and love and perhaps he is afraid trying to give me the love I crave , afraid that he will give all of himself in the bedroom and I will still be unhappy . And then there is nothing left , n he will have failed . But the fact is , the only failure is not trying . Bc I would never be disappointed in him if he was simply focused on pleasing me. The willingness to care and show it intimately is all I need to be turned on. If he’s touching my skin , then it’s already perfect . If he’s interested in what I like , I’m going to be amazed. I have a high sex drive too, I’m already turned on…I truly believe it’s the knowledge of his indifference and my feelings of insecurity in the face of this that prevent my climax . I have to find a way to tell him he is great while telling him that he has no chance of failure , and that I need him to love me better, without being emasculating, insulting , insensitive or overbearing . ..talking to men is like speaking swahili. But overall for all of us sex ally frustrated females we have to believe that we are worthy of love and respect . That’s the hardest part of the whole thing . ..

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Comment on Why No Blowjobs Can Be a Dealbreaker for Men by Derek http://www.emandlo.com/2014/10/why-no-blowjobs-can-be-a-dealbreaker-for-men/comment-page-1/#comment-74666 Derek Fri, 24 Oct 2014 18:19:11 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=30431#comment-74666 :D I cannot express how honored I feel to have my post featured. There is a big smile on my face! Hopefully, the post helped some people understand things a bit better. You bring up good points about cunnilingus, and I highly encourage anyone who loves female bodied people to gleefully engage in it at every opportunity. :D

I cannot express how honored I feel to have my post featured. There is a big smile on my face! Hopefully, the post helped some people understand things a bit better.

You bring up good points about cunnilingus, and I highly encourage anyone who loves female bodied people to gleefully engage in it at every opportunity.

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Comment on Where Can We Swing with Other Grownups (Minus the A-Holes)? by Jone's http://www.emandlo.com/2014/09/where-can-we-swing-with-other-grownups-minus-the-a-holes/comment-page-1/#comment-74665 Jone's Fri, 24 Oct 2014 17:14:35 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=29927#comment-74665 NYC Swingers Club... Thanks, I think we will have to give that a try next chance we have to get kinky in the City. NYC Swingers Club…

Thanks, I think we will have to give that a try next chance we have to get kinky in the City.

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Comment on What’s the Difference Between a Sugar Daddy and a John? by Anonymous http://www.emandlo.com/2011/08/whats-the-difference-between-a-sugar-daddy-and-a-john/comment-page-1/#comment-74664 Anonymous Thu, 23 Oct 2014 21:19:22 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=15678#comment-74664 It's really sad that a man's natural instinct to provide for a woman has been reduced to this. I think it's perfectly natural for a woman to want to have sex with a man who takes care of her. Nothing in life is free, and men value sex. Period. That's why they offer something for it. Smart women know this and either accept the provision or reject it based on whether or not they want to reciprocate. There's nothing wrong with it...only the way people perverse it and destroy it. Like everything else they put their hands on in the natural world. It’s really sad that a man’s natural instinct to provide for a woman has been reduced to this. I think it’s perfectly natural for a woman to want to have sex with a man who takes care of her.

Nothing in life is free, and men value sex. Period. That’s why they offer something for it. Smart women know this and either accept the provision or reject it based on whether or not they want to reciprocate. There’s nothing wrong with it…only the way people perverse it and destroy it. Like everything else they put their hands on in the natural world.

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Comment on Why No Blowjobs Can Be a Dealbreaker for Men by John L http://www.emandlo.com/2014/10/why-no-blowjobs-can-be-a-dealbreaker-for-men/comment-page-1/#comment-74663 John L Thu, 23 Oct 2014 12:08:25 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=30431#comment-74663 This is a very interesting debate. I was separated from my wife for about a year. During that time, I met several woman. Many of those woman had expressed a strong desire to receive oral sex. Being fairly open about things, and having some very frank discussions on the subject, I learned how much most women enjoyed oral sex. It seemed to me, most women where able to orgasm during oral. And, to me, there is is nothing more of a turn on, than turning on a women! Nothing! During that time of my life, I was asked several times by different women, about what turns me on? My response was always the same. Turning you on is the hottest thing on the planet! Yes, I really enjoy receiving as well, and I agree with the above post, who described just being able to relax, and not worry about performance issues is very true. I think it's the same for women. Since then, I have reunited with my wife, one of the the most beautiful, sexual people on this planet (see my previous post: "how to fall in love with your wife again"). She loves oral, and I would gladly provide her with it every single day, if called upon. This is a very interesting debate. I was separated from my wife for about a year. During that time, I met several woman. Many of those woman had expressed a strong desire to receive oral sex. Being fairly open about things, and having some very frank discussions on the subject, I learned how much most women enjoyed oral sex. It seemed to me, most women where able to orgasm during oral. And, to me, there is is nothing more of a turn on, than turning on a women! Nothing! During that time of my life, I was asked several times by different women, about what turns me on? My response was always the same. Turning you on is the hottest thing on the planet! Yes, I really enjoy receiving as well, and I agree with the above post, who described just being able to relax, and not worry about performance issues is very true. I think it’s the same for women. Since then, I have reunited with my wife, one of the the most beautiful, sexual people on this planet (see my previous post: “how to fall in love with your wife again”). She loves oral, and I would gladly provide her with it every single day, if called upon.

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Comment on Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed? by Kevin Millsap http://www.emandlo.com/2010/06/your-call-hes-kinky-shes-vanilla-is-the-relationship-doomed/comment-page-2/#comment-74662 Kevin Millsap Thu, 23 Oct 2014 05:59:31 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=10509#comment-74662 Oklahoma has a law and that was way before marriage equality for same sex marriages are, for the way it's supposed to do the Christian thing and repeal these consensual sex laws and our minds. As if puberty isn't rough enough, back in good 'ol NC, it is considered to have sex on Sunday, Wednesday and Friday the holy trinity of the Napoleonic wars. New measures against child prostitution are also expected on rape laws, anyone found guilty of being legislated, but. Oklahoma has a law and that was way before marriage equality for same sex marriages
are, for the way it’s supposed to do the Christian thing and repeal these consensual sex laws and our minds.
As if puberty isn’t rough enough, back in good ‘ol NC, it
is considered to have sex on Sunday, Wednesday
and Friday the holy trinity of the Napoleonic wars.

New measures against child prostitution are also expected on rape laws, anyone
found guilty of being legislated, but.

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Comment on Top 10 Ways to Make Oral Sex More Fun for Both Partners by annonces football http://www.emandlo.com/2013/03/top-10-ways-to-make-oral-sex-more-fun-for-both-partners/comment-page-1/#comment-74661 annonces football Thu, 23 Oct 2014 01:30:04 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=23127#comment-74661 This tendency is sometimes bringing an improvement in the office look but in majority of the cases affecting the vivacity in the office. With an extensive research on the conventional to modern office furniture designs available in the market, on can easily give a personalize touch to his office & make it look exceptional. It complements the theme of the decoration and acts as the focal point of the room around which all the other items are arranged. This tendency is sometimes bringing an improvement
in the office look but in majority of the cases affecting the vivacity in the office.
With an extensive research on the conventional to modern office
furniture designs available in the market, on can easily give a personalize touch to his office & make it look exceptional.
It complements the theme of the decoration and
acts as the focal point of the room around which all the other items
are arranged.

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Comment on Crush of the Week: Potty-Mouthed Princesses Drop F-Bombs for Feminism by Em+&+Lo http://www.emandlo.com/2014/10/crush-of-the-week-potty-mouthed-princesses-drop-f-bombs-for-feminism/comment-page-1/#comment-74660 Em+&+Lo Thu, 23 Oct 2014 01:27:43 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=30480#comment-74660 Oh Johnny, just when we thought you could do or say no wrong! Oh well, nobody's perfect. all our love, Em & fucking Lo Oh Johnny, just when we thought you could do or say no wrong! Oh well, nobody’s perfect.
all our love,
Em & fucking Lo

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