Once a month, Dr. Joe DeOrio, a urologist in Chicago, answers your questions on male sexual health. To ask him your own question, click here.
Dear Dr. Joe,
Is there any harm in taking Viagra recreationally?
— Asking for “a friend”
Dear AFAF,
So you wanna be a stud? Read this section before the erection…
The release of Viagra gave rise to a sexual revolution of sorts, and has helped a generation of aging males reignite their carnal passions. Off-label use has also afforded us some much better-looking male porn stars… and a whole cohort of young men trying to be them.
And therein lies the topic of today’s discussion. Namely, what is the risk of recreationally using Viagra? Viagra isn’t always everyone’s first choice of recreational drug. Usually, marijuana, drinks, and edibles are more popular for recreational use, or sometimes even stronger drugs, but each to their own. For a more relaxed occasion, people would indulge in marijuana but if you’re looking for a good and frisky time, it’s understandable why Viagra is the choice here. Viagra is a prescription pharmaceutical of the PDE5-inhibitor class. It was originally developed as an antihypertensive, a medication used for lowering high blood pressure. It never truly achieved its intended purpose and was discontinued. When test subjects were asked to return their unused medicine, however, they all refused. Inquiries revealed that this poorly functioning blood pressure medication had a very interesting and marketable side effect: it improved men’s erecti. Viagra was born, and the rest is history.
Viagra is marketed to aging men with erectile dysfunction, primarily over the age of 55. But, the recreational use of Viagra by young men without erectile dysfunction is rising. In fact, its use by men aged 18-45 has increased three-fold since its release in 1998. Many of these men have no physiologic problems, and are using the drug for presumed sexual performance enhancement.
So, are these men enhanced? Are they Superstars of Virility? Not really. First, let’s look at what you can expect. Viagra will not enlarge your penis. It won’t improve your stamina. And it won’t decrease premature ejaculation. It will, however, decrease your refractory time, the time required to achieve a subsequent erection after ejaculation. And it will allow a firmer erection with less stimulation. So, you might be able to have sex more times in the same night, and with a partner to whom you are less attracted. Sound good?
Before you start popping the blue diamonds, understand that this male superpower comes at a cost as well, and I am not just referring to the stiff price of the pill itself. Common side effects include headache, increased heart rate, stuffy nose, facial flushing, blurred vision, and heartburn. Most men will experience one or more of these symptoms. There’s also a very low risk for priapism, an abnormal erection that won’t go down. It may be rare, but treatment for this complication begins with a large needle in the side of the penis, and can end in permanent impotence. And if you’ve watched TV in the last ten years, you may already be familiar with the interaction between Viagra and nitrate medications. It’s fairly unlikely that a young male would be taking a nitrate medication (usually used for cardiac-related chest pain), but the combination can cause a fatal drop in blood pressure.
Still willing to take the plunge, Casanova? As a doctor, I would advise against it. But since I know the number of people who actually follow their doctor’s recommendations, I would be remiss if I didn’t give you some advice. First off, please see a doctor before trying any medication. This is especially true if you have a history of cardiovascular problems or strokes.
Second, don’t combine the medication with alcohol or street drugs. Although there are not any well-documented interactions between Viagra and alcohol or illicit narcotics, combining multiple drugs is rarely a good idea. And there are case reports of cocaine and ecstasy causing priapism — why compound that risk?
Moreover, while under the influence of mind altering substances, “limp dick” often prevented a man from undertaking some poorly-conceived (and often risky) behavior. Viagra just might enable you to make some mistakes you’ll later regret. Thirdly, while its use is generally safe for the young male, repeated use can potentially lead to psychological addiction. Just like any performance-enhancing drug or routine, the user can come to mentally depend upon it, even if it is not physically needed. In my mind, this is the single greatest risk of recreational Viagra use.
Finally, really try to understand that Viagra most certainly won’t make you a better lover. Any man worth his salt, and all women, knows that the height of sexual ecstasy is not some dude endlessly pounding away, despite what those male porn stars would have you believe.
— Dr. Joe
Dr. Joe earned his undergraduate degree in Molecular Biology from Princeton University. After attending the Loyola University Stritch School of Medicine, he completed his residency training in urological surgery at the Los Angeles County Medical Center. He lives and works in Chicago, IL. Keep an eye out for his upcoming blog at docjoe.net.
Just want to say I appreciate your candidness. I wish my local doctor would just tell me I’m better off with “limp dick”
So i just met this girl and she wants me to come over and have sex and she really likes me. My penis will get hard and go limp after a few minutes but sometimes it doesn’t. If I try viagra one time will it damage me at all.
completely agree with Kidder Kaper. while I do always ” come first” (my husband is fantastic with the oral) I prefer for him to “pound away” when we’re having sex. Everyone is different,but once i’m relaxed and naturally lubed-I am ready to take it all and would not be able to come a second time if he just did a namby pamby in out for a little bit.
While I understand what you are trying to do with this advice and even agree with much of it, I must disagree with just a few minor points. Everyone on our staff, and a very high number of our listeners who report trying Viagra or Cialis do notice that their time to ejaculation is much longer. Many report feeling as though they do feel as though they have more control over delaying their orgasm.
You probably should have mentioned that younger men experimenting with these can take significantly smaller doses of these meds, and that these have been used successfully not only by men with physiological conditions but also purely psychological anxiety that keeps them from achieving or maintaining erections. While I agree that they should talk to their doctors to get these meds, your candor isn’t going to make them feel comfortable doing so. This article made men scared that if they try to talk to their doctors, they’ll encounter a sarcastic and snarky jerk that will more likely make fun of them then help them with their medical and sexual problems.
Lastly, though I agree that not all women or even a majority of them get off from hard pounding, some of them do. My wife is one of them and I’m tired all the “She Comes First” zellots invalidating the enjoyment and thrill that can be had from a goodly amount of deep hard thrusting.
“Any man worth his salt, and all women, knows that the height of sexual ecstasy is not some dude endlessly pounding away, despite what those male porn stars would have you believe.”
THANK YOU!
idk my guy, I’ve had girls come multiple times on one good ole’ fashioned “pounding away”, as you call it
it may not be for everyone but some girls like it