Do You Have Good Playdar?

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Playdar is the casual sex equivalent of gaydar: when your sixth sense tells you that the person you’re dry-humping on the dance floor will be more than amenable to your dirty suggestion, whether that’s joining you and your partner for a threeway, dressing up in a leotard and leg warmers and riding you like a balance beam, or simply coming back to your place and going “all the way.”

So tell us: Do you have good playdar? Or do your dirty suggestions more often end up with an overpriced cocktail in a plastic cup thrown in your face? Embarrassing stories in the comments section, please…

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9 Comments on "Do You Have Good Playdar?"

Mary W
6 years 2 months ago

I don’t really understand what playdar mean i enjoy sex in lot of different positions i am straight don’t go for kinky stuff so i would like to know what playdar mean if maybe its kinky.

6 years 2 months ago

Do women need this? Guys don’t very have delicate sensibilities. I usually come on offensively lewd/ like I’m in a porno, and the only guy who’s ever shut me down did so because he was 10 years my senior. Like C said though, girls are harder.

I don’t need playdar… how do you sense that a guy is not only willing to hook up, but has respect for sexually aggressive women? I need that.

6 years 3 months ago

I’m good at the playdar, but I can’t destinguish people wanting to play, and people wanting to commit. It’s a problem!

6 years 3 months ago

I can usually tell pretty easily, but that rarely means I’m actually interested in the dude! I use it to gauge whether I need to cool things down on the dance floor or at the bar to avoid an awkward rejection scenario later.

6 years 3 months ago

hopefully i’m clueless. Either i’m clueless, or no one is interested. i only see someone that i think might be interested once in a great while.