Dream Interpretation: Do My Lesbian Dreams Mean I’m Bi?

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

So I’ve been having a lot of wet dreams lately. That fact I find normal. But it’s who I’m having them with that I’m curious about.  For some reason they are always with women.  Recently I’ve even had a dream about a steamy encounter with one of my best girlfriends.  Does that mean I am bi-curious or is that normal?

lauri_loewenberg_100Lauri: If having a naughty dream about the same gender meant you were bi-curious, why we’d all be AC/DC!  So to answer your question, yes. T’is quite normal indeed.  In my research, it is not uncommon for same gender sex dreams to come in waves or spells such as yours.  This is not unlike having a wave of say, falling dreams.  In fact, I’ve personally been having a wave of fire dreams! The reason dream themes sometimes come in waves is because the issue or behavior they are connected to goes on for as long as the dreams do.  That being said, let’s see if we can’t figure out what is triggering these girl-on-girl dreams for you.

The first thing you have to keep in mind is that sex dreams are not usually about sex at all but rather a uniting or merging of ideas, mindsets or energies.   Random or unknown women often represent female or yin energy, which is typically creativity, sensitivity, the ability to nurture and to be a good listener… the qualities generally associated with women.  Lesbian dreams are VERY common with pregnant women, for example, because there is nothing more “feminine” than being in incubator mode.  Have you been particularly creative, nurturing or sensitive lately?

Now let’s look at your friend.  Only you know for sure if you secretly desire her lady garden, but odds are this dream came at a time when the two of you had some sort of meeting of the minds, when the two of you really “came together” on some level, or perhaps put up a united front about something.  You may have even recently taken on one of her behaviors or qualities as your own, you may have merged a part of her into you.  Whatever the case, the dream is a really good sign that you two are definitely on the same wave length!

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26 Comments on "Dream Interpretation: Do My Lesbian Dreams Mean I’m Bi?"

3 months 17 days ago

Okay so about 7 months ago my sisters friend and I were watching a movie together in my bed she started feeling up on my leggings. I think I’m straight but she got me wet when she rubbed me. Last night I had a wet dream of her. We were hanging out and then we took a shower together and she rubbed me again. But I have a boyfriend and I also have wet dreams about him. Am I bisexual or is it just a phase? Also why now why 7 months from then?

5 months 20 days ago

I had a dream that i was at a scatboarding cort and a girl kept staring at me and she would try to talk to me but i would ignore her and when we are walking out, she grabed me and she asked for my name and i gave her my name and she said that she really liked me. So i asked her if she was bi or lesbian and she said she was bisexual. And i told her i has bi too. And i went to her house and we started doing sexual thing. Am i bisexual?

6 months 19 days ago

Or someone has been watching a lot of porn.

Gloria Adotevi
6 months 19 days ago

Most of this dreams are from river spirits..
Read deeper into spiritual stuff…you will understand

7 months 22 days ago

I had this dream last night where I was play fighting in a costume with this other girl and she didn’t want to play fight anymore so I told her to kiss me to stop and she gave me a quick peck and I asked her to do a longer kiss and I can still feel the warmth of her breath and the softness of her lips. I was really into it and I even tried so hard going back to sleep but couldn’t finish of the dream. I couldn’t see her face but I was surprised that I was the dominant in this dream. I am 18years old and never been with a guy or a girl as my religion doesn’t agree with any intimate relationship before marriage. What do you guys think this dream could mean?