Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri:
I am a guy and often dream that I suckle breast milk. I am 27 years old now and get this dream very frequently. It has been happening for the past 4 years and slowly I have got obsessed to have it in real life. Can you tell me what could be the reason?
Lauri: Hopefully I can help you out before you get to the point of trolling in the park for breastfeeding mothers or wet nurses! This has been going on for four years, which means it is connected to something that began four years ago and is still happening or affecting you today.
Let’s get the obvious out of the way: for the past four years, have you been “suckling off the teat” of someone’s kindness and generosity? If so, your dream may be showing you that you’ve become a bit too comfortable in that role. It could also mean that you’ve been allowing someone to baby you too much. Is your mother doting on you more than she should? Are you in a relationship where your significant other mothers you rather than treats you as an equal? Or do you simply need to grow up and man up in some area of your life?
When you are able to pinpoint the cause and make the necessary changes, the dream will stop… however, me thinks thou art in no rush to do so!
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It could also be that you just want to try breastfeeding… I have always loved sucking on my wife’s nipples. After our second baby was born, one time when we were having sex and I was sucking on her she let down and I got some milk. It was amazing. It tasted good and she thought it felt good. That became a regular part of sex for us. Now our fourth and last was just weened and we decided that I should keep nursing at least once/day so that her milk stays. We play to keep it up for as many years as we can (we’re both early 30s now). It’s good for her figure, the longer she nurses she is statistically less likely to have breast cancer, it dress us emotionally closer and it tastes fantastic. Don’t necessarily lead off with it, but if you can find a women who’ll let you, I say go for it. Also, note that with enough stimulation and suckling it’s possible for a woman to relactate if she’s stopped to to start even if she’s never had kids…