2/28/13
Dream Interpretation: My Boyfriend and I Had the Same Dream

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

My boyfriend, who lives with me, and I had the same dream last night. He killed me, but was possessed while doing so. I’m sure the details in his dream were different than mine, but it was the same content.

My dream was one I’d had before. In my dream, another man tries to save me from my current boyfriend, but is unsuccessful and my boyfriend stabs me. The dream was very dark and dreary and also involved a train and a train station and skips to a party scene on the train.

In his dream he was possessed and stabbed me like 20 times and after the fact that I was dead he realized what he did and started balling and hugged my dead body until the police came.

The fact that we both dreamt the same thing on the same night is rather scary. Any thoughts?

Lauri: Yes, two people can have the same dream on the same night. It’s called shared dreaming and it usually happens to two people who are very close: husband and wife, best friends, mother and daughter, etc. The reason why is because the two individuals are dealing with the same issue and their subconscious responds to it similarly by giving them comparable dreams.

Now, let’s decipher these dreams and see if we can pinpoint the shared issue. Being stabbed in a dream often means you have been the victim of someone’s hurtful and wounding remarks. Do you recall if you and your boyfriend fought that day? Did he take a lot of “stabs” at you by criticizing you?

The fact that you’ve had this dream more than once concerns me that he may have an anger problem. Just as he was possessed in the dream, does it sometimes seem like some angry person had taken over his body? Is he sometimes not himself?

The murder aspect of these dreams suggests he may be trying to force some sort of change on you. Death in a dream is a natural change or ending in waking life whereas murder in a dream is a forced change or ending. The unknown man that was trying to rescue you in the dream is most likely your own male, assertive self. Do you recall trying to “grow a pair” and stand up for yourself that day… to no avail?

His remorse in the dream shows he’s truly sorry in waking life. Nonetheless, if there are changes he is trying to get you to make, you may wanna tell him to lighten up a bit about it because it’s giving you nightmares!

 

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  1. Me and my boyfriend who was currently in jail at the time, had the same dream. We both we’re rich on the low. He came to pick me and my son up from the gym. We got in the car and he asked mhee to go to Miami wit him. And I said yes. Then he immediately took me to the airport. He said it was already suitcases there and I didn’t have nothing but sweaty gym clothes in mhyy back pack. I asked was he gonna buy me more clothes when we get there and he said “yes bae”. But before we both had the dream, we always talked about the life that we wanted and how rich we were gonna be before he got locked up. And with him being in jail ii felt sick for a long time when he was there. What does it mean? Is he my soulmate?

  2. My boyfriend and I had the same dream last night. We dreamt about us having a child. He remembered the gender, I didn’t, and our details were different but the center point was the same. What could this mean? He said it’s the first dream he’s ever had about a child and it’s our first dream we ever experienced together.

  3. My ex partner and I had the same dream about shooting a particular guy we know in the forehead. We talk/fight alot as we want to be together but this man in our dreams is impacting us from doing that. In my I shot with a pistol and my ex’s dream it was a shot gun. Why is this happening??

  4. It was just after 1am when my daughter who is 10 comes to me and tells me she had a bad dream. I ask her what was it about. She said red scorpions. I say up and said interesting. See I was dreaming of red scorpions to just before she woke me up. The difference was her dream scared her as for me I was more interested in why they were there.
    She had been in the woods and moved a lot and there was a red scorpion. I was in a cave and the scorpions where everywhere.
    Her dream scared her so much that she ended up crawling into bed with me.

  5. Everyone has there own happy place when they are upset or scared, my happy place isn’t a really place that I know of I made it up. I have never told anyone about it.
    Today my bf that lives hours away from me that I see maybe twice a year told me about this dream he had. I asked him Questions (not giving away details) so he had to tell me that he saw. He answered all my questions correct, then I drew him a picture of it, because I think of it so much ik it by heart, and showed him. He said that was exactly it.
    WHAT DOSE THIS MEAN?!?!?!

  6. Me and my husband and similar dreams in the same night at the same time. I had a very realistic, very detailed dream where I witnessed a very bad accident involving multiple vehicles and 11 people were killed when I was on my way to work one morning. I can remember what I was wearing, the time of day, the type and color of vehicles involved and the location. Mine involved a school bus and my husband woke up right after I did saying he had a bad dream where he was working a bad accident (he’s a firefighter) that involved 2 buses and one was a school bus. We have no children. What are the chances we would both dream of accidents involving school buses at the same time on the same morning? And why??

  7. Me and a somewhat ex had the same dream last night. He was trying to catch and I was trying to stop him from going back to certain things…in my dream I had a death grip on him and I was trying to stop something or someone from getting to him…he dreamed the same thing…he woke up with his arms hurting, feeling like someone has a death grip on them and with physical bruises on his arms and very noticeable bruises around his neck like someone or something was trying to kill him….what does this even mean…like honestly it’s freaking both of us out….

  8. So my boyfriend who is a veteran has dreams of getting chased and getting killed. For a week or 2 I started having the same nightmares to the point I was afraid to go sleep. The weird thing is that we where having it on the same nights and about the same time 2-5am. So I decided to buy a dream catchers which worked for like 2 months, we had no dreams and we were able to sleep through the the night peacefully. For the last 2 weeks hes been having dreams with his ex in it, weird to say but the same thing happen to me. By the way we live 30 min away. Someone knows why this is happening to us.? We have this thing that we tell each other’s dream by the end of the week and it’s about the same thing. We have no problems in our relationship whatsoever. Thanks!

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