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How do tell your boyfriend you don’t like the way he kisses without hurting his feelings. He’s great in every other way, and I love him, but this one thing is such a bummer: he’s all tongue and jabbing and slobber. I’m starting to really hate it. I know it’s a small thing but I’m starting to think of it as a deal breaker, which is such a shame. Is there a way to get him to change his ways without crushing his ego?
— Kiss Off