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My wife and I have been seriously talking about trying to find other people and couples to have sex with. Both individually and as a couple/threesome/group. The problem is that most of the people we have encountered so far are unattractive to us on a physical or intellectual level, or are just plain creepy. In fact, the creep factor is by far the biggest hurdle. It is getting to the point where we are almost ready to give up on hope that a unicorn just comes prancing through the door some day. How do we find the non-creepsters?
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