Is Cuckolding a Real Trend, Or Just Another Internet Meme?

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Dear Em & Lo,

A lot of erotica & porn is devoted to cuckolding (either interracial or less racially oriented). Observers claim that many women are happily liberating their “inner slut” by freely exploring their sexuality, mostly via fuck-buddy-style sex with partners outside their primary relationship (boyfriend or spouse), & often with BF or husband’s permission, encouragement or participation.

Is all this supposed increase in women being free to “fuck around like men do” just another internet meme or popular theme in porn — or is such a phenomenon truly occurring to any significant degree? The blogs (tumblr & elsewhere) that flaunt amateur pics & video are quite numerous, so I wonder if this might in fact be a growing subculture, in the US & Europe. Any insight you can offer?

— Cuckold-Curious

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19 Comments on "Is Cuckolding a Real Trend, Or Just Another Internet Meme?"

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james hickey
1 month 7 days ago

My wife had sex with another man even though our sex life was great. Eventually she convinced me to allow her to have sex with other men and to join in she even had me recruit other men. She has had many partners over the decades and I have been involved in most of the action. Once we started it became obvious that cuckolding is common all over and involves people from various cultures and races. I was surprised by how many men wanted me to service them

KS Srinivasan
1 month 9 days ago

As an Indian in the US when I tried to find sex with women it wasnt very encouraging. The one night I had an idea changed my profile to half black (I’m very dark and muscular being a South Indian) and posted my ad in the M looking for couples. Lo and behold the responses were so much more ! I now service 3 couples regularly in cuckoldry. Single women…still difficult. So, I guess there is some truth to it.

2 months 23 days ago

Yes it is more common. Hubby and I have been in a cuckold marriage for ten years now, and the last three have been really intense. The first seven years I was only with white guys. The last three have ONLY been with the same two black men.

I have seen hubby go from straight to what I think may be gay now. He is not allowed to have sex with me but really enjoys oral sex with my lovers.

30 days 15 hours ago

Very nice.

3 months 24 days ago

All those trends just show that humans are miserable.
From day to day the world gets a little bit more fucked up, pushed by the media, entertainment and what not.

Guage H.
6 months 3 days ago

I honestly didn’t believe any of the cuckold stuff at all . It looked so rehearsed in what they filmed that I couldn’t believe what I saw . Besides how can a man who loves his wife allow her to be with another ? If I were invited to just watch it happen I would be a believer then . I would like to just meet the couple and see for myself that they are an actual couple and then wait for a door bell to ring and watch another man come into their home . Then I would believe… Read more »

6 months 3 days ago

The cuckold porn you see is contrived, and those are paid actors. Real people do it though. I would, in theory.

Hannson III
7 months 23 days ago

Let me ask this question to you that are into this , when I see all of it online much of it looks like Porn with Porn Actors in it . But you guys say you do it so how does it begin for most of you ??? Is it watching your Wife with another man right in front of you ? Why is that a turn on for you , is he bigger or what ? I am asking because I am trying to understand and not judge . I am just asking , so please help me understand… Read more »

2 months 17 hours ago

Most of what is online is acting. I am a voyuer. I get great pleasure from seeing her with someone. It has nothing to o with the size of his penis, or even level of performance. we talked about it a lot before we tried it, and took small steps. A few times of just watching her make out, and eventually the full act. We dont do this often. maybe 2-3 times a year with carefully chosen partners. It is not for everyone, but we like it.

Em & Lo
2 months 2 hours ago

Thanks for sharing, jimbob. Sounds like you guys approached this in a very smart and thoughtful way. Any advice you want to share with new couples just getting started out?

1 year 4 months ago

My husband got me into “hotwifing” which was weird before I learned to enjoy it. The variety was great and some were just much better than my husband. It became more of a cuckolding thing when I started doing it more often and for my own pleasure rather than for hubby’s kink. The cuck aspect was more intense as I would lose interest in sex with my husband when my needs were better met from a lover. I have two married friends that are involved in the Hotwife / Cuckold fetish. I would think that it is indeed on the… Read more »