Is Cuckolding a Real Trend, Or Just Another Internet Meme?

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Dear Em & Lo,

A lot of erotica & porn is devoted to cuckolding (either interracial or less racially oriented). Observers claim that many women are happily liberating their “inner slut” by freely exploring their sexuality, mostly via fuck-buddy-style sex with partners outside their primary relationship (boyfriend or spouse), & often with BF or husband’s permission, encouragement or participation.

Is all this supposed increase in women being free to “fuck around like men do” just another internet meme or popular theme in porn — or is such a phenomenon truly occurring to any significant degree? The blogs (tumblr & elsewhere) that flaunt amateur pics & video are quite numerous, so I wonder if this might in fact be a growing subculture, in the US & Europe. Any insight you can offer?

— Cuckold-Curious

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15 years ago I gave my Wife to be a CB-2000 male chastity device and promised her I would wear it when ever she wanted, because her previous husband and live in boyfriend both left her for the other women they were doing. I wanted her to know I was serious and would be faithful to her. I never thought they actually worked or that my vanilla Wife would actually make me wear it, but within three years she was demanding and requiring I always wear it.. The past eight years I have been in a stainless steel device. My… Read more »

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Until a few years ago, the reported practice of cuckolding in the West used to be a mystery to me also. But discreet inquiries confirmed that not only this has become quite a growing reality in the West but even in the Orient this is on the increase as an offshoot of permissiveness. The husband may or may not take the initiative or make arrangements, he tends to ignore the happenings. Some husbands even befriend the ‘guest’ or ‘paramour’ of wife treating him like a ‘service-provider’ even if the issue involved is wife’s ‘chastity’ (sic) who had taken the vow… Read more »
Very interesting Suvarsha I would love to chat with you about your experience. I wonder if what we see as new behavior is just more open and visible behavior. I think that women have always had sex with who they wish or at least some have. The question should be why does a woman want her husband to know and accept that she has sex with other men. Many women who have a cuckold husband not only want him to accept her sexual behavior but to participate and often service the other men or to let her friends know he… Read more »

On cuckolding

Sara D

I definitely think it is real. I have been cuckolding my husband, Sven, for a year now and we both love it. Many of my lovers have been bigger and better in bed than hubby and he also enjoys the humiliation a bit. In the end I just need more and better sex than what he can provide.
He is usually just watching and not participating though.


Hi Sara,
I REALLY want to introduce this to my wife. She’s VERY vanilla and we’ve had problems in the past with MY infidelity. Honestly, I feel like the ONLY way I can gain enough control to remain faithful is to have her CAGE and Cuckold me. Any suggestions?

james hickey

My wife had sex with another man even though our sex life was great. Eventually she convinced me to allow her to have sex with other men and to join in she even had me recruit other men. She has had many partners over the decades and I have been involved in most of the action. Once we started it became obvious that cuckolding is common all over and involves people from various cultures and races. I was surprised by how many men wanted me to service them

KS Srinivasan

As an Indian in the US when I tried to find sex with women it wasnt very encouraging. The one night I had an idea changed my profile to half black (I’m very dark and muscular being a South Indian) and posted my ad in the M looking for couples. Lo and behold the responses were so much more ! I now service 3 couples regularly in cuckoldry. Single women…still difficult. So, I guess there is some truth to it.