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I am in this situation and I don’t think it is wrong. It makes me feel great and has increased my sex drive toward my SO. I am not attracted to this person so when I get the messages, I envision someone else. He lives out of state. Yes, I suppose my husband would be upset about it but …I know you will all get mad at this..but what about me? I mean, everyone is saying “oh, you need to love your SO…” What about my own needs? As long as I never physically touch someone else, how can that… Read more »

Well put, TA.


simple!! Would you like your SO doing it? If not its wrong, if your ok with it–your SO may not be so signifigant!!


I believe I can solve this dileama, of weather sexting is cheating. By simply saying If you can be totally open with your partner about everything in your conversation may it be e-mail or text and there is no hurt feelings, no jealousy then you were just flirting but if you can’t share with your mate everything because of fear of their reaction or that your just ashamed of yourself then yes you cheated….


100% positive, texting with someone is cheating. I think texting is always a symptom of something more serious.


Yes,, I believe sexting is a violation if its not with your significant other.

Olivia/ mikio

well while reading the postings i had saked my so mikio if he felt that sexting was cheating because at the end of the day it only matters what ur so expectations and needs are.
He said its cheating because if you have a so than there shouldnt be a reason for you to talk to another man about sex or inapproprate matters. so thats a YES its cheating for myself and mikio. i understand completely what lily and speas are saying on these post.

and remember that all that matters is what your so reals is right.