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20 Comments on "Poll: Is Sexting Cheating?"

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Rei
Rei
6 years 9 months ago

Uh, ok, how is ‘sexting cheating’ and the replies Spes posted make any sense?

Anyway, any type of email, text, emotion, or anything physical applied to someone who is not your sig other, its cheating.

Madamoiselle L
Madamoiselle L
6 years 9 months ago

spes posted: “My personal opinion: Yes, if it’s hidden from your partner or if they are hurt by it. I think it’s an intimacy and deceit issue”

I agree.

Sorry if I misunderstood in the other post.

Spes
Spes
6 years 9 months ago
Yes, Madamoiselle L, I am aware that the poll concerns texting those who are not your significant other. If you read the sentence above the poll, you’ll see that I was the one who originally posed the question.(click the link) My earlier reply was in response to Phil’s question. I may not be 40 yet with twenty-something year old children, but I have my degree, my mortgage, my career, my husband, and my retirement plan to remind me that though I am proficient with texting, I’m not a teenager anymore. Hell, only wealthy Wall St types had cell phones back… Read more »
Madamoiselle L
Madamoiselle L
6 years 9 months ago
spes, I think the question concerned “Sexting” people OTHER THAN your Sig Other. (hey, if you are able to text and it’s your SO, it might be fun. In fact, I am SURE it would be.) And, yeah, if it ain’t “the one you’re with” IMO, it’s cheating. Just as much as if you were intimately propositioning a guy who wasn’t your SO at the water cooler (are there actually water coolers in offices anymore?) If you are single, I guess go for it, but as with a lot of stuff, don’t promise what you can’t deliver. (That’s FAIR Sexual… Read more »
Spes
Spes
6 years 9 months ago
What!? I love sending and receiving sexually explicit texts with my husband. It’s like a modernized version of leaving a sex note in one’s partner’s briefcase or lunch. Although, I still try to write something sweet or sexy on his napkins when I pack his lunch, handwriting is still very personal and powerful. However, sexting can be a great way to start the sexual tension building so both of you are ready to jump each other the moment you get home. And what man wouldn’t appreciate some masturbation material sent to him around lunch? And just as importantly, sharing sexual… Read more »
Phil
Phil
6 years 9 months ago

The question wants me to open up a third option “What adult even does that? And why does it have a name that rather sounds like a verb for using a sextant?”

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