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Wise Guys: What Do Men Really Think about Valentine’s Day?

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

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photo by paparutzi Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the male consensus on Valentine’s Day?” Gay Single Guy (Daniel): I honestly don’t think there is a male “consensus” of thought on the issue of Valentine’s Day. Men can be either true romantics who love this kind of thing, who wouldn’t forget [...]

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Dream Interpretation: I Died and Came Back to Life!

Monday, February 8, 2010

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photo by Johan_Larsson Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I dreamed that I died and I ended up in a place where there were other people walking around. Everyone knew we [...]

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Your Call: My Friend Keeps Hitting On My Wife

Friday, February 5, 2010

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photo by pasukaru76 (we’re going to pretend the figure in the red pants is a dude with a really bad mullet) Dear Em and Lo, I have a friend let’s call him “A”, we used to be closer, but as time has gone by, we probably see each other every other month or so, and the occasional [...]

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Dear Dr. Vanessa: Any Medical Libido Booster for Gals?

Thursday, February 4, 2010

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photo by Tiago Ribeiro Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood® Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, Is there a safe, medical way to improve my libido? Is there a Viagra for women? [...]

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Wise Guys: How Best to Say Not Tonight Honey?

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

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photo by MigraineChick Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,“How can I tell my man I don’t want to have sex without offending him? What’s the nicest way to tell him, “Not tonight, honey?” Straight Married Guy (David Felsen): Let’s start with some things you shouldn’t say: Not tonight, honey, I have [...]

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Dream Interpretation: My Coworker Crush Juggles Eggs

Monday, February 1, 2010

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photo by woodleywonderworks Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I have had a crush on a co-worker for months, but I’ve been in a monogamous relationship this whole time.  As far [...]

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10 Easy Ways to Be More Romantic

Friday, January 29, 2010

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photo by victoriapeckham Romance is contagious. So the best way to get your partner to be more romantic is to be more romantic with them first. Here are 10 not-too-arduous ways to do just that. 1. Wax nostalgic. Ninety-eight percent of romance is remembering not to take each other for granted. So tap into long-lost crush feelings [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate: Does My Gyno Care If I Shave?

Thursday, January 28, 2010

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photo by Eljay Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every few weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, Do gynecologists care whether or not your pubic hair is trimmed or au natural? I’m one of those [...]

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6 Booty Rules for Sharing a Space

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

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photo by Zawezome What’s the etiquette of getting some nookie when there’s a roommate in the picture? We’re not talking about having sex with your roommate — if you’re doing that, poor soul, then even we can’t save you from the inevitable blow-up. No, we’re talking about the delicate issue of when, where, and how to have [...]

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Wise Guys: Short Hair vs. Long Hair

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

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photo by westerndave Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Short hair vs. long hair? We’ve heard porno stars give advice to women like “never cut your hair short”, but then, they’re porn stars. What’s the real deal? Straight Single Guy (Mark Luczak): I truly run the gamut on this one. [...]

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