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Tag Archive | "Advice"

What Romance Novels Taught Me About Love (and Lust)

Thursday, December 18, 2014

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by Aly Walanksy for YourTango | photo via WeHeartIt Some people criticize the romance drama, but there are things you can learn from it. Boys get their first taste of sexy times through Internet porn and nudie magazines‚ÄĒbut ladies, we have erotica. Or, as the publishers like to call them,¬†romance¬†novels. Now, I’m not knocking romance [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: I Need a Gynecologist But I Can’t Tell My Mom

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

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Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service!   Dear Em & Lo, I have a BIG issue. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and something traumatic has happened three times now. On occasion, when the sex has gotten extremely heated and we are going [...]

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Your Call: How Can I Enjoy Sex When I Was Taught Not To?

Monday, December 15, 2014

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Dear Em & Lo, I [...]

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How to Write a Love Letter Like Georgia O’Keeffe

Friday, December 12, 2014

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“Blue Flower,” 1918 We’re not surprised in the slightest to discover that Georgia A-Flower-Is-Never-Just-a-Flower O’Keeffe was quite the steamy letter writer. Her love letters to the (ahem, married-at-the-time)¬†photographer and modern art promoter¬†Alfred Stieglitz were¬†published as¬†part of an exhibit at the Whitney Museum of American Art¬† a few years back. The two married eventually, and Stieglitz [...]

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Four Things You Need to Know About Casual, Anonymous, Tinder-esque Sex

Friday, December 12, 2014

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by Aaron Kaplan for YourTango¬†¬†| ¬†photo via Flickr Just as people were becoming more cautious about casual sexual encounters like anonymous¬†sex¬†and one-night stands, Tinder blew up on the “dating” scene, and¬†people stopped being quite as cautious about risky rendezvous. No one is saying you have to be a total prude when dating these days. Just [...]

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Wise Guys: When, If Ever, Is Cleavage Unsexy?

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: We know that men love boobs, but is there such a thing as too much cleavage? At what point — if any — does it become tacky to guys? Is it all about the situation and context? Straight Married [...]

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Your Call: Is My Boyfriend Secretly Gay?

Monday, December 8, 2014

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Dear Em & Lo, What [...]

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How to Live a Complete Life Without Sex

Friday, December 5, 2014

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photo via WeHeartIt Dear Em & Lo, I’m 34 and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I was molested as a child and raped as an adult. I’ve never had consensual sex. Yet I have intensely sexual dreams. I’ve had years of counseling, but the fear of having a sexual relationship remains. I isolate myself from [...]

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9 No-Duh Sex Moves Men Should Brush Up On

Friday, December 5, 2014

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by Eden Strong for YourTango  |  photo via WeHeartIt Your sex life might be good but aren’t there always a few things that could make it, well, better? Quick answer: YES. How do I know? Over a glass of wine (or several), I flat out asked my friends if their sex life was everything they wanted it [...]

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How to Determine Whether Your Dating Age Gap Is Embarrassing

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week, a straight woman asks, “How much younger than them do you think most guys are comfortable dating before it becomes embarrassing? Or is there no limit as long as the youngster in question is legal and not a complete airhead?” To ask the guys your own [...]

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