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Dear Em & Lo – How Can I Connect with Someone Before Sex?
photo from Summit Entertainment Hello Ladies! I am a single thirty-year-old woman who hasn’t had sex in a year. The problem isn’t that I couldn’t be having sex, I’ve got prospects, the issue is my desire to avoid the same patterns my relationships have followed thus far. I am genuinely sexually adventurous but I have [...]
Continue reading...Your Call: How to Seduce a Woman
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
We recently published a post on this site called “7 Ways to Seduce a Straight Guy.” And a bunch of you wrote in saying, okay, now tell us how to seduce a woman! So we’re turning this one over to you: Tell us, what’s the best way seduce a woman? FYI, the tips in the [...]
Continue reading...Wise Guys – Why Aren’t Some Men Up for Going Down?
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do guys seem to dislike giving oral sex more than woman seem to dislike giving it?“ Gay Married Guy (Jon Ross): I’ve met a bunch of straight men and woman who dislike the pastime, which is a bit of a mystery to [...]
Continue reading...Dream Interpretation: My Secret Boyfriend Gets Arrested
Monday, March 15, 2010
photo by vanessa hud Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I’m secretly dating this guy and had a really bizarre dream about him: He got arrested and the police and his [...]
Continue reading...Dear Em & Lo – When Online Long-Distance Love Goes Wrong, Very Wrong
Friday, March 12, 2010
photo from Arbron Dear Em & Lo, I am an 18-year-old girl and recently got engaged to a 30-year-old guy. We have an online long distance relationship. I really like the guy and he likes me too. Things were really awesome between us after our engagement, he used to be really romantic and we used to [...]
Continue reading...How to Greet a Former One-Night Stand
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
photo by //steph_vee. We know you’re not perfect. At some point, most of you will walk out on a one-night stand without so much as a “Thanks for the sex!” Post-It note. We don’t condone this behavior, but we can offer an emergency guideline, should you happen to bump into this person at a later date. [...]
Continue reading...Wise Guys – What Do Men Think About Sex Toys in Bed?
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
photo by love janine Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How do most guys feel when a woman brings her favorite sex toy into the bedroom? Threatened? Excited? Gay Single Guy (Angelo Nikolopoulos): Unless it’s three-pronged, the Jackhammer Jesus, or obscenely elephantine, I think it’s generally safe — educationally thrilling [...]
Continue reading...Dream Interpretation: I Keep Dreaming of Orgies
Monday, March 8, 2010
W Blair Bruce’s Les Naied, 1896, via PinkMoose Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I keep having these dreams that include sex, my best friend, her man, my man, and me. [...]
Continue reading...10 Steps to Orgasming Without a Vibrator
Friday, March 5, 2010
photo via beautifulagony.com Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 22-year-old woman who has only become sexually active over the last six months or so. I’m enjoying myself and being safe, but it’s starting to annoy me that I can’t have an orgasm without a vibrator. This really bothered my last boyfriend, which of course made me stressed [...]
Continue reading...Dear Dr. Vanessa: What STDs Should I Get Tested For?
Thursday, March 4, 2010
STD toys from Giant Microbes Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood® Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, I’m a woman in her early ‘30s with a pretty active sex life. [...]
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