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Top 5 Love Lessons from “The Bachelor” (Prince Farming’s First Dates)

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

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photo via ABC’s The Bachelor Last night’s second episode of ABC’s “The Bachelor”¬†proved to be quite entertaining, despite Prince Farming having the personality of a soybean. The producers seemed to pepper the episode with the kind of zany, kooky, funny stuff usually reserved for the closing credits — in order to make up for Chris [...]

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36 Questions to Ask a Date Instead of Playing Mind Games

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

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photo via flickr Dating is so mired in game-playing and pickup moves these days that it’s amazing anyone ever ends up finding lasting love. So we’re huge fans of any approach that manages to cut through all that B.S. For example, many years ago — before we each found lasting love, against those game-playing odds [...]

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Top 10 Things We Hope the “Fifty Shades” Movie Does Better Than the Book

Friday, January 9, 2015

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photo via the movie website The film adaptation of Fifty Shades of Grey, the first book in the mega-selling erotic trilogy by E.L. James, is almost here! It arrives in theaters Valentine’s Day weekend (ladies, get your limos ready!). With the casting of Jamie Dornan (The Fall)¬†as Christian Grey and Dakota Johnson (The Social Network) [...]

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Comment of the Week: What Really Matters in Bed

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

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photo via Flickr This comment by reader¬†Erica¬†got lost in the holiday shuffle, but it’s worth going back for. She made it in response to our post,¬†10 Reasons Why Your “Ugly Vagina” Is Normal and Gorgeous. We feel really bad for her 12-year-old self and hate the culture that created her, but are so happy to [...]

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Your Call: How Can I Get Past My Boyfriend’s Bisexuality?

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

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photo of Alan Cumming via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Dear Em [...]

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What Guys Really Want to Do on a Date

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

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Boyhood image via IMDB Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: What is a guy-friendly date? Gay Engaged Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): Seriously?¬† Anything that doesn’t involve talking about feelings. Straight Married Guy (Fred): If he’s into you, anything is a guy-friendly date.¬† Okay, maybe not ballroom [...]

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Top 5 Love Lessons from “The Bachelor” (Prince Farming’s Season Premiere)

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

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photo via ABC’s The Bachelor It’s been a long, grueling wait, but last night we finally got our fix with the live season premiere of ABC’s “The Bachelor”! This season features “Prince Farming” and Bachelorette runner-up, Chris Soules — a guy who’s so deep in the Iowa boondocks, the closest Starbucks is over an hour [...]

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How to Organize Your Ex Out of Your Life

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

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The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo The two of us basically share a brain when it comes to this blog, and we are one hundred percent united on all the important issues in life, love, and dating: safe sex, orgasms for everyone, the superiority of flat-front pants, etc. But every now and [...]

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The New Year’s Issue

Monday, December 29, 2014

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A Refresher Course for Your New Year’s Kiss Brush up on your midnight pucker up.   20 Naughty New Year’s Resolutions Screw the gym membership. What’s a Man’s Ideal New Year’s Eve? Good wine. Good food. Good friends. And maybe a disco beat?   One More Time: What’s a Man’s Ideal New Year’s Eve? Three [...]

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What Romance Novels Taught Me About Love (and Lust)

Thursday, December 18, 2014

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by Aly Walanksy for YourTango | photo via WeHeartIt Some people criticize the romance drama, but there are things you can learn from it. Boys get their first taste of sexy times through Internet porn and nudie magazines‚ÄĒbut ladies, we have erotica. Or, as the publishers like to call them,¬†romance¬†novels. Now, I’m not knocking romance [...]

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