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Tag Archive | "Advice"

5 Ways to Spice Up a One-Night Stand

Friday, August 22, 2014

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photo via Flickr One-night stands are inherently pretty spicy, what with all the excitement of the unknown. But they offer a unique opportunity to expand your sexual repertoire without the possibility of being judged or shamed (at least not by someone you know and love). Next time you take a beautiful stranger back to your [...]

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Why He Didn’t Call or Text When He Said He Would

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Why didn’t he call ¬†(or text/email/Gchat/et al) when he said he would? Straight Married Guy (Matt): There’s a simple answer to this one: it doesn’t matter. Most women I know get very worked up over this, and it never helps anything. It [...]

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What Are the Rules for Dating Your Friend’s Exes?

Friday, August 15, 2014

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As a general rule, we think it’s bad manners — not to mention bad taste — to date or sleep with a friend’s ex, a.k.a. “dating the floor model.” Why ruin a perfectly good friendship for a hook-up that, let’s face it, probably won’t last the season? The ONLY way we think it’s acceptable to [...]

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10 Quick Ways to Spice Up Masturbation

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

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We know that masturbation feels like an easy lay, but just because you’re a sure thing, doesn’t mean you always have to treat yourself that way. Here are 10 simple ways to spice up your old routine: Dim the overheads and light some candles Pour yourself a drink Take a long bath (with a nice [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Can I Have an Orgasm in My Sleep (If I Haven’t Had One Awake)?

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, It’s recently come to my attention that women can have orgasms while asleep, similarly to how men can have wet dreams.¬†I was wondering: is it possible to have them before you’ve had an orgasm?¬†As a 19-year old, I sometimes get turned on, but don’t do anything about it [...]

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Comment(s) of the Week: Be Smart About Respect

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

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It’s a tie between two responses to our Your Call post¬†Is Intellectual Inequality a Deal Breaker?¬†– both of which are great advice for any relationship. First, Dannie said:¬† This is a question that ultimately only you can answer, because only you know your priorities. ¬†Is intelligence the most important thing to you? ¬†On the flip [...]

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Wise Guys: Why Do Men Like Strip Clubs?

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Why are some guys so into strip clubs? Do most guys buy into the fantasy that the stripper is actually enjoying herself — or don’t they care? Straight Single Guy (Colin): Lots of guys aren’t into strip clubs. Probably [...]

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Your Call: Is Intellectual Inequality a Deal Breaker?

Monday, August 4, 2014

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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Your Call: Can I Tell My Married Boyfriend’s Wife About Us?

Monday, July 28, 2014

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New [...]

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6 Kinds of Lube & 6 Reasons to Use Them Every Time

Friday, July 25, 2014

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LELO’s Personal Moisturizer (75 ml)¬† Lube gets a bad rap, so we’d like to clear its name here once and for all: Store-bought personal lubricant is not a “crutch” for people with faulty machinery. And reaching for the wet stuff doesn’t mean you’re “not into it,” “frigid” or “kinky.” It just means you like to [...]

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