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Top 6 Love Lessons from “The Bachelor” (The Badlands)

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

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from “The Bachelor’s” hysterical Twitter feed After such a tepid start, this season of¬†“The Bachelor”¬†has really started delivering on the crazy, thanks in part….okay, all thanks to the evil manipulation of events by the hand-rubbing, mustache-twirling producers. Let’s give the jock the short wedding dress during the mud run competition so she’s sure to win [...]

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10 Simple Steps to “Fiftyize” Your Love Life

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

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Here’s a nifty little 10-step program for introducing BDSM into the bedroom, inspired by our book,¬†150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink:   1. Talk Dirty to Him Bringing up BDSM¬†with your partner can be shocking and awkward. A great way to test a fantasy is to incorporate it into¬†dirty talk. Whisper in [...]

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The Top 5 Writing Lessons of “Fifty Shades of Grey”

Friday, February 6, 2015

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According to Wikipedia, the¬†Fifty Shades of Grey¬†series “has sold over 100 million copies worldwide and been translated into 52 languages,¬†and set a record in the United Kingdom as the fastest-selling paperback of all time.”¬†Not only has it introduced many people to the world of kink, it’s given them a lesson in how¬†not¬†to write. And if [...]

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The 17 Most Annoying Aspects of the “Fifty Shades” Story

Thursday, February 5, 2015

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By¬†Lindsey Kupfer¬†for YourTango.com Here’s a refresher course on how messed up Fifty Shades really is. The¬†Fifty Shades Of Grey¬†movie hype is growing as the movie’s release date (February 13) gets closer, which means a barrage of media attention is once more on the mommy porn flick. And¬†that¬†means I get to hear endless apologies and explanations [...]

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How to Use a Flogger Like Christian Grey

Thursday, February 5, 2015

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The following is from our very own naughty dictionary,¬†150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink.¬†Bolded words signify individual entries that appear elsewhere in the A-to-Z section of the book. Anything with a tie icon ¬†indicates an activity or prop mentioned in the¬†Fifty Shades¬†series (symbolic of the famous woven tie¬†Christian Grey¬†uses to restrain¬†Anastasia Steele). [...]

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The Valentine’s Day Issue

Friday, January 30, 2015

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The Best Valentine’s Day Present Ever! The top 10 reasons why our new book¬†150 Shades of Play makes the best Valentine‚Äôs Day present ever!   10 Easy Ways to Be More Romantic Romance is contagious. So the best way to get your partner to be more romantic is to be more romantic with them first. [...]

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What to Do When You Have Zero Sex Drive

Friday, January 30, 2015

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 23-year old woman in a relationship with a wonderful guy — we’re celebrating two years together this month. We’re pretty serious about each other, but we have a serious hangup:¬† I have very little sex drive.¬† I’m not sure if he’s got an average drive or [...]

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Dream Interpretation: My Boyfriend and I BOTH Dreamt About Demons

Thursday, January 29, 2015

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“The Nightmare” by John Henry Fuseli Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst¬†Lauri Loewenberg¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it¬†(18 and older only, please).¬†This week, a reader tells Lauri: My boyfriend and [...]

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Wise Guys: Are Blue Balls Real?

Wednesday, January 28, 2015

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “What do blue-balls feel like… is it really that painful, or that big a deal? Is it even a real physical phenomenon?” Straight Single Guy (Tyler Barnett): Blue balls are the testicular equivalent of a migraine headache. They are [...]

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Top 5 Love Lessons from “The Bachelor” (Camping, Not Glamping)

Tuesday, January 27, 2015

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photo via @BachelorABC (the caption read: “One of these virginities will be taken tonight.” Brilliant.) The fourth episode of ABC’s “The Bachelor”¬†featured more Emmy-worthy editing, from the tiny violins playing over Ashley “Kardashian’s”s tragic princess soliloquy to the close-up shots of her weave to the sad, foreboding music behind Jillian’s tasteless “Who Would You Rather” [...]

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