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Tag Archive | "Advice"

A Professional Escort’s 10 Rules for a Threeway That Won’t Backfire

Thursday, March 12, 2015

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by Miss Jolene Dubois for YourTango I’m a¬†professional prostitute.¬†Personally, I’ve had at least 15 to 20 threesomes with different¬†couples¬†as well as my own boyfriends, plus one drunken gang-bang. In short, I’m quite experienced with the more popular version of threesomes (two girls, one guy), which gives me ample expertise on sharing with you, the reader, [...]

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Is Sex with a Condom Really All That Bad for Guys?

Wednesday, March 11, 2015

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Okay, so how different is intercourse with a condom? What does it feel like? Do different kinds of condoms make a difference? Straight Married Guy (Fred): It’s different.¬† It’s not as good.¬† Think pancakes without the syrup.¬† Scratching an [...]

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Your Call: How Do You Know If It’s Settling or Being Smart

Tuesday, March 10, 2015

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Leave your suggestions in the comments section below.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, [...]

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3 Easy(ish) Steps to Sharing a Fantasy with a Partner

Friday, March 6, 2015

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Sharing a fantasy with a partner can be a cheap and easy way to foster intimacy, build trust, and kink things up. But it takes a lot of courage to do. What if you think yours is too mundane to put into words (remember Meg Ryan’s faceless stranger fantasy in¬†When Harry Met Sally?). Or what [...]

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Can You Talk a Guy Into Having an Open Relationship?

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

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photo of open marriage fan Anais Nin via Wikimedia Commons Advice from three of EMandLO.com‚Äôs¬†guy friends. This week they answer the following:¬†‚ÄúI want to have an open relationship, but my boyfriend doesn’t want to open up the relationship. I don’t want to break up, what should I do?‚Ä̬†To ask the guys your own question,¬†click here. [...]

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Top 10 Life Lessons from “The Bachelor” (The Women Tell All)

Tuesday, March 3, 2015

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via The Bachelor’s Twitter feed Last night, we came to the cat fight portion of the season with “The Women Tell All” episode of The Bachelor, in which producers gather together all rejected participants in a room with a live studio audience to watch — and defend — their most humiliating, offensive, mean-spirited and basically [...]

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How Do I Ease Into Kink with a New Partner?

Monday, March 2, 2015

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Dear Em & Lo, My bf and I [...]

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When His Mouth Says “Booty Call” But His Body Says “Relationship”

Thursday, February 26, 2015

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I met this guy who is really sweet and nice.¬† He is 20 and I am 21.¬† We’ve hung out a few times and I am starting to like him.¬† Then, I saw him at a fraternity party the other night (although he does not go to my [...]

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How Do Men Feel About PDA?

Tuesday, February 24, 2015

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the general guy consensus on PDA?” Straight Married Guy (James Glazebrook): For some reason, I only clock public displays of affection in nightclubs or on the London Underground. I have no idea what’s so sexy about these squalid [...]

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Top 5 Love Lessons from “The Bachelor,” for Bachelors (Bali)

Tuesday, February 24, 2015

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via ABC.com Wow, what happened to the all the world travel the contestants on (and viewers of) The Bachelor/ette have come to know and love?  They really kept it real (and cheap) this season, by limiting the majority of the shooting to the continental United States. Santa Fe, the Badlands, Arlington, Iowa? Pretty much the least [...]

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