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Tag Archive | "Advice"

How to Give a Great Couples Massage

Saturday, July 5, 2014

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sponsored post When Denis Merkas, founder of “Melt: Massage for Couples,” asked us to review his online video series, we admit we were a bit trepidatious: images of sensitive ponytail men came to mind, the sound of cheesy tantric sitars filled our imaginations, and we thought we could suddenly smell a hint of patchouli in [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Ever Turn Down Casual Sex?

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Do guys ever turn down casual sex? To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Jamie): My own experience with casual sex is a bit limited.¬† I was always a “girlfriend guy” and it was only between relationships [...]

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10 Ways to Sexify Your Gratitude Journal

Friday, June 27, 2014

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photo via Flickr Everyone from Oprah to Real Simple to the guy at Harvard who teaches classes on happiness has talked about gratitude journals — you know, every night you write down, say, five things you were grateful for that day. Could be big things (my wonderful supportive family) or small (Honey Bunches of Oats [...]

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Wise Guys: Is It Really Such a Big Deal If I Hate Giving Blowjobs?

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: ‚ÄúI really hate going down on guys. I’ve tried it, I don’t like it. In fact, I loathe it. I feel bad about it, but if I don’t expect oral in return (I don’t), then why should I feel compelled to do [...]

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Top 5 Love Lessons from The Bachelorette (Andi in Italy)

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

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screenshot from ABC’s “The Bachelorette” For the love of all that’s clean and right and good, wash your hands after you go to the bathroom! And not just when you’re on a date — every time. When on a date, don’t talk about how bad you are in bed, even if you’re just joking, for [...]

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A Fantastic Guide to Couples Massage (with No Sensitive Ponytail Men!)

Monday, June 23, 2014

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sponsored post When Denis Merkas, founder of “Melt: Massage for Couples,” asked us to review his online video series, we admit we were a bit trepidatious: images of sensitive ponytail men came to mind, the sound of cheesy tantric sitars filled our imaginations, and we thought we could suddenly smell a hint of patchouli in [...]

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8 Ways to Overcome Anxiety About a Gynecologist Visit

Friday, June 20, 2014

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photo via flickr Nervous about going to the gynecologist? That’s a bummer. Okay, that’s all the sympathy you’re going to get from us, because you’ve got to get over it. Your health is at stake, especially once you’re sexually active — and there’s nothing more important. We all have to do things we don’t like: [...]

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Dream Interpretation: Can a Dream Reveal the Father of My Baby?

Thursday, June 19, 2014

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photo via flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it (18 and older only, please). This week, a reader asks Lauri: I had sex with more than [...]

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Comment of the Week: Porn Is No Biggie

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

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photo via Flickr Reader Jessica¬†wrote the following in response to our post,¬†”Wise Guys: He Looks at Other Women But Gets Jealous If I Ogle Men“: I used to be one of those women, when I was younger, who would fly off the handle if I saw my boyfriend looking at another woman. After going through [...]

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Why Do Men Masturbate When They’re Having Regular Sex?

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

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photo via flickr Wise Guys is a regular column offering advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do men masturbate in relationships, even when the sex is good and regular?” Straight Married Guy (Ben): Every guy has a regular masturbation frequency (RMF) that is more or less unchangeable [...]

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