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Tag Archive | "Advice"

Your Call: Is It Fine for a Grown, Non-Religious Man to Be Celibate?

Monday, September 15, 2014

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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10 Reasons to Become a Submissive (If Only for a Night)

Friday, September 12, 2014

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LELO’s Etherea Silk Cuffs You want a little freedom from all your daily responsibilities. You’ve been with your partner for a while and things are getting a little routine. You kinda like being held down and tickled. You think our book on the topic “150 Shades of Play” is fascinating. You don’t want to over-think [...]

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Do Guys Really Care If Their Girlfriend Has a Higher Body Count?

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

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photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Does the average hetero guy really care if his girlfriend/wife has had sex with more people than he has? And if so, why? Straight Married Guy (Jamie): I may be somewhat in the minority here in that, while I [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Am I Being Too Selfish In Bed?

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

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Dear Em & Lo, Every time my boyfriend and I “engage,” he turns me on then asks me to give him a BJ. After I do, I’m not as interested anymore. It happens every time. I’m very uncomfortable when I perform a BJ, and it takes away from the pleasure. I want to know if [...]

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Your Call: Help, My Husband Has ZERO Sex Drive!

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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Why Women Cry After Sex

Friday, August 29, 2014

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been in a serious, committed relationship with a gorgeous woman for almost a year. We first met as friends and then somehow found ourselves being more than friends after 9 months or so. During that time, we learned much about what makes the other tick. We have [...]

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Top 10 Sex Tips for College Students (Especially First-Years)

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

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For many young women and men, the end of August marks the start of a new chapter of life ‚ÄĒ one of higher learning, critical thinking, problem solving, horizon broadening, and lots and lots of casual bonking. It‚Äôs a whole new world of unchaperoned independence and freedom combined with 18-year-old hormones ‚ÄĒ which can result [...]

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Why You Should Lie When He Asks About His Penis Size

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: If a guy asks me how I think his penis ranks size-wise, and I honestly think it’s a little on the small side or perhaps too skinny, what do you think the best approach is? Straight Married Guy (Fred): I’ll start answering [...]

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5 Ways to Spice Up a One-Night Stand

Friday, August 22, 2014

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photo via Flickr One-night stands are inherently pretty spicy, what with all the excitement of the unknown. But they offer a unique opportunity to expand your sexual repertoire without the possibility of being judged or shamed (at least not by someone you know and love). Next time you take a beautiful stranger back to your [...]

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Why He Didn’t Call or Text When He Said He Would

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Why didn’t he call ¬†(or text/email/Gchat/et al) when he said he would? Straight Married Guy (Matt): There’s a simple answer to this one: it doesn’t matter. Most women I know get very worked up over this, and it never helps anything. It [...]

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