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Tag Archive | "Age Issues"

Your Call: Is My Cougar Relationship Doomed?

Friday, May 6, 2011


photo by Harlequeen We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate: What’s Good Pre-Menopause Birth Control?

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

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photo by Jenny Lee Silver Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every two weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, My mom’s hormones started changing when she was 38, and she actually got [...]

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Comment of the Week: Let’s Hear It for Sex After 40!

Wednesday, November 10, 2010


photo via IMDB In a recent “Your Call” post, a reader of our site oh-so-casually mentioned how she became multiply orgasmic in her forties, after a sexually unsatisfying marriage. Turns out she’s not the only one. After a rather boring sexually 13-year marriage, I have found a whole new world of sex. I love it [...]

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Books – Affection: A Memoir About Sex Addiction and Monogamy

Tuesday, October 12, 2010


Affection: An Erotic Memoir by Krissy Kneen is a story of compulsive sexual exploration, sex addiction — and, ultimately, blissful, married monogamy. Australian author Kneen was raised by a group of protective and eccentric women who forbade any and every expression of sexuality… and we all know where that leads. We chatted to Kneen about [...]

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Researchers Argue Over Whether Cougar Dating Exists

Thursday, September 2, 2010


photo via IMDB When we read that a researcher at the University of Wales Institute in Cardiff had released a study claiming that the cougar dating trend is a myth and a media construct, we were ready to buy his argument. After all, we’ve witnessed first-hand — and have occasionally, shame on us, been responsible [...]

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Dear Dr. Vanessa, Am I Experiencing Early Menopause?

Wednesday, August 11, 2010


photo by me_and_the_sysop Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood¬ģ Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, I’m 37 and for all my menstrual life I’ve been regular as clockwork, 29 [...]

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Your Call: Is It Okay to Always Let Him Pay?

Tuesday, June 22, 2010


photo by mangpages Share your advice for this reader in the comments section below‚Ķ Dear Em & Lo, I’ve recently started seeing this older guy. So far we’ve been on three dates, and he always insists on paying for everything. I feel a bit guilty, but on the other hand he does have a pretty [...]

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Dream Interpretation: Am I Becoming a Cougar?

Monday, October 19, 2009


photo by Harlequeen Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I’m a 40-year-old woman who has become friends with a 20-year-old co-worker. He is like a younger cousin or family [...]

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