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Tag Archive | "Anal Play"

Comments of the Week: Is Cunnilingus Inherently Sapphic? Duh.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

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photo via Flickr We wouldn’t want you to think EMandLO.com is anally fixated or anything, we just really appreciate the whole “what’s good for the goose is good for the gander” argument when it comes to defending straight men being receptive to a little backdoor love. Hence, the second comment of the week in a [...]

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Comment of the Week: Strap-Ons Can Bring a Couple Closer

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

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a Starter Strap-on Kit SJM, responding to the post ¬†”Confession: I Want to Do My Boyfriend with a Strap-On“: This is something that will make a relationship grow. Plain sex gets old. It took me forever to open up to my gf about how I wanted her to ["plug"] me, or whatever. But when she [...]

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Your Call: Is Backdoor Play Gay?

Wednesday, November 30, 2011


photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your response in the comments section below. For a while now my girlfriend and [...]

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Comment of the Week: Love, Marriage and Strap-Ons

Wednesday, August 31, 2011


photo by brandi666 Just a Thought, commenting on the confession “I Want to Do My Boyfriend with a Strap-on“: I wont post my “didn’t make it into Penthouse” story, promise. I will say that while discussing anal sex with my gf at the time, I made her a deal. She was unsure since I’m rather [...]

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Comment of the Week: An Open Letter to Strap-On Sex Enthusiasts

Thursday, July 21, 2011


photo by brandi666 Thank you for visiting EMandLO.com. We understand that that this website is one of the few places that discusses issues around sex openly and honestly, without too many euphemisms or immature jokes, and no hardcore images. It’s probably the only truly female-friendly site where you can discuss strap-on sex maturely. This would [...]

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Wise Guys: Are Most Men Amenable to Anal Play?

Tuesday, June 7, 2011


photo by rhys alton Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “Finger up the bum during other amorous acts — yay or nay for most guys?” Gay Married Guy (Jon Ross): Well this is one situation in which the gay world veers off wildly from the straight norm. For [...]

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Dear Dr. Joe: My Girlfriend Wants to Do Me with a Strap-On

Wednesday, April 6, 2011


photo by brandi666 This week, Dr. Joe DeOrio, a urologist in Chicago, tackles the male version of EMandLO.com’s most popular post to date, the anonymous confession “I Want to Do My Boyfriend with a Strap-On.” To ask Dr. Joe your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Joe, My girlfriend is really into not just receiving, [...]

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Anal, Orgasms and Advertising

Thursday, October 21, 2010

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photo by rhys alton One of the most popular and commented-on posts is about strap-on sex. It’s not exactly a point of pride for us. We’re much more about the happy feel-good feminist relationship posts. And we worry that this prominent butt-sex mention is what keeps the advertisers away (of course, it could be the [...]

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Comment of the Week: Love + Trust + Strap-On = Good Times for Everyone

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

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a Starter Strap-On Kit Yep, the strap-on post continues to rake in the comments! Today’s featured comment is #210 out of a total of 214 (and counting) responses to the original post. (Only another 70 comments or so to go to catch up with the small penis post!) I asked the girlfriend to do this [...]

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Dear Dr. Vanessa – My Boyf Accidentally Entered My Back Door

Thursday, June 24, 2010


photo by Joe M500 Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood¬ģ Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. A few days ago my boyfriend accidentally introduced his penis in my back hole (which, by [...]

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