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Tag Archive | "BDSM"

The Best Holiday Gift EVER Is Now Under 10 Bucks!

Friday, December 6, 2013

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Okay, we may be overstating things just a tad. But just check out the Amazon reviews and you’ll see that¬†150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink¬†– winner of a 2013 IPPY Award! –¬†is the most perfect, affordable, and easily purchased gift for: Your friend who can’t wait for the Fifty Shades of Grey¬†movies [...]

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My Fiance Bit Me Like a Vampire in His Sleep

Sunday, October 20, 2013

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image by King Chimp, from “Nosferatu” Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I am big into pain while having sex, and I am also into vampires. My¬†fiance and I [...]

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Comment of the Week: BDSM Is More About Trust Than Ropes & Chains

Thursday, October 10, 2013

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Sutra Chainlink Cuffs by LELO Reader sex_is_weird_thats_all said the following in response to our post, “Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies, Too?” Despite the people who end up in the news, there is usually in any metropolitan area a very legit BDSM community. I have a group of friends that includes a sizable chunk [...]

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A New Book That Some People Don’t Want You to Read (Part 1)

Thursday, October 3, 2013

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a still from the video trailer of Happyland HAPPYLAND — by one of the coolest authors we know, J. ROBERT LENNON — is finally out! This is the novel that W. W. Norton pulled from production in 2005 over fears of libel, that Harper’s Magazine ran in serial (though heavily abridged)in the fall of 2006, [...]

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How to Tell a Vanilla Partner About Your Kink

Friday, September 13, 2013

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We frequently hear from readers who are struggling with an imbalance of kink in their relationship — one partner is vanilla while the other is decidedly chocolate-swirl-fudge. So we asked¬†Richard Wagner, a.k.a. Dr. Dick (seriously), the author of the new book The Gospel of Kink: A Modern Guide To Asking For What You Want And [...]

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Top 10 Things the “Fifty Shades” Movie Could Do Better Than the Book

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

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Since the casting was finally announced this past Monday for the adaptation of the first Fifty Shades of Grey book — with Charlie Hunnam (Sons of Anarchy)¬†as Christian Grey and Dakota Johnson (The Social Network) as Anastasia Steele — the general consensus has been “They got it wrong!” We’re not sure any casting would have [...]

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How to Introduce Kink Into Your Relationship (Esp If You’re a Dude)

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

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Lelo’s Etherea Silk Cuffs Our friend, previous Nerve coworker, and fellow writer Grant Stoddard recently hit us up for some insight for his Men’s Health article “Does She Deserve a Spanking?”¬†This is how these things go: article writer asks you (the author of a book on the subject in question) a bunch of questions, you [...]

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Comment of the Week: A Different Kind of Ravishment Fantasy

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

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Awesome gender-swapped version of Robin Thicke’s “Blurred Lines” by Mod Carousel Reader Simple Girl said the following in response to our post, “Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies, Too?” I have fantasies about raping my boyfriend.. Just rip him apart while he‚Äôs tied to a bed or something. I just wanna see how he [...]

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“150 Shades of Play” at the IPPY Awards!

Thursday, May 30, 2013

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Last night, we attended the IPPY Awards¬†ceremony in NYC to receive our silver medals for all-around awesomeness in an¬†independently-published sex &¬†relationship¬†book.150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink¬†is now an award-winner! While sipping our complimentary cocktails (yay, open bar!), nibbling the mediocre passed apps (free food, eh), listening to all the award announcements (there [...]

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My BDSM Relationship Is Giving Me Nightmares

Thursday, May 23, 2013

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“Em & Lo’s Shades of Play Kit” at GoodVibes Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst¬†Lauri Loewenberg¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze?¬†Click here to submit it.¬†This week, a reader asks Lauri: I have, for lack of [...]

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