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Tag Archive | "BDSM"

Comment of the Week: TOO Equal in a Relationship = No Spark

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

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Reader AndySea wrote the following in response to the post, “Your Call ‚Äď He‚Äôs Kinky, She‚Äôs Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed?”¬†What do the rest of you think: Is it true that in a relationship¬†of equals, “the sexual spark is never as strong”? (For the record, AndySea is speaking of any kind of power dynamic in [...]

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2014: Year of the Vanilla Revolution?

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

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Image via Flickr | Sponsored Post The Fifty Shades of Grey movie may not be scheduled for release until February 13, 2015, but according to LELO, the kinky sex revolution is already waning. According to sales figures of LELO toys, tracked across their top 20 leading markets, sales of BDSM accessories such as whips and teasers reached [...]

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Last Chance for Great Last-Minute Gift: 150 SHADES OF PLAY!

Thursday, December 19, 2013

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This is your last chance to give the MOST entertaining/romantic/kinky/informative/funny/sexy/outrageous holiday gift of the year! Our how-to companion piece to Fifty Shades of Grey titled¬†150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink¬†is ON SALE THIS MONTH ONLY19 FOR LESS THAN $10!¬†Here are the remaining deadlines you have to beat to¬†get your copies by Xmas: [...]

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Your Call: How Do I Set Limits in a New BDSM Relationship?

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

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photo via Entertainment Weekly We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. You can leave your advice in the comments section below (for a reader who appears to be dating a [...]

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The 12 Days of Kinkmas

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

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In honor of the special holiday sale price of our book, 150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink¬†(now under ten bucks for the first time ever!), we’re presenting own special sexy sacrilegious spin on a Xmas classic. Enjoy: On the 12th Day of Kinkmas my true sub gave to me… 12 Crops a [...]

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Last Week for FREE Shipping of 150 SHADES OF PLAY!

Friday, December 13, 2013

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Kimono Robe by LELO Your holiday shopping days are dwindling, so don’t miss out on the chance to give your lover a naughty stocking stuffer, your best friend a companion piece to her dog-eared copy of Fifty Shades, or your coworkers something to blush over during the Secret Santa exchange at your holiday office party! [...]

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The Best Holiday Gift EVER Is Now Under 10 Bucks!

Friday, December 6, 2013

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Okay, we may be overstating things just a tad. But just check out the Amazon reviews and you’ll see that¬†150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink¬†– winner of a 2013 IPPY Award! –¬†is the most perfect, affordable, and easily purchased gift for: Your friend who can’t wait for the Fifty Shades of Grey¬†movies [...]

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My Fiance Bit Me Like a Vampire in His Sleep

Sunday, October 20, 2013

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image by King Chimp, from “Nosferatu” Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I am big into pain while having sex, and I am also into vampires. My¬†fiance and I [...]

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Comment of the Week: BDSM Is More About Trust Than Ropes & Chains

Thursday, October 10, 2013

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Sutra Chainlink Cuffs by LELO Reader sex_is_weird_thats_all said the following in response to our post, “Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies, Too?” Despite the people who end up in the news, there is usually in any metropolitan area a very legit BDSM community. I have a group of friends that includes a sizable chunk [...]

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A New Book That Some People Don’t Want You to Read (Part 1)

Thursday, October 3, 2013

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a still from the video trailer of Happyland HAPPYLAND — by one of the coolest authors we know, J. ROBERT LENNON — is finally out! This is the novel that W. W. Norton pulled from production in 2005 over fears of libel, that Harper’s Magazine ran in serial (though heavily abridged)in the fall of 2006, [...]

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