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Tag Archive | "BDSM"

My Fiance Bit Me Like a Vampire in His Sleep

Thursday, October 25, 2012

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image by King Chimp, from “Nosferatu” Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I am big into pain while having sex, and I am also into vampires. My fiance and I [...]

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Comment of the Week: Love Can’t Conquer Kinky Differences

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

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Reader Xena said the following in response to our post “He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla — Is the Relationship Doomed?” The LESS likely scenario is that the vanilla partner will have bsdm needs awoken in them with time. But I would not bet on that scenario. The other very important thing to note is that even [...]

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Just How Different Are Men’s and Women’s Fantasy Lives?

Monday, July 30, 2012

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photo via flickr Are women’s and men’s fantasy lives vastly different, or are they basically the same except for a few variations on theme and frequency? We suppose it depends on who you ask and what they already believe about the way women and men approach sex. Because people’s prior beliefs about how women and [...]

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Comment of the Week: I’m Vanilla By Day, Kinky By Night

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

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Reader Lila wrote the following in response to the recent article “Confession: I’m a BDSM Beginner” on our site: I love this post! That was MY life a few years ago. While I found my kink differently than you, I am still a professional woman with an education and a life. I just needed to [...]

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Confession: I’m a BDSM Beginner

Thursday, June 28, 2012

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Lelo’s “Etherea” Silk Cuffs A female friend of ours, a recent college grad who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: I think I might be kinky. I know, I know: These days, who isn’t? With Fifty Shades of Grey refusing to budge from the bestseller list and Rihanna singing about how chains [...]

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Phrase of the Week: Sex Nerd

Monday, May 14, 2012

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photo via flickr We pride ourselves on knowing all the sex lingo — and where there isn’t lingo for something we’ve observed in the world of sex and dating, then we make it up ourselves. For example, three terms we coined in our book Rec Sex: An A-Z Guide to Casual Sex are benched (the [...]

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What We Talk About When We Talk About “Fifty Shades of Grey”

Thursday, April 19, 2012

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This may be sacrilege to say, but we can’t seem to muster any interest in reading the new, best-selling erotica novel that everyone’s talking about, Fifty Shades of Grey. After all, even the author admits that it’s not that good! For SM erotica, we’d rather stick with a classic like Story of O. Yeah, yeah, [...]

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Your Call: Should He Use Halloween to Introduce Her to His Kinky Side

Friday, October 28, 2011

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photo via DailyBillboard We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. I’ve recently started seeing a woman I [...]

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10 Reasons to Love Velcro Wrist Restraints

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

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Etherea cuffs from Lelo available at Eden Fantasies 1. Regular handcuffs can be mighty uncomfortable after a few minutes–in fact, the police-issue kind can actually cause nerve damage. But Velcro cuffs are built for comfort. 2. Sure, there’s something sexy about undoing your own or your man’s tie and co-opting it for your own kinky [...]

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5 Ways to Keep Sex Fresh and New — No, Seriously

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

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photo by John Brawley If you want to feel like it’s the very first time, then it’s important to keep sex surprising and try new things regularly. You can’t get lazy. So give the following steps a try every now and then. You might feel silly being “experimental,” but the occasional awkward moment is a [...]

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