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10 Simple Steps to Fifty-ize You Sex Life

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

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We just did an interview with Cosmopolitan about our new book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, and they turned it into a nifty little 10-step program for introducing BDSM into the bedroom: 1. Talk Dirty to Him “Bringing up S&M with your partner can be shocking and awkward. A great way [...]

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How Headphones Can Kink Up Your Sex Life

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

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photo via flickr The following is an excerpt from the “H” section of our new A-Z book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts. The book is on sale now! Ear plugs aren‚Äôt just for construction workers and insomniacs, and noise-canceling [...]

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Last Week for FREE Shipping of 150 SHADES OF PLAY!

Friday, December 14, 2012

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Kimono Robe by LELO Your holiday shopping days are dwindling, so don’t miss out on the chance to give your lover a naughty stocking stuffer, your best friend a companion piece to her dog-eared copy of Fifty Shades, or your coworkers something to blush over during the Secret Santa exchange at your holiday office party! [...]

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S Is for Spanking

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

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photo via flickr The following is an excerpt from the “S”section of our new A-Z book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts. The book is on sale now! Spanking is hand-to-tush contact, which many consider more intimate and less scary [...]

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Check Out Our New Site: 150ShadesOfPlay.com

Friday, December 7, 2012

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Our brand new book 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink¬†just hit the streets! And it’s got a beautiful ¬†new website to go with it! 150ShadesOfPlay.com has some excerpts (including the book’s full introduction), lots of very flattering praise (from the likes of TIME’s Joel Stein and sex educator icon Betty Dodson!), and [...]

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A Spanking Fetish Without the Cliche Emotional Baggage

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

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photo via flickr We don’t often read the “Modern Love” column in the New York Times Sunday Styles section these days — when you’ve been in the biz as long as we have, it’s easy to get cynical and feel like you’ve heard every story about love and sex there is to tell. But ¬†this [...]

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My Fiance Bit Me Like a Vampire in His Sleep

Thursday, October 25, 2012

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image by King Chimp, from “Nosferatu” Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I am big into pain while having sex, and I am also into vampires. My¬†fiance and I [...]

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Comment of the Week: Love Can’t Conquer Kinky Differences

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

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Reader Xena said the following in response to our post “He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla — Is the Relationship Doomed?” The LESS likely scenario is that the vanilla partner will have bsdm needs awoken in them with time. But I would not bet on that scenario. The other very important thing to note is that even [...]

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Just How Different Are Men’s and Women’s Fantasy Lives?

Monday, July 30, 2012

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photo via flickr Are women’s and men’s fantasy lives vastly different, or are they basically the same except for a few variations on theme and frequency? We suppose it depends on who you ask and what they already believe about the way women and men approach sex. Because people’s prior beliefs about how women and [...]

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Comment of the Week: I’m Vanilla By Day, Kinky By Night

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

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Reader Lila wrote the following in response to the recent article “Confession: I‚Äôm a BDSM Beginner” on our site: I love this post! That was MY life a few years ago. While I found my kink differently than you, I am still a professional woman with an education and a life. I just needed to [...]

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