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Tag Archive | "Booty Calls"

When His Mouth Says “Booty Call” But His Body Says “Relationship”

Thursday, February 26, 2015

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I met this guy who is really sweet and nice.¬† He is 20 and I am 21.¬† We’ve hung out a few times and I am starting to like him.¬† Then, I saw him at a fraternity party the other night (although he does not go to my [...]

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Your Call: Can I Downgrade a Booty Call to Friend (No Benefits)?

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Dear Em & Lo, I have been reading [...]

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What to Do When You Get Your Period on a Booty Call

Friday, January 16, 2015

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Dear Em & Lo, For the past two weeks I have been sleeping with a guy I met here at college. The boundaries of our relationship have been well-established: late night phone calls for no-strings-attached sex. We’re having a great time, and I want to keep this thing going. However, the last time we were [...]

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Comment of the Week: Friends with Benefits Starts with Friends

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

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Reader Anathema said the following in response to our post, “Your Call: Is This a FWB Situation or Something More?”¬†We’re pretty sure she’s the most well-adjusted friend-with-benefits we’ve ever heard of! I had a wonderful FWB thing with a guy for 2 1/2 years. He and I were both in open relationships (which is why [...]

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My BDSM Relationship Is Giving Me Nightmares

Thursday, May 23, 2013

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“Em & Lo’s Shades of Play Kit” at GoodVibes Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst¬†Lauri Loewenberg¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze?¬†Click here to submit it.¬†This week, a reader asks Lauri: I have, for lack of [...]

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Your Call: Will Ground Rules Scare Off My Booty Call?

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New [...]

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The 25 Rules of the Booty Call

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

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photo via Flickr Most people don’t talk about booty calls. That’s part of their appeal: “We don’t have to endlessly com-mu-ni-cate because we’re not in a serious relationship.” People rely on a tacit understanding when it comes to casual sex with their friends and neighbors, and especially their exes. But it’s silly to assume that [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: He Says It’s Just Sex, But Then He Holds My Hand

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

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photo via flickr Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, I met this guy through Facebook. We met up at a bar he goes to all the time. When I come walking in he does a double take. We hit it off right off the bat! Yeah! [...]

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Oops! I Slept with a Co-Worker at the Office Holiday Party

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

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Dear Em & Lo, I slept with a co-worker after our holiday office party. We were both very drunk, and while I don’t regret it, I don’t want anything further with him. Unfortunately, he’s giving me all the signals that he’d like for us to continue what was, for me, just a one-night thing. To [...]

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Your Call: How Often Do F-Buddies Become Girlfriends?

Friday, October 7, 2011

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been [...]

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