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Tag Archive | "Booty Calls"

Dear Em & Lo: My Booty Call Wants to Ditch the Condoms

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

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photo by Alaskan_Dude Dear Em & Lo, I was celibate for the first 20 years of my life, so considering that, it was surprisingly easy to jump into bed with a guy who lives in my building…every few nights for the last two months. We have a nurturing and adventurous sexual relationship, I think, and [...]

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Your Call: How Can I Tell If My Friend with Benefits Is Falling for Me?

Friday, September 9, 2011

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & Lo, I’m 24 [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Can I Give My Booty Call Some Ground Rules?

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

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photo by Helga Weber Dear Em & Lo, I have a friend with benefits who also has other friends with benefits. One of them called me on the phone last night and was threatening me. I called him right up and he apologized and said he would talk to her about it, but should I [...]

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8 Rules of the Booty Call

Thursday, July 28, 2011

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photo by sidewalk_flying We’ve all been there: Out on the town, feeling good after a cocktail or five, you don’t want to go home but you can’t stay where you are, and no one has made you any offers you can’t refuse yet. So you fish out your phone to daringly (read: desperately) see if [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Can I Dump a Booty Call By Text?

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

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photo by sidewalk_flying Dear Em & Lo, Until last week I had been dating a lovely man who would make an excellent casual partner, but was not much chop for heading toward an actual relationship, which is my preferred modus operandi (he has agreed with this analysis). The problem was, as a journalist he was [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, Did I Put Out Prematurely?

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

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photo by Frank H Dear Em and Lo, OK, here’s a complicated question, but I’m not fond of roadside psychics, so you guys are my best bet. I’ve been carrying on a flirtation with a local bartender for about a month now. The other night, the flirtation led to drinks at a neighboring bar, and [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, Is Physical Attraction in Friendship a Gift or a Curse?

Friday, August 20, 2010

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photo by Vivian Chen Dear Em & Lo, Is physical attraction a gift or a curse?¬†I’m writing this because a friend and I have been friends for a year. Let’s just say we’ve had our share of up and downs. From us being friends with benefits to helping him deal with his crazy ex-girlfriend. I [...]

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Dear Em & Lo – When Undefined Relationships Go Wrong…

Friday, June 11, 2010

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photo by Katie Tegtmeyer [Note to readers: This advice letter is loooong but it was impossible to edit down without affecting the story. And also, we felt it was only right that you got to read the whole long messy debacle that we responded to!] Dear Em & Lo, I am a 26-year-old woman and [...]

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Best Walk of Shame Accessory Ever

Friday, April 30, 2010

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Okay, so the marketing materials for these shoes don’t specifically mention walks of shame, but we are not afraid to point out the obvious. Because the only thing worse than a walk of shame on a Sunday morning in a glittery short dress is doing that walk of shame in a pair of heels that [...]

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Wise Guys: Can a Booty Call Ever Blossom?

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

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photo by Joe M500 Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,“If a guy’s in a booty call relationship with a woman, is there a chance he’d ever want to actually date her, could it ever blossom into something more?” Gay Single Guy (Jay Dyckman): The bottom line in any [...]

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