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Tag Archive | "Casual Sex"

Top 10 Sex Tips for First Year College Students

Wednesday, August 29, 2012


photo from Colgate University For many young men and women, this week marks the start of a new chapter of life — one of higher learning, critical thinking, problem solving, horizon broadening, and lots and lots of casual bonking. It’s a whole new world of unchaperoned independence and freedom combined with 18-year-old hormones — which [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Did I Ruin Things By Sleeping with Him Too Soon?

Wednesday, June 20, 2012


photo via flickr G’day mates (yep I’m Australian), Okay, the scenario:¬†Met a guy on a Friday at a shop. Swapped numbers and he asked me out. I couldn’t that weekend cause I was busy with my bday party.¬†He texted me Saturday night to ask how the party was going and mentioned he was close by. [...]

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Your Call: In a Casual Relationship, What’s the Diff Btwn Honesty & TMI?

Wednesday, June 13, 2012


photo via Flickr  We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  So, I have been having a casual sexual [...]

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Guess the Celebrity Casual Sex Quote

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

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photo via “The Voice” Most of the time when celebrities are interviewed, they blab on about how talented the director was or what their craft means to them (yawn). But every now and then they’ll open up about something a little more racy. See if you can match up the following celebrities to their quotes [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Admit to Other Current Casual Sex Partners?

Tuesday, April 10, 2012


photo via¬†Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com‚Äôs¬†guy friends. This week they answer the following:¬†‚ÄúIf a guy is casually hooking up with someone and exclusivity has not yet been established, is he obliged to tell that person about other people he’s sleeping with? And should he offer up that information, or should he wait to be [...]

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Question of the Week: What’s Your Number?

Thursday, January 19, 2012


The movie What’s Your Number? (just released on DVD) is based on the totally annoying premise that a woman (played by the usually much funnier and better-than-this Anna Faris) freaks out when she reads a magazine article and discovers that her sexual body count (20) is twice the average. So she decides that rather than [...]

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Comment of the Week: Why Settle for Milk If You’re Looking for a Whole Cow?

Wednesday, January 11, 2012


photo via flickr Comments of the week don’t necessarily reflect our personal opinions — sometimes it’s simply a thoughtful response that we think merits further discussion. This week, in response to the post “Wise Guys: Is Sex on a First Date a Relationship Killer?”¬†reader William says this: Why would you want to have sex on [...]

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Oops! I Slept with a Co-Worker at the Office Holiday Party

Wednesday, December 21, 2011


Dear Em & Lo, I slept with a co-worker after our holiday office party. We were both very drunk, and while I don’t regret it, I don’t want anything further with him. Unfortunately, he’s giving me all the signals that he’d like for us to continue what was, for me, just a one-night thing. To [...]

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Your Call: How Often Do F-Buddies Become Girlfriends?

Friday, October 7, 2011


We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Booty Call Wants to Ditch the Condoms

Wednesday, September 14, 2011


photo by Alaskan_Dude Dear Em & Lo, I was celibate for the first 20 years of my life, so considering that, it was surprisingly easy to jump into bed with a guy who lives in my building…every few nights for the last two months. We have a nurturing and adventurous sexual relationship, I think, and [...]

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