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Wise Guys – Would You Accept a Free Pass for a One-Night Stand?

Tuesday, January 4, 2011


photo by balinto Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If a guy’s partner told him that he could have a one-night stand with a stranger, no questions asked, and it was guaranteed that his partner wouldn’t freak out about it later — would most guys take their partner [...]

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Wise Guys – When Can I Expect (or Make) the Post-Sex Call?

Tuesday, November 16, 2010


photo by SYD_Rahim Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “If I sleep with a new guy and everything went great — long talk beforehand, great chemistry, lots in common, orgasms all around — when can I reasonably expect a call from him? And will the number of days [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, Did I Put Out Prematurely?

Wednesday, September 15, 2010


photo by Frank H Dear Em and Lo, OK, here’s a complicated question, but I’m not fond of roadside psychics, so you guys are my best bet. I’ve been carrying on a flirtation with a local bartender for about a month now. The other night, the flirtation led to drinks at a neighboring bar, and [...]

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One-Night Stands Can So Lead to Beautiful Relationships

Tuesday, September 7, 2010


photo by e.esders Before we started writing about sex, we had no idea that so many scientists and researchers spent time so much time studying our sexual proclivities. These days we have trouble thinking of anything sexual that hasn’t been qualified and quantified and written up in a science journal. Take the age-old issue of [...]

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Comment of the Week: You, Em & Lo, Owe Us All an Apology

Wednesday, August 25, 2010


photo by Lara64 We received the following in response to our Metro article on negotiating a night of casual sex. Sometimes, it’s the hate mail that brings us the most joy: I read your “article” in Metro this morning. Ironically I NEVER read that rag but for some reason I did this morning and I’m [...]

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The Power of Teenage Love

Monday, August 23, 2010

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photo by Pink Sherbet Photography A study by Bill McCarthy of the University of California and Eric Grodsky of the University of Minnesota found that teens in romantic sexual relationships have similar school experiences to virgins. Meanwhile, students who engage in NON-romantic sexual activity (hook-ups, friends with benefits, etc) were found to be more likely [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, Is Physical Attraction in Friendship a Gift or a Curse?

Friday, August 20, 2010


photo by Vivian Chen Dear Em & Lo, Is physical attraction a gift or a curse?¬†I’m writing this because a friend and I have been friends for a year. Let’s just say we’ve had our share of up and downs. From us being friends with benefits to helping him deal with his crazy ex-girlfriend. I [...]

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How to Negotiate a Night of Casual Sex

Thursday, August 19, 2010


photo by Helga Weber We have nothing against casual sex so long as everyone is being safe and the casual nature of the sex is completely mutual. And “mutual” is where things get tricky. May we introduce you to the concept of a prenook? This is the casual-sex equivalent of the prenup. The pre-nook is [...]

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10 Simple Steps to Hosting a Sexy Sleepover

Thursday, July 29, 2010


photo by SFBNess If you’re planning on having a new guest over to “look at your etchings” for the first time, follow these 10 rules to ensure there’s a next time: Only invite a guest over when you won’t have to rush out the door the next morning. Warn any roommates that you will be [...]

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Dear Em & Lo – How Can I Dump Him If He Won’t See Me?

Friday, July 23, 2010


photo by faster_panda_kill_kill Dear Em & Lo, So I have this guy friend who I met my freshmen year at college. We used to hang out a lot together and, well, I ended up liking him. The only problem was that he sometimes did not seem to feel the same way towards me. He would flirt back and [...]

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