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Tag Archive | "Casual Sex"

Dear Em & Lo: Can I Dump a Booty Call By Text?

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

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photo by sidewalk_flying Dear Em & Lo, Until last week I had been dating a lovely man who would make an excellent casual partner, but was not much chop for heading toward an actual relationship, which is my preferred modus operandi (he has agreed with this analysis). The problem was, as a journalist he was [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Have Casual Sex

Wednesday, April 20, 2011


photo by ValtheKid Kateswist comenting on the post “Is Casual Sex Really That Great“: I think there is a lot to be gained from casual sex, with this single requirement; you have to be in total control of your situation.¬† Be picky and choosy.¬† Be upfront with the man saying, “hey this is just sex.¬† [...]

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Your Call: Is Casual Sex Really That Great?

Friday, April 15, 2011


photo by e.esders We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Wise Guys: What Makes for a Memorable One-Night Stand?

Tuesday, March 29, 2011


photo by Helga Weber Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What makes for a memorable (in a good way) one night stand?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Colin Adamo): Often the fun part of a one-night stand is in the spontaneity, [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Oops! I Forgot to Use Condoms

Wednesday, March 9, 2011


photo by trec_lit Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been sleeping with this guy for about three weeks, and our semi-non-relationship began the night after he broke up with his girlfriend of 8 months. We used a condom the first couple times, but then we stopped. I’m on the Pill and while I’m not worried about [...]

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Women Have Casual Sex for…Pleasure?

Tuesday, March 1, 2011


photo by e.esders It may not be news to any of you ladies out there who’ve enjoyed the thrill of a no-strings-attached hook-up, but for those who buy into the evo-psych pop notion that women are only interested in high-status resource providers rather than hotties (i.e. the opposite of men’s supposed eternal motivations) there’s a [...]

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Social Networking Leads to Oscar Nominations, Casual Sex

Monday, January 31, 2011


The movie The Social Network scored eight Oscar nominations last week, but that’s not the only way in which social networking, lower case, is scoring. According to a poll conducted by¬†Men’s Fitness and Shape magazines (not exactly the ivory towers, we know, but the sex and dating research coming out of there is often just [...]

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Wise Guys – Would You Accept a Free Pass for a One-Night Stand?

Tuesday, January 4, 2011


photo by balinto Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If a guy’s partner told him that he could have a one-night stand with a stranger, no questions asked, and it was guaranteed that his partner wouldn’t freak out about it later — would most guys take their partner [...]

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Wise Guys – When Can I Expect (or Make) the Post-Sex Call?

Tuesday, November 16, 2010


photo by SYD_Rahim Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “If I sleep with a new guy and everything went great — long talk beforehand, great chemistry, lots in common, orgasms all around — when can I reasonably expect a call from him? And will the number of days [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, Did I Put Out Prematurely?

Wednesday, September 15, 2010


photo by Frank H Dear Em and Lo, OK, here’s a complicated question, but I’m not fond of roadside psychics, so you guys are my best bet. I’ve been carrying on a flirtation with a local bartender for about a month now. The other night, the flirtation led to drinks at a neighboring bar, and [...]

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