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Tag Archive | "College"

Dorm Life FAIL: Real-Life Masturbation Pests or Urban Legend?

Tuesday, January 18, 2011


Regular readers of this blog will know that few things make us happier than FAILblog. We don’t think that teen guys wiping out during skateboard tricks are remotely funny, but a “chocolate chip muffin” with only one chocolate chip? Comedy genius. That all said, we hate to think of ourselves as suckers, which is why [...]

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Confession: Top 10 Reasons I Diddle

Friday, November 19, 2010


photo by kait jarbeau A college-student contributor friend of ours, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: Woodly Allen famously quipped, “Don’t knock masturbation; It’s sex with someone I love.” True that, Woody. Whether alone or incorporated in partnered sex, masturbation is easily my favorite hobby. Below, my 10 favorite reasons to [...]

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College Gals Finally Close the Marriage Gap

Thursday, October 14, 2010

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As recently as the ’90s, Em was horrified to hear her college roommate say that she was at school to get three letters: MRS. It was said kind of tongue-in-cheek… but not completely. The ironic thing was that back then, having a college degree actually meant that a woman was less likely to get married…and [...]

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Dream Interpretation – College Shower Sex After Growing a Penis

Monday, September 27, 2010


photo by stevendepolo Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I recently dreamed that I went back to college as I am now — a twenty-six year old. I ended [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, Should I End This Relationship?

Wednesday, September 22, 2010


photo by indy_slug Dear Em and Lo, I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now. All was great, with the occasional mishaps for a while. We were more compatible than I ever thought possible. Unfortunately within the past 9-12 months things have not quite been right. Little things about him bother me [...]

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Confession: Withdrawal Is Not an Option

Thursday, July 8, 2010


photo by David_and_Katarina A college-student contributor friend of ours, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: “I thought you said you were going to pull out.” In the dark, I could still see his expression, startled yet a little defiant, as if the fact that he had just come inside me without [...]

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Confession: Buddhism, the New Tactic of Players

Wednesday, June 9, 2010


photo by Chi King Our contributor Abby Spector, who is majoring in Feminine/Gender/Sexuality Studies at Wesleyan University, has a confession to make: Twenty-first century men are stuck between the macho and the metrosexual. They are told to be tough yet sensitive, strong yet vulnerable, careless yet compassionate. The manifestations of this straight man’s limbo differ [...]

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Confession: I Don’t Do Drunken Hookups

Wednesday, March 3, 2010


photo by nayrb7 A college-student contributor friend of ours, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: I woke up one morning after an evening chugging most of a jug of $3 wine and several cups of that uniquely collegiate concoction ‚Äújungle juice.‚ÄĚ Head pounding, eyes squinting, and stomach lurching, I realized there [...]

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Confession: I’m an Expert Sexter

Wednesday, November 4, 2009


photo by CoreForce Our contributor¬†is a junior in college. And that’s all she’s willing to say. Except this… Sexting, for the uninitiated, involves sending texts that are sexual in nature. These can range from straightforward (e.g. “I want to fuck you right now”) to graphically descriptive (use your imagination). And, if you’re brave — or, [...]

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Your Call: Is 19 Too Young to Relocate for Love?

Tuesday, October 27, 2009


photo by Made_Underground Dear Em & Lo, I’m 19 years old, and have been dating my boyfriend for eight months. However, we live 3 hours away from each other.¬† This hasn’t caused any problems yet, we get to see each other most weekends and the relationship is going great.¬† We fit together perfectly in all [...]

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