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Comment: My Neighbors Judge Me But This Site Doesn’t

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

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The following letter broke our hearts a little, while also making our week. In the spirit of the new year, we have both been attempting to catalog the things we are grateful for, and this letter made us grateful for the following things: 1) Readers who like us, who really like us! 2) Husbands and [...]

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Comment of the Week: Booty Calls Require Good Communication

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

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Another incredibly eloquent proponent of the well-negotiated booty call: Typhimurium¬†in response to our post, ¬†“Your Call: Will Ground Rules Scare Off My Booty Call?”¬† So I recently had a really successful friend-with-benefits relationship, and if it’s all right I’d love to share what was key for me in building it. My friend and I were [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Risks of Making Your Fantasy a Reality

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

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Reader Dave posted the following cautionary tale in response to our post, “Your Call: I Want My Wife to Have an Affair; She Thinks I‚Äôm Nuts”: I think you need to tread very carefully here‚Ķ just to give you my experience‚Ķ My wife and I often talked about her being with another guy while we [...]

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Comment of the Week: You Don’t Have to Accept His Porn Habit

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

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photo via flickr Reader Kendra said the following in response to our post, “Comment of the Week: How to Get Past His Porn Habit.”¬† We have to admit to a little mea culpa upon reading this. Yes, we do tend to tell female readers to find a way to compromise when it comes to their [...]

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This Site Is Better Than Therapy (Also: Yay, Strap-Ons)

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

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Reader P warmed the cockles of our hearts when she said the following, in response to our post, “Strap-on Sex Won’t Turn You Gay (If You Aren’t Already)”: The reason I found this site is because I was watching different types of porn to see if I could be stimulated and I found very few [...]

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Comment of the Week: Friends with Benefits Starts with Friends

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

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Reader Anathema said the following in response to our post, “Your Call: Is This a FWB Situation or Something More?”¬†We’re pretty sure she’s the most well-adjusted friend-with-benefits we’ve ever heard of! I had a wonderful FWB thing with a guy for 2 1/2 years. He and I were both in open relationships (which is why [...]

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Comment of the Week: Even Friends with Benefits Spoon

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

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Reader Finikki said the following in response to our post, “Your Call: Is This a FWB Situation or Something More?” When someone tells you they don‚Äôt want a relationship, believe them. Don‚Äôt make the mistake of thinking that experiencing intimacy with someone (like cuddling and talking for hours) necessarily means they want a relationship. People [...]

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Comment of the Week: You CAN Handle the Truth!

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

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  If you know us, you know that we are not averse to a little self promotion now and then, nor are we immune to flattery — in fact, it will get you everywhere. Hence, a little positive reinforcement of a short but sweet note we got recently validating all we do around these here [...]

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Comment of the Week: BDSM Is More About Trust Than Ropes & Chains

Thursday, October 10, 2013

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Sutra Chainlink Cuffs by LELO Reader sex_is_weird_thats_all said the following in response to our post, “Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies, Too?” Despite the people who end up in the news, there is usually in any metropolitan area a very legit BDSM community. I have a group of friends that includes a sizable chunk [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Talk About Penis Size with Your Man

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

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photo via Flickr Reader Tony¬†offers the following answer to the post question¬†“If He Asks About Size, Can I Tell Him the Truth?”¬†: I would try as much as possible to stay with a response that is both kind and honest. ¬†As a man, if my partner is trying to stick to those two principles I [...]

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