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Comment of the Week: Give Virgins a Break!

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

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Reader Jane said the following in response to our post, “Your Call: What’s the Best Way to Tell a Guy I’m a Virgin?” If a girl is a virgin at a certain age, 20, 25, 30 etc… and she is with a guy, in a new relationship, and WANTS to have sex with him… why [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Only Thing You Can Control Is Yourself

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

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photo via Flickr Reader Michael wrote a HUGE response to the post, “Your Call – Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? It was a little meandering, and we weren’t sure we were quite down with all of his advice, so we took the liberty of gently editing it a bit with the Em & Lo red pen: There [...]

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Comment of the Week: TOO Equal in a Relationship = No Spark

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

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Reader AndySea wrote the following in response to the post, “Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed?” What do the rest of you think: Is it true that in a relationship of equals, “the sexual spark is never as strong”? (For the record, AndySea is speaking of any kind of power dynamic in [...]

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Comment of the Week: I Love EMandLO.com!

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

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Okay, this isn’t a comment, it’s a private email we got this week, but it warmed the cockles of our hearts and stroked the nooks of our egos, so we just had to share. At first, upon cursory scan, we were afraid this might be some mildly creepy love letter from a reader with stalker [...]

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Comment: My Neighbors Judge Me But This Site Doesn’t

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

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The following letter broke our hearts a little, while also making our week. In the spirit of the new year, we have both been attempting to catalog the things we are grateful for, and this letter made us grateful for the following things: 1) Readers who like us, who really like us! 2) Husbands and [...]

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Comment of the Week: Booty Calls Require Good Communication

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

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Another incredibly eloquent proponent of the well-negotiated booty call: Typhimurium in response to our post,  “Your Call: Will Ground Rules Scare Off My Booty Call?”  So I recently had a really successful friend-with-benefits relationship, and if it’s all right I’d love to share what was key for me in building it. My friend and I were [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Risks of Making Your Fantasy a Reality

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

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Reader Dave posted the following cautionary tale in response to our post, “Your Call: I Want My Wife to Have an Affair; She Thinks I’m Nuts”: I think you need to tread very carefully here… just to give you my experience… My wife and I often talked about her being with another guy while we [...]

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Comment of the Week: You Don’t Have to Accept His Porn Habit

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

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photo via flickr Reader Kendra said the following in response to our post, “Comment of the Week: How to Get Past His Porn Habit.”  We have to admit to a little mea culpa upon reading this. Yes, we do tend to tell female readers to find a way to compromise when it comes to their [...]

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This Site Is Better Than Therapy (Also: Yay, Strap-Ons)

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

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Reader P warmed the cockles of our hearts when she said the following, in response to our post, “Strap-on Sex Won’t Turn You Gay (If You Aren’t Already)”: The reason I found this site is because I was watching different types of porn to see if I could be stimulated and I found very few [...]

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Comment of the Week: Friends with Benefits Starts with Friends

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

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Reader Anathema said the following in response to our post, “Your Call: Is This a FWB Situation or Something More?” We’re pretty sure she’s the most well-adjusted friend-with-benefits we’ve ever heard of! I had a wonderful FWB thing with a guy for 2 1/2 years. He and I were both in open relationships (which is why [...]

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