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Tag Archive | "Communication"

Comment of the Week: BDSM Is More About Trust Than Ropes & Chains

Thursday, October 10, 2013

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Sutra Chainlink Cuffs by LELO Reader sex_is_weird_thats_all said the following in response to our post, “Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies, Too?” Despite the people who end up in the news, there is usually in any metropolitan area a very legit BDSM community. I have a group of friends that includes a sizable chunk [...]

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How to Tell a Vanilla Partner About Your Kink

Friday, September 13, 2013

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We frequently hear from readers who are struggling with an imbalance of kink in their relationship — one partner is vanilla while the other is decidedly chocolate-swirl-fudge. So we asked¬†Richard Wagner, a.k.a. Dr. Dick (seriously), the author of the new book The Gospel of Kink: A Modern Guide To Asking For What You Want And [...]

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Comment of the Week: I’m Jealous of My Wife’s Friends

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

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Reader Jeff posted the following in response to our post, “Your Call: Why Is My Husband Jealous of My Female Friendships?”¬†We thought it would be a great jumping off point for a debate about how to compromise in a relationship when one person wants a lot more solo time with their friends than another. How [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Fiance Won’t Let Me Use a Vibrator During Sex

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

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Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, I am 24 years old and am recently engaged to my boyfriend of 2 years. We have been very open with our sexual problems but one I just can’t see to get him to understand is that I can’t have [...]

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Comment of the Week: How You Know He’s “The One”

Friday, July 12, 2013

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Reader MarcieT said the following in response to our post “Your Call: How Do I Know If He’s ‘The One’?”¬†What would you add to this list? (Um, sexual compatibility, anyone?) What would you not include? (Maybe you like watching TV on your own…) You know he‚Äôs “The One” when: You miss having him beside you [...]

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Your Call: How Do I Know If He’s the One?

Monday, June 24, 2013

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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How One Couple Gets Closer to Go Further… In Bed (Part 1 of 2)

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

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sponsored post ***Originally Posted on May 2nd, 2013*** Introducing Our “Get Closer Go Further” Project We’re thrilled to team up with Durex¬†for this¬†“Get Closer to Go Further”¬†project, which encourages committed couples to do just that: build intimacy in order to explore more sexual territories together. And when we say “go further,” we’re not just talking [...]

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4 Reasons Why It’s Good to Take Turns During Sex

Thursday, May 23, 2013

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photo via flickr Our contributor Jewely Hoxie studies Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here). She has this to say about the importance of taking turns… I’m pretty sure I‚Äôm not alone in having this ever-present fantasy of succumbing to someone else completely — someone who’ll give me a [...]

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5 Easy Ways to Talk Dirtier Tonight

Friday, May 10, 2013

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Dirty talk can terrify even the most seasoned sexual adventurer‚ÄĒpeople are afraid of sounding stupid or afraid of like a pornstar… or perhaps they‚Äôre afraid of not sounding like a pornstar. But when you break it down, dirty talk is actually much simpler and more approachable than you might think. Here are five easy ways [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Embrace Your Partner’s Sexual History

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

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Reader Hannah offered up the following very wise (and patient!) advice in response to our post “Your Call: How Do I Get Over All the Sex She’s Had Before Me?” Sigh‚Ķ A man wants a virgin who will be his whore. I am going to try to avoid criticizing though, since I think this is [...]

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