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Tag Archive | "Communication"

Your Call: How Do You Determine If It’s Love or Lust (Without Ruining It)?

Friday, May 13, 2011

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photo by batega We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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6 Sexual Habits Everyone Should Keep

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

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photo via CollegeCandy.com We constantly hear how we should avoid getting into a sexual rut and keep trying new things. But just as important is to develop some good sexual habits — things that you should be engaging in on a regular basis with your partner (whatever regular means to you) — now and always. [...]

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Wise Guys: What If He Doesn’t Say I Love You Back?

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

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Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If a guy doesn’t respond in kind to the admission “I love you”, does that automatically mean the relationship is doomed and going nowhere? Or is there ever hope?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (David [...]

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Comment of the Week: Communication Is Overrated

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

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photo by david.nikonvscanon Johnny, commenting in the post “Your Call: BF Used to Have Sex on Table Where We Eat”: No good comes of “telling each other everything.” That’s’ a recipe for past-sex-life-resentment (unless, like me, you’re a perv who gets off on hearing these things; most people…aren’t that way). Some things are best kept [...]

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5 Ways to Practice Mindfulness in the Bedroom

Friday, April 22, 2011

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photo by Daniel Sandoval We met Wendy Strgar, founder of the company Good Clean Love, at a conference in Vegas (as one does) a few years back and were instant fans. Good Clean Love makes organic love products — for example, lubes that actually smell good, and aren’t packed with nasty artificial sugars (which can [...]

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7 Personality Types to Avoid When You’re Dating

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

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photo by Carlos Madrigal In a world of Facebook “likes” and online dating questionnaires that seem to narrow down the soul-mate search to a simple (and yet oh so witty!) checklist of wants and needs, it’s easy to focus on the superficial ways in which we do or don’t connect with each other. And granted, [...]

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Your Call: My Guy Is Too Fat for Sex

Friday, March 25, 2011

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & Lo, I genuinely [...]

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Your Call: Why Can’t I Climax from Oral?

Friday, March 11, 2011

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illustration via Foxtongue We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Wise Guys – What’s the #1 Relationship Deal-Breaker for Men?

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

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photo by B_Rosen Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What is the number one deal-breaker for guys in relationships?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Single Guy (Daniel): Sexual compatibility, which could include chemistry, quantity, styles, kink-acceptance, and/or willingness to explore, monogamy versus polyamory. [...]

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Scientifically Proven First-Date Questions

Monday, February 14, 2011

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image via OKTrends Regular readers of this blog will know that we are mildly obsessed with the dating research blog OKTrends (it’s attached to the dating site OKCupid) — check out our past coverage of OKTrends on the myth of gay evangelism, the (consistent, predictable) way we lie online, misconceptions about online profile photos, and the [...]

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