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photo by (nutmeg) We got a TON of great comments on the “How Long Can a Virgin Make a Guy Wait?” post, from Spes, SS, Madamaoiselle L….it was so hard to choose one! So we picked two: Rhett Butler: Let me recast the question to illuminate it a bit more. While the analogy isn’t perfect, let’s replace [...]
Continue reading...Wednesday, March 3, 2010
photo by nayrb7 A college-student contributor friend of ours, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: I woke up one morning after an evening chugging most of a jug of $3 wine and several cups of that uniquely collegiate concoction “jungle juice.” Head pounding, eyes squinting, and stomach lurching, I realized there was a [...]
Continue reading...Wednesday, February 17, 2010
photo by ILoveButter A contributor friend of ours, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: Until about a year ago, my mother was always very close-minded about sex. I never had “the talk” with either of my parents, and I learned about intercourse and other modes of love making via fellow classmates, porn, and [...]
Continue reading...Wednesday, February 10, 2010
photo by stevendepolo Let’s clarify that question: Can/should straight married people have opposite-sex friends? Which begs the question, can/should gay married people have same-sex friends? These questions were inspired by the following recent comment: I have found that even though I’ve been married for years, I never spend time alone with my husband’s male friends, even men [...]
Continue reading...Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Cloud 9 from Babeland A contributor friend of ours, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: One of the oft-cited benefits of buying a sex toy online is that you don’t have to see or speak to anyone. You don’t have to interact with a real human, period. But what happens when you lay [...]
Continue reading...Wednesday, December 16, 2009
photo by stevendepolo A contributor friend of ours, who wished to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: I’m all for showering independently, quickly toweling off, and jumping back into bed for sex — that’s a good start to any morning. But if you want me to actually join you in the shower, you should know that [...]
Continue reading...Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Our contributor Katherine Chen, a sophomore English major at Princeton University (check out her personal site here), has a confession to make: These days, every girl between 10 and 50 seems to be obsessed with the Twilight Saga. You’d think it was because a story about an intense love triangle between a teenage girl, a vampire [...]
Continue reading...Thursday, November 12, 2009
A few weeks ago our contributor Katherine Chen, a sophomore English major at Princeton University (check out her personal site here), wrote about how her sex education began (hint: poorly). Here she elaborates on how it improved: My first porn video: A woman with large breasts and reddish brown hair sits in what appears to be [...]
Continue reading...Wednesday, November 4, 2009
photo by CoreForce Our contributor is a junior in college. And that’s all she’s willing to say. Except this… Sexting, for the uninitiated, involves sending texts that are sexual in nature. These can range from straightforward (e.g. “I want to fuck you right now”) to graphically descriptive (use your imagination). And, if you’re brave — or, perhaps, foolhardy [...]
Continue reading...Wednesday, October 21, 2009
photo by Leeni Speaking of casual cuddling: Our contributor Abby Spector, who is double-majoring in English and Feminine/Gender/Sexuality Studies at Wesleyan University, has a confession to make: It has been exactly a year since I last had sex. I didn’t intend on taking a vow of celibacy. Like belly button lint and shocking celebrity deaths (RIP Jacko [...]
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Wednesday, March 10, 2010
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