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Tag Archive | "Confessions"

In Defense of Sex Toys, Feminism and Trolls

Wednesday, March 25, 2015

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For the most part, we tend to ignore the trolls. But every once in a while, outlandish claims need to be addressed to ensure that reality-based facts win over fear, insecurity and hate. In response to a post about a woman whose inability to orgasm without a sex toy was hurting her boyfriend’s feelings, one [...]

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Comments of the Week: The Sexual Satisfaction & Compatibility Quiz

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

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photo via Wiki Commons This week, in response to our Your Call question “My Husband and I Don‚Äôt Care That We Don‚Äôt Have Much Sex. Should We?“, two of our MVPs were quick on the draw with spot-on answers. First, Nikki wrote: This sounds like more of the tyranny of ‚Äúnormal.‚ÄĚ If you have a [...]

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Comment of the Month: Do NOT Try This at Home!

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

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We’ve gotten some outrageous letters over the years: one from the guy asking us if he could get STDs from the corpses he was having sex with at the morgue; another from a couple inquiring how they could get their German Shepard to have consensual sex with the woman while the man watched. We try [...]

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What Did You Think of Jeremy Renner’s “Globes” Joke?

Monday, January 12, 2015

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screen shot from the Golden Globes on NBC J. Lo wore one of her, shall we say, memorable numbers to the 2015 Golden Globes, the kind of outfit that draws the unblinking stare of even the gayest gay man like greedy raiders of a lost ark. So when she and Jeremy Renner were about to [...]

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Comment of the Week: What Really Matters in Bed

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

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photo via Flickr This comment by reader¬†Erica¬†got lost in the holiday shuffle, but it’s worth going back for. She made it in response to our post,¬†10 Reasons Why Your “Ugly Vagina” Is Normal and Gorgeous. We feel really bad for her 12-year-old self and hate the culture that created her, but are so happy to [...]

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Comment of the Week: Buzzkills Are Poopyheads

Thursday, December 11, 2014

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photo via Flickr A good comment of the week doesn’t have to be Shakespeare or even Dr. Ruth. Exhibit A: This response by Dave W. to the post “How to Determine Whether Your Dating Age Gap Is Embarrassing“: Sure, large age gaps have only a small chance of making it long term, but it’s a [...]

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Confession: A Cab Driver Found My G-Spot & Spoiled Me for All Boyfriends

Thursday, November 6, 2014

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by Dori Hartley for YourTango  |  photo via flickr The year was 1985. I was walking on Third Avenue in New York City, probably going to the store for no good reason. It was a gorgeous day. On the corner, a cab stopped at the light. The car was free and the driver smiled at [...]

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Comment of the Week: I’ve Got a Problem with EMandLO.com

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

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When we started reading Dave’s comment today, we thought, “Oh no, what have we done now?” Turns out it’s not us who are the problem, it’s our readers: I have a serious problem with your website. Almost every time I read something on your website and want to comment on it, I find that someone [...]

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An Open Letter to Our Readers About That Football & Rape Piece

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

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photo via Flickr Dear Readers (Robert in particular), Our recent post, Is Football More Important Than Rape, syndicated by us from YourTango and written by Charles J. Orlando, ignited one of the most spirited and thoughtful debates EMandLO.com has had in a long time. The first response came from Robert, a long-time reader, now (sniff) [...]

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Comment of the Week: Blow Jobs Aren’t an Inalienable Right

Thursday, October 16, 2014

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In an impassioned response to our post, “Your Call: She Doesn’t Like Going Down,” reader Sara¬†doesn’t pull any punches when discussing those who prioritize sex acts over actual people. She really gets going in the fourth paragraph!: You know what makes it easier to like something? Being able to choose freely whether to do it [...]

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