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Tag Archive | "Confessions"

Comment of the Week: Small Sexy Bits Are Lovable

Thursday, January 24, 2013


photo via Flickr Christy, commenting on our most popular post,¬†”My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me“: I personally am very thin and not very curvy. Since early in my life, I have experienced the cruelty of people judging someone based on physique. Mine being more obvious and public than the [...]

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The REAL Reasons Why Yoga Improves Your Sex Life

Thursday, January 3, 2013


photo via flickr Is your New Year’s resolution to improve both your health and your sex life? Yoga could be the answer, though not for the reasons you might think, says our contributor Jewely Hoxie, who is studying Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here): As a teenager, naive [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Push and Pull of Love

Wednesday, December 5, 2012


photo via Flickr Reader Lily¬†had this to say in response to “Your Call: Can a Relationship Work If One Person Is More Into It?”: Relationships seem to have a subtle but brilliant push/pull mechanism that make them ‘work’ in the beginning. Then after a while you have to consciously chip in in order to keep [...]

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Poll: Is This Shit For Real?

Monday, December 3, 2012


We got the following letter of enquiry via our site this past weekend, from a guy claiming to be in a long distance relationship with the love of his life, who’s now trying to crowdfund a trip to see her so he can propose. We’re suckers for a good love story, but we ain’t buying [...]

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Comment of the Week: Love a Man As Is

Thursday, November 8, 2012


photo via Flickr This comment from Mactek in response to the post “Wise Guys: If He Asks About Size, Can I Tell Him the Truth?” recalls our favorite comment from two weeks ago titled “Love a Woman As Is.” Hey, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander! I want a woman who [...]

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Confession: 8 Rules for the Third Wheel in a Threeway

Thursday, November 1, 2012


photo via flickr Our¬†contributor is a college student who wishes to remain anonymous. She has some sage advice to impart on the topic of three ways… When people give warnings about threeways, it’s usually directed at couples who are bringing in a third party.¬†Threeways are not a relationship-building exercise, they tell you.¬†Are you sure your [...]

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Comment of the Week: I Finally Made My Vibrator Obsolete!

Wednesday, October 10, 2012


photo via Flickr We love a success story. Here’s Anne, in response to “10 Steps to Orgasming Without a Vibrator”: I have been going electric since I discovered any sort of sex in my teens. You would be surprised how many household items vibrate. My first orgasm was with vibration and I had never had [...]

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What’s Your Favorite Sex Toy?

Thursday, September 27, 2012


Mona 2 by Lelo We’re conducting an unscientific survey on what people think are the best sex toys out there. As you know, we’re fond of¬†all things LELO. What’s your all-time favorite one? Or at least your favorite one this season — after all, new and/or improved ones are popping up all the time. Please [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Get the Sex You Want

Wednesday, September 26, 2012


photo via Flickr For the second week in a row, our favorite comment has been in response¬†to the post, “Your Call: My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm”¬†–¬†¬†this week reader¬†Tess¬†has some similarly spot on advice: …if this pattern [of unsatisfying sex] is all that [your husband] knows, then you can’t expect him [...]

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Comment: Use Video Chat, Just Don’t Fall in Love Over It

Wednesday, August 29, 2012


photo via Flickr Jen, in response to the post “Your Call: Can You Fall in Love Through Video Chats?” My husband and I certainly went a long way down the road to love through video chats [ -- it was] about 8 months before we could meet in person. I certainly wouldn’t [advise making] any [...]

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