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Tag Archive | "Dear Em & Lo"
Your Call: How Can I Enjoy Receiving Oral More?
photo by Bogdan Suditu Dear Em & Lo. I’m a 48-year-old female and I can’t seem to achieve an orgasm during oral sex. It all seems too intense. However, I don’t have any problems when masturbating. I feel it is like… someone else scratching your feet… it tickles. If I do it myself, it doesn’t tickle. [...]
Continue reading...Your Call – Should You Have Extracurricular Sex If Given Permission?
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
photo by batega Dear Em & Lo, First off, I will say that I love my boyfriend. We are extremely compatible in almost every way. Except sex, and here’s why. About two years ago my boyfriend ruptured a testicle. Sex is now extremely painful for him and he has difficulty reaching orgasm. As a result we rarely [...]
Continue reading...Dear Em & Lo, Is Physical Attraction in Friendship a Gift or a Curse?
Friday, August 20, 2010
photo by Vivian Chen Dear Em & Lo, Is physical attraction a gift or a curse? I’m writing this because a friend and I have been friends for a year. Let’s just say we’ve had our share of up and downs. From us being friends with benefits to helping him deal with his crazy ex-girlfriend. I enjoy being [...]
Continue reading...Dear Em & Lo, My Boyfriend Can’t Give Me an Orgasm
Friday, August 13, 2010
photo by Brandon Baunach Dear Em & Lo, I have the opposite problem of last week’s advice seeker: My boyfriend is more than willing to go down on me, but I have a very hard time having an orgasm from it. I know it frustrates him that I don’t orgasm every time (or even most times). I [...]
Continue reading...Your Call – How Do You Get Over Long-Term Heartbreak?
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
photo by Sara Bjork When the heartbroken write to us, we usually offer up our patented 10-step program for getting over a breakup. But not even that 99%-guaranteed method sounds like it’ll work on this sad and pathetic soul. Help her out, people! Dear Em & Lo, I feel stupid to ask, but how do you get over [...]
Continue reading...Dear Em & Lo, My Boyfriend Doesn’t Care About My Orgasm
Friday, August 6, 2010
illustration via Foxtongue Dear Em & Lo, I love my boyfriend very much, but he comes so early on that I’m left hanging. Receiving oral sex ahead of time would sure get me that orgasm, but he doesn’t even do that! I NEVER orgasm, because as long as he gets his, it seems to not bother him [...]
Continue reading...Your Call – Does Bad Sex Have to Be a Deal-Breaker?
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
photo by M31. Can sexual compatibility improve over time in a relationship — or does it need to be there from the start for the relationship to work? Is bad sex necessarily a deal-breaker? Read the letter below and then advise “Underwhelmed” in the feedback section below. Dear Em & Lo, I’ve always been a fairly promiscuous woman, [...]
Continue reading...Dear Em & Lo – How Can I Dump Him If He Won’t See Me?
Friday, July 23, 2010
photo by faster_panda_kill_kill Dear Em & Lo, So I have this guy friend who I met my freshmen year at college. We used to hang out a lot together and, well, I ended up liking him. The only problem was that he sometimes did not seem to feel the same way towards me. He would flirt back and lead my [...]
Continue reading...Your Call – And You Thought Your Ex Was the Biggest Sh*t on the Planet
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
photo by sarahxic Okay, we admit there isn’t exactly a lot to debate in this week’s edition of Your Call. Clearly this woman should leave her boyfriend, a.k.a. the Biggest Asshole Who Ever Lived. But we wanted to publish this letter anyway because (a) This poor woman needs a public record of all you telling her [...]
Continue reading...Your Call: Is It Okay to Always Let Him Pay?
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
photo by mangpages Share your advice for this reader in the comments section below… Dear Em & Lo, I’ve recently started seeing this older guy. So far we’ve been on three dates, and he always insists on paying for everything. I feel a bit guilty, but on the other hand he does have a pretty good and well-paid [...]
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