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Your Call: What Porn Will Get the Girlfriend Seal of Approval?

Monday, May 18, 2015

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For two women who make their living writing about sex, we know surprisingly little about porn. We certainly have a lot of opinions about it — about compromising on it in a relationship, for example. But when it comes to the specifics — names of directors, recommended titles, decent actors and storylines, etc. — we [...]

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Why You Should Let Your Boyfriend or Husband Watch Porn

Tuesday, May 12, 2015

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Porn is an evergreen issue in our mailbox — we frequently get letters about it from both men and women. The men tend to say, why is my girlfriend/wife so bothered by porn? And the women tend to say, why does my boyfriend/husband watch porn when he has me? Or, why does he continue to [...]

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Your Call: Why Won’t He Get to Know Me?

Monday, May 11, 2015

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. This woman asked her question in the comments section of the post How Often Do F-Buddies Become Girlfriends? Tell it [...]

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Your Call: How to Tell Your Husband It’s Okay to Ravish You (a Little)

Monday, May 4, 2015

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New [...]

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Why You Should Dump Someone Who’s Perfect for You

Friday, April 24, 2015

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Dear Em & Lo, I am 23 years old and A, my boyfriend of four years, and I are currently four months into a long-distance relationship until I graduate from my university this summer and move across the country to be with him. I recently connected with J, a guy that I was seeing five [...]

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Knowing When to Talk to Your Partner… Or Your Therapist

Monday, April 20, 2015

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The following letter from a reader is really long. Like, really long. (And this is the abridged version!) But we’re publishing it here because we think it raises a really interesting, important question about relationships: How can you tell when you’re talking too much? And how can you tell when you need a therapist as [...]

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What to Do When You Like a Guy… Until You See His Penis

Friday, April 10, 2015

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photo via flickr Yes, yes, we know. This advice question will make a lot of people — especially men — mad. We almost didn’t publish it for this reason! But we felt it our duty to set this woman straight. Feel free to weigh in below, in the comments section, but let’s keep it classy, [...]

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Your Call: I Almost Climax Just Thinking About a Date, Is This Normal?

Monday, April 6, 2015

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We get a lot of¬†questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to respond to a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your thoughts in the comments section.¬†   Dear Em & Lo,¬† I’m a 22-year-old [...]

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Why You Have to Tell Your Partner If You Have HPV

Friday, March 27, 2015

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¬†photo via flickr Many experts, including doctors, will tell women that they don’t need to inform their male partners if they have HPV. The reason given is that 80% of sexually-active adults have or will acquire HPV — in other words, basically everyone — and also, the virus is much less likely to harm a [...]

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Your Call: I Was Bi, But Now I’m Not Attracted to Men. What Happened?

Monday, March 23, 2015

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photo via Wikimedia Commons We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Leave your suggestions in the comments section below.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! [...]

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