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Tag Archive | "Do It Tonight!"

Do It Tonight! Add Some Baby Wipes to Your Secret Sex Drawer

Friday, March 13, 2009


photo by Just_SallyRye Once you get over the slightly seedy feeling of using a baby product for sex, you’ll realize what an ingenious invention baby wipes are. Use them to wipe off a sex toy immediately after use, or grab one after any kind of back door exploration or money shot. (A note to lazy [...]

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Do It Tonight! Rip Your Shirt Off

Wednesday, March 4, 2009


photo by ellie Sometimes it’s nice to take things slowly, to undress each other as an act of love, to undo every button with unrushed focus. Other times, you just want to rip off each other’s clothes, literally! But this is often impractical. People pay a lot of hard-earned money on their wardrobes, and as [...]

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Do It Tonight! Embrace All Those Dating Cliches

Monday, March 2, 2009


photo by mikebaird Dates are not unlike weddings: None of the traditions are trite when they’re happening to you. For this reason, there is absolutely nothing wrong with going for long walks on the beach, making out on a shag rug in front of a roaring fire, buying each other a single red rose from [...]

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Do It Tonight! Try a Polyurethane Condom

Friday, February 27, 2009


When you consider the long history of condoms (they’ve been around since people started putting tortoiseshells on their jammies), one of the more recent developments is polyurethane: the material of the future, a Walt Disney wet dream, plastic. The benefits of polyurethane are myriad: Much, much thinner, odor-free and tasteless, transparent and thus respectful of [...]

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Do It Tonight! Okay, So Maybe You Can Leave Your Socks On.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009


photo by eyeliam Just a week ago we told you to leave something on in bed every now and then — just not your socks. But we feel it is our duty to report that scientists have found that keeping your socks on makes it easier for both men and women to have an orgasm. [...]

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Do It Tonight! Clean Your Room

Monday, February 23, 2009


photo by jinkazamah Your bedroom should be a sacred space for rest, relaxation, and rolling in the hay. Any reminders of everyday stresses — CNN on the television, files you brought home from the office, stacks of unpaid bills, your cellphone — can fill your room with negative energy. If you look over your honey’s [...]

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Do It Tonight! Make Out at the Movies

Friday, February 20, 2009


photo by _StaR_DusT_ Do you want to feel that rush of first love again? Do you want to feel the tingle of a junior high crush? Do you want to “extend foreplay” like all the sexperts tell you to but you keep running out of things to do? Do you want to go on a [...]

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Do It Tonight! Leave Something On. Just Not Your Socks.

Wednesday, February 18, 2009


photo via bobster1985 Total nudity is not always a prerequisite for great sex: leftover clothes give the sex a sense of urgency and spontaneity, like you wanted each other so badly that there was simply no time to brush your teeth, disrobe, and get under the covers. Or like you’re doing it outside and you’ve [...]

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Do It Tonight! Practice Reciprocity

Monday, February 16, 2009


photo by zaphodsotherhead If we all followed the golden rule of reciprocity in bed, we think there’d be more sex, more orgasms, less bickering, fewer sex advice columnists (we’d be out of a job!), and possibly even world peace. Remember, if your partner tickles your back, it’s not just because they’re being nice — they [...]

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Do It Tonight! Have a Pretend Threeway

Friday, February 6, 2009


photo by hyku One of the most common letters we get from men writing into our advice column — right after “How can I safely enlarge my penis?” — is “How can I convince my girlfriend to have a threeway?” Unfortunately, guys, nagging is never going to get her in the mood to invite her [...]

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