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Tag Archive | "Domination"

How to Make Your Ravishment Fantasy Come True

Thursday, September 25, 2014

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There is perhaps no sexual fantasy that disturbs people more than the rape fantasy.  Even people in committed, loving relationships who have successfully navigated such a fantasy with massive amounts of communication and trust can feel weird about it. Readers often ask us, “What’s wrong with me that I’m into this?” Well, as we have [...]

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BDSM Saved My Life, But Is Ruining My Near Perfect Marriage

Monday, August 11, 2014

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Okay, so this letter below from one of our readers is super long, and it’s not nearly as memerific as Kickstarter potato salad or photos of celebrities without makeup. But trust us, it’s worth the read. It’s from a man who is married to the woman of his dreams — they love each other’s company, [...]

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Extra-Marital Sex: Ask for Permission, Not Forgiveness

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

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Reader Vixen told the following cautionary tale in response to our post, “Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed?” Remember, dear readers: Most people find it easier to get over infidelity than dishonesty in their spouse. The sooner you say something — preferably before you actually cheat — the better. My [...]

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Comment of the Week: TOO Equal in a Relationship = No Spark

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

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Reader AndySea wrote the following in response to the post, “Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed?” What do the rest of you think: Is it true that in a relationship of equals, “the sexual spark is never as strong”? (For the record, AndySea is speaking of any kind of power dynamic in [...]

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Your Call: How Do I Set Limits in a New BDSM Relationship?

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

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photo via Entertainment Weekly We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. You can leave your advice in the comments section below (for a reader who appears to be dating a [...]

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