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Tag Archive | "Etiquette"

Top 10 Things You Never Want to Hear After a First Kiss

Wednesday, April 17, 2013


10. No way, you had spinach for lunch too?! 9. I think I swallowed your filling. 8. Thanks, I’d been meaning to floss. 7. Care for a mint?

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Dear Em & Lo, I Secretly Used My Wife’s Sex Toy…Up My Butt

Thursday, April 4, 2013


Billy, LELO’s male massager Get Personal Advice Publicly on EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Hello Ladies, I am a married guy who occasionally reads your site for some ideas to share with my wife.¬† It seems like anal play both for him and her is a popular topic. My wife enjoys some occasional backside [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Real Reason They Never Call

Wednesday, April 3, 2013


photo via Flickr An interesting exchange about the call that never comes occurred in the comments section of the post “Wise Guys: Why Didn‚Äôt He Call When He Said He Would?” Johnny, we’ll take your kinder, gentler pickup techniques over more aggressive, mean-spirited “attack” approaches any day: Phonecall¬†Says: The problem is not them NOT calling, [...]

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Comment of the Week: Learn to Work with What You’ve Got

Wednesday, March 6, 2013


photo via Flickr Sweetness¬†is a woman after our own hearts: Size does matter but it’s all relative, Insert tab A into slot B, what works for one person may not work for another… It’s like she’s transcribing right out of one of our sex manuals! Whether she’s a kindred spirit, a super fan, or a [...]

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The Valentine’s Day Issue

Sunday, February 10, 2013


The Best Valentine’s Day Present Ever! The top 10 reasons why our new book¬†150 Shades of Play makes the best Valentine‚Äôs Day present ever! 10 Easy Ways to Be More Romantic Romance is contagious. So the best way to get your partner to be more romantic is to be more romantic with them first. How [...]

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How to Let Someone Down Easy

Wednesday, February 6, 2013


photo via Real Simple Each month, Real Simple magazine runs an expertise column in which 5 experts give their best advice on a particular subject. This month, we had the honor of being one of those experts. The topic this month was how to reject someone nicely (necessary info for a lot of people during [...]

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The Top 5 Writing Lessons of Fifty Shades of Grey

Wednesday, January 9, 2013


The biggest selling book of 2012 was¬†Fifty Shades of Grey. Not only has it introduced many people to the world of kink, it’s given them a lesson in how¬†not¬†to write. And if a lack of literary merit isn’t going to slow down sales, well, at least people can learn about the elements of style while [...]

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The 25 Rules of the Booty Call

Wednesday, November 7, 2012


photo via Flickr Most people don’t talk about booty calls. That’s part of their appeal: “We don’t have to endlessly com-mu-ni-cate because we’re not in a serious relationship.” People rely on a tacit understanding when it comes to casual sex with their friends and neighbors, and especially their exes. But it’s silly to assume that [...]

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Your Call: My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm

Thursday, September 6, 2012


We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  Hi, I am 25 and been with my husband for 8 [...]

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Wise Guys: How Do Men Feel About Their Girlfriends Kissing Other Women?

Tuesday, June 19, 2012


photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com‚Äôs¬†guy friends. This week they answer the following:¬†‚ÄúWould a guy feel cheated on if his girlfriend made out with another girl, or is that somehow different territory?‚Ä̬†To ask the guys your own question,¬†click here. Straight Married Guy (Ben):¬†I think it all depends on the spirit of the make [...]

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