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Tag Archive | "Etiquette"

Your Call: My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm

Thursday, September 6, 2012


We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  Hi, I am 25 and been with my husband for 8 [...]

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Wise Guys: How Do Men Feel About Their Girlfriends Kissing Other Women?

Tuesday, June 19, 2012


photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Would a guy feel cheated on if his girlfriend made out with another girl, or is that somehow different territory?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Ben): I think it all depends on the spirit of the make [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Admit to Other Current Casual Sex Partners?

Tuesday, April 10, 2012


photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If a guy is casually hooking up with someone and exclusivity has not yet been established, is he obliged to tell that person about other people he’s sleeping with? And should he offer up that information, or should he wait to be [...]

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Wise Guys: What Do Men Really Want to Do After Sex?

Tuesday, March 13, 2012


photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do men want to do after sex? Do you buy the “women want to snuggle, men want to eat/sleep/shower” trope?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Single Bisexual Guy (Jack): I am going to assume that this is for nocturnal sex, [...]

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Comment of the Week: Don’t Spread Your Seed…All Over Your Hotel Room

Wednesday, October 26, 2011


photo via Flickr Our inner uninhibited adventurers are often in conflict with our inner Miss Manners, which is why we got a kick out of Matbo’s comment about the recent Confession “7 Reasons to Love Hotel Sex“: Oh the germs, the germs! Also I’m all for being loud in bed, but don’t exagerate (“won’t someone [...]

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Sometimes Good Comments Come in Small Packages

Wednesday, September 28, 2011


photo via Flickr The following “Comment of the Week” was made in response to another recent “Comment of the Week” about female arousal: it’s simple, elegant and to the point: If she’s not into it, neither am I.

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Does a Post-Sex E-mail Mean He’s Just Not That Into Me?

Tuesday, September 27, 2011


photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I just had sex for the first time with the guy I’ve been dating, after 2 group hang-outs and 3 official dates. So far he has been really consistent, calling when he says, etc. But I’ve been burned a lot — usually get dumped after the first-time sex [...]

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Your Guide to Taxicab Date Etiquette

Thursday, August 11, 2011

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photo via flickr Everyone knows it’s polite to open the car door for your date — and we hope that everyone knows it’s a nice touch when women remember to do this, too. But what happens if you live in a city where you’re more likely to take a cab? If you hold the cab [...]

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Wise Guys: Is There Such a Thing as Harmless Flirtation?

Tuesday, August 2, 2011


photo via Flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a woman asks, “Is there such a thing as harmless flirtation? When does it cross the line? Is the line different for men and women?” Straight Married Guy (Ben): Sure – there are plenty of harmless flirtations. Most flirtations, I think, are harmless. [...]

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Comment of the Week: An Open Letter to Strap-On Sex Enthusiasts

Thursday, July 21, 2011


photo by brandi666 Thank you for visiting EMandLO.com. We understand that that this website is one of the few places that discusses issues around sex openly and honestly, without too many euphemisms or immature jokes, and no hardcore images. It’s probably the only truly female-friendly site where you can discuss strap-on sex maturely. This would [...]

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