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Your Guide to Taxicab Date Etiquette

Thursday, August 11, 2011

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photo via flickr Everyone knows it’s polite to open the car door for your date — and we hope that everyone knows it’s a nice touch when women remember to do this, too. But what happens if you live in a city where you’re more likely to take a cab? If you hold the cab [...]

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Wise Guys: Is There Such a Thing as Harmless Flirtation?

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a woman asks, “Is there such a thing as harmless flirtation? When does it cross the line? Is the line different for men and women?” Straight Married Guy (Ben): Sure – there are plenty of harmless flirtations. Most flirtations, I think, are harmless. [...]

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Comment of the Week: An Open Letter to Strap-On Sex Enthusiasts

Thursday, July 21, 2011

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photo by brandi666 Thank you for visiting EMandLO.com. We understand that that this website is one of the few places that discusses issues around sex openly and honestly, without too many euphemisms or immature jokes, and no hardcore images. It’s probably the only truly female-friendly site where you can discuss strap-on sex maturely. This would [...]

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Wise Guys: Should I Be Threatened by My Girlfriend’s Gay Male Bedmate?

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

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photo by aralbalkan Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight man asks, “A girl I am dating has a gay best friend. He is coming to stay with her for a few weeks and they are sharing the same bed. While I know he is definitely gay, it still makes me [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Can I Sleep with Ex’s Roomie?

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

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photo by balinto Dear Em & Lo, My boyfriend of seven months just broke up with me. He felt (and I agree totally) that we are more like friends than boyfriend/girlfriend. We were both sad, but it ended amicably, and we intend to stay friends. Here’s my dilemma: over the past couple of months, I’ve [...]

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6 Rules for Outdoor Sex

Thursday, June 2, 2011

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photo via Flickr Now that the weather’s turning warmer, many people are overcome by two urges: to get outside and to get it on — two great tastes that taste great together! And so the season of outdoor sex has begun. But it’s not all fun and games like naked Slip n’ Slide — there [...]

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Post-Sex Etiquette for the Modern Lover

Thursday, May 5, 2011

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photo by love janine A good cuddle after a vigorous mating ritual is what separates us from the animals. To suggest that you have personal space issues or are sensitive to over-stimulation after you’ve had your orifices intimately explored is downright rude. A minimum of fifteen minutes of quality embracing/back tickling/hair tousling is in order, [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Can I Dump a Booty Call By Text?

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

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photo by sidewalk_flying Dear Em & Lo, Until last week I had been dating a lovely man who would make an excellent casual partner, but was not much chop for heading toward an actual relationship, which is my preferred modus operandi (he has agreed with this analysis). The problem was, as a journalist he was [...]

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How to End Things After Just One Date

Thursday, April 21, 2011

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photo via Flickr We’ve all been there: you reach the bottom of your grande iced decaf soy mocha and you know, in your heart of hearts, that you’d rather see Oprah and Jerry Springer thumb-wrestling naked than go on a second date with this person. How do you end things before they’ve even really officially [...]

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How to Improve Your Partner’s Sexual Style

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

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photo by David_and_Katarina It’s happened to all of us: You meet someone charming, intelligent, miraculously modest, well-off, and, most importantly, smokin’ hot. The evening finally comes when you will seal your budding relationship with a full-body kiss. You’re eager with anticipation and expect nothing less than sheer bliss. But then your new partner’s tongue attacks [...]

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