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Tag Archive | "Etiquette"

Your Call: What’s the Etiquette for Joining Ongoing Sex?

Friday, January 14, 2011

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photo by stepheye We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. We’re not convinced [...]

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Your Call: Should She Dump Him Before or After Xmas?

Friday, December 17, 2010

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photo by .:[Melissa]:. We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Sensual Holiday Gifts for That Special Someone

Thursday, December 16, 2010

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Boa Pleasure Ties from Lelo.com With a love interest, socks just won’t cut it when it comes to holiday gift-giving; it’s nice to give a present that shows you consider them a sex god/goddess. But don’t give something that’s obviously a present to yourself, like polyester butt-floss lingerie that may look good to you but [...]

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A Guide to Orgasm Etiquette

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

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We hope we don’t need to point out that just one orgasm, for one partner, is not the finishing tape of a sex run. Instead, think of sex as a three-legged race — your partner can neither compete nor cross the finish line without your help, and vice versa. Each partner should make a concerted [...]

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Wise Guys – When Can I Expect (or Make) the Post-Sex Call?

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

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photo by SYD_Rahim Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “If I sleep with a new guy and everything went great — long talk beforehand, great chemistry, lots in common, orgasms all around — when can I reasonably expect a call from him? And will the number of days [...]

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Wise Guys – Do Men Expect Women to Climax During Intercourse?

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

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photo by foxypar4 Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Do guys expect women to orgasm during intercourse? Do they feel like failures if it doesn’t happen during intercourse or if they get the orgasm by some other non-intercourse means? Or do they assume it’s the woman’s “problem”?“ Gay [...]

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10 Rules of the Pickup

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

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photo by ezioman It’s not easy to be yourself when attempting a pick-up. But the more out-of-character you try to be, the worse it’s going to go. The goal is to get someone to like you for you. That said, certain things should never be said or done during a pick-up, no matter how “naturally” [...]

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“Regifting” Sex Toys?

Friday, August 28, 2009

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We’ve been asked before if it’s okay to “reuse” a sex toy that outlasts the relationship it was originally purchased for. This rarely happens with battery-operated vibrators, as their shelf life is so limited, but it’s often an issue with something more hardy, like a silicone dildo. If you’re only going to reuse it on [...]

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Wise Guys: PDA, Yea or Nay?

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

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photo by pedrosimoes7 Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the general guy consensus on PDA?” Straight Married Guy (James Glazebrook): For some reason, I only clock public displays of affection in nightclubs or on the London Underground. I have no idea what’s so sexy about these squalid [...]

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Studies Show Chivalry Is Sexist

Friday, June 12, 2009

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from Wonder Woman #125 comic With the excellent debate going on in response to the recent Wise Guys question about men behaving chivalrously, we thought we’d stir the pot a bit by mentioning studies that suggest chivalrous behavior is a subtle yet harmful form of sexism, known as benevolent sexism. The term was coined in [...]

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