Exhibitionism
Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Is a Striptease a Good Last-Minute Gift?

Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the question, “If your partner gave you a serious striptease with a serious striptease face and cheesy music, would it really be the best present ever or would it be kinda weird and uncomfortable?”: Straight Single Guy (Max): A serious striptease requires two things. […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Why Do Men Cat-Call?

photo by bobster855 Advice from three of our guy friends. This week, they answer the following: Why do men cat-call? Straight Married Guy (Figleaf): Oh boy, where did I just see a link to a TV clip of a woman walking up to men who cat-called her and asked them why?  (You can answer in […]

Pop Culture
Found: Funny Bathroom Placard

You don’t become rich writing about sex, but you do occasionally get taken out to fancy lunches at posh spots by editors and publishers with nice expense accounts. So we were lucky enough to find ourselves at the rooftop pool of the Soho House, that private club in NYC (the one Samantha sneaks into in […]

Personal Essays
Confession: I Just Saw the Craziest PDA!

photo by The Prophet Yesterday’s Wise Guy PDA question reminded Chris DiClerico of something he saw this past summer. He swears on everything that is holy that this is true: I had to go to midtown for a business meeting in a building on 51st and 6th Ave. I arrived about 20 minutes early, so […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: PDA, Yea or Nay?

photo by pedrosimoes7 Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the general guy consensus on PDA?” Straight Married Guy (James Glazebrook): For some reason, I only clock public displays of affection in nightclubs or on the London Underground. I have no idea what’s so sexy about these squalid […]

How To
Top 10 Tips for Taking Naughty Pics

Thinking of playing a little very candid camera with your other half? So long as you know your partner well enough to trust that the saucy pics won’t end up on some godawful site like GuessHerMuff, then you have our blessing. Here are a few things to bear (heh) in mind… There’s no need to […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Why Are Men Into Strip Clubs?

Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Why are some guys so into strip clubs? Do most guys buy into the fantasy that the stripper is actually enjoying herself — or don’t they care? Straight Single Guy (Colin): Lots of guys aren’t into strip clubs. Probably more are kind […]

Personal Essays
Confession: I'm an Oversharer (and I Just Had Sex!)

photo by bansal98 Our contributor Kristine deGuzman, a junior at UC Berkeley, has a confession to make: I’ve shared almost everything about my sex life with my friends — they know, for example, that I discovered masturbation when I was 8 and alone with my parents’ hand-held massager. And that I am prone to squirt […]

Confessions
Confession: Let's Park

photo by Adriano Agullo Our contributor Kristine deGuzman, a junior at UC Berkeley, has a confession to make: My boyfriend and I still live with our parents when we’re not at school. So when I drove up to see him on New Year’s Eve I wasn’t expecting anything sexy to happen. I’ve come to terms […]