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Why Guys Are So Obsessed with the Twin Thing

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: What’s the deal with fantasizing about twins? (Coors Lite twins, Hef’s twins, etc.) How come the whole implied incest thing — a.k.a. “Twincest,” thanks,¬†Gone Girl! — isn’t a turn-off? Straight Single Guy (Colin): I think, for some men, having a set of [...]

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How to Make Your Ravishment Fantasy Come True

Thursday, September 25, 2014

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There is perhaps no sexual fantasy that disturbs people more than the rape fantasy. ¬†Even people in committed, loving relationships who have successfully navigated such a fantasy with massive amounts of communication and trust can feel weird about it. Readers often ask us, “What’s wrong with me that I’m into this?” Well, as we have [...]

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Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About When They Masturbate?

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

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photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. A while back, one woman wanted to know ‚ÄúWhy do men masturbate in relationships, even when the sex is good and regular?‚ÄĚ In his response, Max (one of our Single Straight Guys) said, “Trust me: You don‚Äôt want to do the things that we‚Äôre thinking [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Risks of Making Your Fantasy a Reality

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

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Reader Dave posted the following cautionary tale in response to our post, “Your Call: I Want My Wife to Have an Affair; She Thinks I‚Äôm Nuts”: I think you need to tread very carefully here‚Ķ just to give you my experience‚Ķ My wife and I often talked about her being with another guy while we [...]

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How to Make Your Sexual Fantasy Come True

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

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photo via flickr Last week we published two excerpts from Tracey Cox’s new book¬†Dare: What Happens When Fantasies Come True, which is¬†available now on Amazon for your Kindle. (Tracey‚Äôs Dare product range is also¬†available at LoveHoney.) The first excerpt explained how fantasizing can improve your relationship, and the second was the hilarious/cringe-inducing/enlightening/still kind of hot [...]

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We Joined the Mile-High Club…And Got Caught

Friday, July 26, 2013

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Earlier this week we published an excerpt from Tracey Cox’s awesome new book,¬†Dare: What Happens When Fantasies Come True, which is¬†available now on Amazon for your Kindle. The excerpt explains how and why fantasizing can improve your sex life. Today, in a second excerpt from the book, a British woman named Madison (you’ll notice some [...]

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Comment of the Week: A Different Kind of Ravishment Fantasy

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

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Awesome gender-swapped version of Robin Thicke’s “Blurred Lines” by Mod Carousel Reader Simple Girl said the following in response to our post, “Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies, Too?” I have fantasies about raping my boyfriend.. Just rip him apart while he‚Äôs tied to a bed or something. I just wanna see how he [...]

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How Fantasizing Can Improve Your Sex Life

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

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Tracey Cox author photo by Daniel Annett The fabulous and funny Tracey Cox from the U.K. is one of our favorite sex writers out there. We’re thrilled to present the following excerpt from her new book,¬†Dare: What Happens When Fantasies Come True, which is available now on Amazon for your Kindle. Tracey’s Dare product range [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, Are Rape Fantasies Normal…If I’m a Rape Survivor?

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

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Close up of the 17th century painting “The Rape of the Sabine Women” by Cortona¬† Dear Em & Lo, I’m not sure if I’m going to word this correctly, but here it goes. I’m 20 years old and am engaged to a wonderful man who has blessed me with a son. Before I met him [...]

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Why Women Have Ravishment and Rape Fantasies

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

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photo via Parlez-Moi We wrote a post wrote here a few weeks back about research into men’s and women’s fantasy lives — and in particular, how often this sort of research is willfully misinterpreted. That got us wondering what other new fantasy research might be out there… and we came across a fascinating study about [...]

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