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Tag Archive | "Fantasies"

Dear Em & Lo, Are Rape Fantasies Normal…If I’m a Rape Survivor?

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

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Close up of the 17th century painting “The Rape of the Sabine Women” by Cortona¬† Dear Em & Lo, I’m not sure if I’m going to word this correctly, but here it goes. I’m 20 years old and am engaged to a wonderful man who has blessed me with a son. Before I met him [...]

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Why Women Have Ravishment and Rape Fantasies

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

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photo via Parlez-Moi We wrote a post wrote here a few weeks back about research into men’s and women’s fantasy lives — and in particular, how often this sort of research is willfully misinterpreted. That got us wondering what other new fantasy research might be out there… and we came across a fascinating study about [...]

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Just How Different Are Men’s and Women’s Fantasy Lives?

Monday, July 30, 2012

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photo via flickr Are women’s and men’s fantasy lives vastly different, or are they basically the same except for a few variations on theme and frequency? We suppose it depends on who you ask and what they already believe about the way women and men approach sex. Because people’s prior beliefs about how women and [...]

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Comment of the Week: Why I Don’t Fantasize During Sex

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

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photo via flickr Figleaf does it again this week, dropping his wise words on the topic of sexual fantasies. This was in response to a post titled, “Question of the Week: Do You Fantasize About Other People During Sex?” Pretty much ever since I first heard an ‚Äúexpert‚ÄĚ mention sexual fantasies, I‚Äôve heard that it‚Äôs [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Have Elaborate Fantasies Like Women?

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

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photo via flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Do guys ever have elaborate fantasies (Riding a white horse to a naked maiden? Being captured as a porn star’s slave?), or do their fantasies tend to be more prosaic?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. [...]

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Question of the Week: Do You Fantasize About Other People During Sex?

Thursday, April 12, 2012

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photo via flickr Do you ever fantasize about other people during sex with your partner? Does it depend on the relationship (casual vs. long-term)? How often do you think it is acceptable to do this? Do you ever tell your partner that you do this, or is it better to keep this sort of fantasy [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Husband Likes to Watch Me with Male Strippers

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, Me and my husband of twenty years have been fantasizing about so many things — one of which is me being grinded on by a male stripper in a private room with my husband watching. This was realized about a month ago at a gay bar where we [...]

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Given a Free Pass for a Fling, Women Would Call an Old Flame

Friday, February 17, 2012

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vintage album cover via flickr We’ve long known that The One Who Got Away makes for great late-night Google fantasies. And that makes sense: you rifle through your memory bank after another bad breakup — or after another inane argument with your spouse — and wonder how life would have been different if you’d stayed [...]

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Your Call: Why Does My BF Ask About My Exes During Sex?

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. And frankly, this one is a doozie. Make your call by leaving your response in the comments section below. Dear [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies Too?

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

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Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “You often hear how the rape fantasy is common in the minds of many women. Do men have this fantasy, too?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Tom Miller): I’m sure lots of men have rape [...]

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