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Tag Archive | "Friends with Benefits"

Your Call: Should I Have a Fling with My Long-Distance Boss?

Monday, April 13, 2015

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New [...]

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Comment of the Week: 6 Rules of the Pre-Relationship Fuck-Buddy Couple

Wednesday, April 1, 2015

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Reader¬†Arielle¬†wrote a nice response to the post¬†How Often Do Fuck Buddies Become Girlfriends?, basically outlining the 6 rules of having a fuck buddy who you might want to turn into a partner some¬†day: All of my relationships have been fuck buddies that turned into relationships. ¬†Twice I’ve gotten my heart broken because the guy was [...]

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When His Mouth Says “Booty Call” But His Body Says “Relationship”

Thursday, February 26, 2015

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I met this guy who is really sweet and nice.¬† He is 20 and I am 21.¬† We’ve hung out a few times and I am starting to like him.¬† Then, I saw him at a fraternity party the other night (although he does not go to my [...]

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Your Call: Can I Downgrade a Booty Call to Friend (No Benefits)?

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Dear Em & Lo, I have been reading [...]

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Comment of the Week: Booty Calls Require Good Communication

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

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Another incredibly eloquent proponent of the well-negotiated booty call: Typhimurium¬†in response to our post, ¬†“Your Call: Will Ground Rules Scare Off My Booty Call?”¬† So I recently had a really successful friend-with-benefits relationship, and if it’s all right I’d love to share what was key for me in building it. My friend and I were [...]

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Your Call: Can You Downgrade 3-Year Relationship to “Casual”?

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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Comment of the Week: Friends with Benefits Starts with Friends

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

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Reader Anathema said the following in response to our post, “Your Call: Is This a FWB Situation or Something More?”¬†We’re pretty sure she’s the most well-adjusted friend-with-benefits we’ve ever heard of! I had a wonderful FWB thing with a guy for 2 1/2 years. He and I were both in open relationships (which is why [...]

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Your Call: Is This a FWB Situation or Something More?

Monday, October 28, 2013

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New [...]

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Comment of the Week: Even Friends with Benefits Spoon

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

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Reader Finikki said the following in response to our post, “Your Call: Is This a FWB Situation or Something More?” When someone tells you they don‚Äôt want a relationship, believe them. Don‚Äôt make the mistake of thinking that experiencing intimacy with someone (like cuddling and talking for hours) necessarily means they want a relationship. People [...]

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My BDSM Relationship Is Giving Me Nightmares

Thursday, May 23, 2013

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“Em & Lo’s Shades of Play Kit” at GoodVibes Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst¬†Lauri Loewenberg¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze?¬†Click here to submit it.¬†This week, a reader asks Lauri: I have, for lack of [...]

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