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Tag Archive | "Gender Issues"

Wise Guys – What Are Men’s Biggest Insecurities During Sex?

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

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photo by Ecnerwal Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What are guys’ biggest insecurities during sex?“ Straight Committed Guy (Johnny): I think many guys are afraid of their own inexperience early on in their sex lives, or later on too if they don‚Äôt get laid as much as [...]

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Wise Guys – What’s the Male Consensus on Period Sex?

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

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photo by greenchartreuse Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,”What’s the general male consensus on period sex?“ Straight Single Guy (Tyler Barnett): Period sex, like most forms of sex, falls into the category of sure, why not. The truth is we are generally happy to be having sex, even [...]

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Wise Guys – Is Painful Sex an Issue for Some Guys (Like It Is for Some Gals)?

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “Considering all the questions the doctors on this site get about women experiencing painful intercourse, I was wondering: do guys ever experience pain during sex?” Straight Single Guy (Max): While the good normally outweighs the bad, I would say that yes, sex [...]

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Wise Guys – If Oral Feels So Good, Why Does It Take So Long?

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

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photo by zoutedrop Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “My guy says getting a BJ is one of the best feeling things I can do for him, but it still takes forever to get him off. That seems like a total paradox….?“ Straight Single Guy (Chris): That may [...]

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Wise Guys – What Do Men Wish They Could Change About Their Sexuality?

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

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photo by nick johnson Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,“If you could change one thing about male sexuality, what would it be?” Straight Single Guy (Tyler Barnett): Male sexuality is not always as simple as it seems. Sure, we love sex, but so do women. In fact, I [...]

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Valerie Jarrett on Gender Parity

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

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photo by burningkarma Rahim Kanani, a Research Associate for the Justice and Human Rights domain of practice at the Hauser Center for Nonprofit Organizations at Harvard University, recently conducted an in-depth interview in the West Wing with Valerie Jarrett, Senior Advisor to President Obama and Chair of the White House Council on Women and Girls. [...]

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Wise Guys – What’s a Man’s Ideal New Year’s Eve?

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

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photo by nimAdestiny Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “What’s the ideal New Year’s Eve for a single straight guy/straight married guy/gay committed or single guy?” Straight Single Guy (Max): New Years, much like birthdays, should be fool-proof fun. Good friends, tasty beverages, and maybe something cuddly to [...]

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Wise Guys – Do Men Suffer More from Heartbreak Than Women?

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

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photo by KellyB Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “People always assume that women are the emotional ones in relationships. However, one fairly recent study showed that the male broken heart may be worse off. What do you think?” Gay Single Guy (Angelo Nikolopoulos): The results of this [...]

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Wise Guys – Do Men Fantasize About Their Future Ideal Love?

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

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photo by clever cupcakes Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,”Do any guys have future children‚Äôs names picked out? How about a dream house? Wedding plans? In other words, do men fantasize about a future with love in it, just more secretly than women do?“ Gay Single Guy (Jay [...]

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The Flaws in the Science of Sex Differences

Thursday, November 18, 2010

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One of our biggest pet peeves is our society’s automatic acceptance — the giddy embrace, even — of the theory that men are from Mars and women are from Venus, with nary a space shuttle between them. We’ve written before on the lazy scientists who are suckers for a sexy headline about the “innate” differences [...]

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