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Tag Archive | "Genitals"

Comment of the Week: How to Talk About His Penis Size

Wednesday, June 5, 2013


photo via Flickr Reader Orchid offers the following suggestion in response to our post, “Your Call: If He Asks About Size, Can I Tell Him the Truth?”  We’re not entirely sure how many guys would let a woman leave things at this short and sweet reply, but it’s worth a try — love the suggestion! [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: I’m a Man, Should I Shave Down There?

Wednesday, April 10, 2013


photo via flickr Get Personal Advice Publicly on EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, I came across your site as I am trying to prepare for  my wedding night and my first time with my wife. I know nowadays it’s normal for women to shave/wax around the vagina to look clean, [...]

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Comment of the Week: How I Learned My Penis Was Normal

Wednesday, March 27, 2013


Our long-time and wise-as-all-get-out reader Figleaf said the following in response to our post, “How (and Why) to Have Sex with the Lights On”: I learned how erect penises are “supposed” to look from a very rough sketch in a “sex education” book I stumbled across. My penis didn’t look like that. At all! At [...]

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How (and Why) to Have Sex with the Lights On

Tuesday, March 19, 2013


photo via flickr Last week a reader named Candi posted the following comment about her sexual insecurities in response to our article “10 Reasons Your ‘Ugly Vagina’ Is Normal and Gorgeous”: I’m so glad to find this site, but I’m still a bit insecure when it comes to my vulva. Reading through all these comments [...]

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Penis Enlargement: Why It’s One Big Ball of DON’T

Tuesday, February 12, 2013


We answered a reader’s advice question on small penises almost four years ago and it’s still the most popular article on our site! 591 comments and counting! We can’t tell you how much letters we get from guys asking how they can safely increase the size of their penis. So we shouldn’t have been too [...]

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Dream Interpretation: I Have a Detachable Penis

Thursday, December 20, 2012

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photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: I have realized that I have a been having a [...]

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You Are Not Alone: Healing Painful Sex

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

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The following is an excerpt from the introduction of the book “Healing Painful Sex: A Woman’s Guide to Confronting, Diagnosing, and Treating Sexual Pain” by Deborah Coady, MD, and Nancy Fish, MSW. If you have ever felt pain during or because of sex, you are not alone. It’s estimated that 16 to 20 percent of [...]

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Olivia Wilde’s Vaginalogue

Thursday, October 11, 2012

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photo via flickr Olivia Wilde is one of those actresses we are completely familiar with (thanks Us Weekly!) without having a clue about her career. We’re assuming she plays exotic queens in far off lands from long, long ago whose beauty knights kill for? And apparently she was in some TV show? Suffice it to [...]

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Kegel Contest Winner & Honorable Mentions!

Friday, August 31, 2012

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We’re pleased to announce the winner of a beautiful new set of Lelo Luna Beads, the number one best-selling Kegel accessory in the world three years running: Mark Luczak! (Or should we say, his new wife is the winner of the Luna Beads!) Mark may be one of our very own Wise Guys, but just [...]

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Vagina vs. Vulva — There’s a Difference, People

Wednesday, August 15, 2012


It’s called a vulva puppet for a reason A little over a month ago we here at EMandLO.com (that’d be me, i.e. Lo, and Em) conducted a poll called “Vulva or Vagina?” Readers had two options to choose from (natch): Vulva - If we’re talking about female external genitalia, this is the anatomically correct & accurate term. [...]

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