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6 Kinds of Lube & 6 Reasons to Use Them Every Time

Friday, July 25, 2014

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LELO’s Personal Moisturizer (75 ml)¬† Lube gets a bad rap, so we’d like to clear its name here once and for all: Store-bought personal lubricant is not a “crutch” for people with faulty machinery. And reaching for the wet stuff doesn’t mean you’re “not into it,” “frigid” or “kinky.” It just means you like to [...]

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5 New Routes to Your Orgasm

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

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photo via Flickr Most people have that one, fail-safe way that gets them from point A to point O quickly and directly, scenic lookout points be damned! And when you’re busy or tired (read: every minute of every day), it’s easy (and understandable) to resort to that surefire route on the rare occasion you do [...]

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5 Reasons Why Sea Sex Sucks

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

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photo via Flickr It’s that time of year. The temperatures go up, the clothes come off, and you’re at the beach/by the pool/in the hot tub with your honey. Things can easily get frisky quickly. Come on, who doesn’t want to recreate that pool scene from Showgirls? Well, we don’t. We hate to rain on [...]

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How to Define “Classic Rape”

Friday, July 11, 2014

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Last week, a UK judge proved just how real “rape culture” is: In response to a jury quickly finding a man guilty of raping a woman who was passed out on his couch, the judge offered these condolences to the criminal (i.e. not the victim): “It’s sad to see a man of generally good character [...]

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How to Give a Great Couples Massage

Saturday, July 5, 2014

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sponsored post When Denis Merkas, founder of “Melt: Massage for Couples,” asked us to review his online video series, we admit we were a bit trepidatious: images of sensitive ponytail men came to mind, the sound of cheesy tantric sitars filled our imaginations, and we thought we could suddenly smell a hint of patchouli in [...]

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10 Ways to Sexify Your Gratitude Journal

Friday, June 27, 2014

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photo via Flickr Everyone from Oprah to Real Simple to the guy at Harvard who teaches classes on happiness has talked about gratitude journals — you know, every night you write down, say, five things you were grateful for that day. Could be big things (my wonderful supportive family) or small (Honey Bunches of Oats [...]

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A Fantastic Guide to Couples Massage (with No Sensitive Ponytail Men!)

Monday, June 23, 2014

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sponsored post When Denis Merkas, founder of “Melt: Massage for Couples,” asked us to review his online video series, we admit we were a bit trepidatious: images of sensitive ponytail men came to mind, the sound of cheesy tantric sitars filled our imaginations, and we thought we could suddenly smell a hint of patchouli in [...]

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8 Ways to Overcome Anxiety About a Gynecologist Visit

Friday, June 20, 2014

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photo via flickr Nervous about going to the gynecologist? That’s a bummer. Okay, that’s all the sympathy you’re going to get from us, because you’ve got to get over it. Your health is at stake, especially once you’re sexually active — and there’s nothing more important. We all have to do things we don’t like: [...]

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Dads Suffer Too: Helping Bereaved Fathers Cope with Loss

Thursday, June 12, 2014

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The following is a guest post by Tara Shafer, Psychology Today blogger and founder of¬†ReconceivingLoss.com, a site dedicated to helping parents cope with pregnancy and infant loss, especially through story sharing. She’s teamed up with the filmmakers of “Return to Zero“¬†(which has been getting Emmy buzz lately, especially for Minnie Driver’s performance) to create a [...]

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10 Steps to Crossing the Finishing Line in Bed Tonight

Friday, June 6, 2014

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One of the most common questions we receive from women is, “How can I orgasm in bed with my partner?” We hear some version of this question at least once a week. The really demanding women want to know how to orgasm simultaneously during penetration, every time. If this is you, then sorry, you’re out [...]

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