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Tag Archive | "How To"

How to Write a Love Letter Like Georgia O’Keeffe

Friday, December 12, 2014

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“Blue Flower,” 1918 We’re not surprised in the slightest to discover that Georgia A-Flower-Is-Never-Just-a-Flower O’Keeffe was quite the steamy letter writer. Her love letters to the (ahem, married-at-the-time)¬†photographer and modern art promoter¬†Alfred Stieglitz were¬†published as¬†part of an exhibit at the Whitney Museum of American Art¬† a few years back. The two married eventually, and Stieglitz [...]

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Four Things You Need to Know About Casual, Anonymous, Tinder-esque Sex

Friday, December 12, 2014

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by Aaron Kaplan for YourTango¬†¬†| ¬†photo via Flickr Just as people were becoming more cautious about casual sexual encounters like anonymous¬†sex¬†and one-night stands, Tinder blew up on the “dating” scene, and¬†people stopped being quite as cautious about risky rendezvous. No one is saying you have to be a total prude when dating these days. Just [...]

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9 No-Duh Sex Moves Men Should Brush Up On

Friday, December 5, 2014

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by Eden Strong for YourTango  |  photo via WeHeartIt Your sex life might be good but aren’t there always a few things that could make it, well, better? Quick answer: YES. How do I know? Over a glass of wine (or several), I flat out asked my friends if their sex life was everything they wanted it [...]

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7 Key Rules for Buying a Quality Sex Toy

Friday, November 14, 2014

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The Mona 2 — a toy designed by our sponsor LELO that fits all our criteria below¬†(cupcakes not included) There are countless toys out there to choose from — unfortunately, not all of them will get you to your happy place effectively, or even safely. The sex toy industry, which is largely unregulated, is littered [...]

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5 Phrases Women Need to Say More

Thursday, November 13, 2014

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by Ms Brenda Della Casa for YourTango ¬†| ¬†photo via Wikimedia Commons Never walk away muttering to yourself again. Anyone who has ever walked away from an exchange mumbling the things they “should have said” knows the crushing defeat that comes with not reaching deep into one’s vocabulary and putting together that one punchline phrase [...]

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7 Tips for Determining Who Pays on a Date

Friday, October 31, 2014

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photo via Flickr Dates may be cheap but they ain’t never free. So who coughs up? Whoever did the asking pays for the date. This is 2014, people, it’s so last century to assume the man always gets it. However, if you’ve been asked out, you should always assume you’ll be going dutch to avoid [...]

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10 Reasons Why a Dirty House Is Good for Your Marriage

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

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photo via flickr For the record, we both love a tidy house. We love a clean, well-lighted place in which to read a book or work on a hilarious and/or enlightening post for this blog. Dirty, messy houses can be annoying, stressful, and, yes, smelly. But sometimes, it simply can’t be helped. And when it [...]

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How to Make Masturbation Feel More Intimate

Friday, October 10, 2014

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photo via flickr We often hear women complain that masturbation just doesn’t do it for them, simply because there’s no man or woman attached to the end of the sex toy. In other words, they want masturbation to provide not just sex, but also intimacy. So, how do you make masturbation feel more intimate? Okay, [...]

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Top 10 Tips for Erotic Spanking

Friday, October 3, 2014

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photo via Flickr Hand-to-bum contact, if you can pull it off without cracking up (heh, we said crack), is a great way to add some kinky flavor to your next sesh. It’s intimate, it’s saucy, and — when compared to, say, a whip or a flogger — it’s safe for newbies to try out. Also, [...]

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How to Make Your Ravishment Fantasy Come True

Thursday, September 25, 2014

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There is perhaps no sexual fantasy that disturbs people more than the rape fantasy. ¬†Even people in committed, loving relationships who have successfully navigated such a fantasy with massive amounts of communication and trust can feel weird about it. Readers often ask us, “What’s wrong with me that I’m into this?” Well, as we have [...]

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