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7 Tips for Determining Who Pays on a Date

Friday, October 31, 2014

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photo via Flickr Dates may be cheap but they ain’t never free. So who coughs up? Whoever did the asking pays for the date. This is 2014, people, it’s so last century to assume the man always gets it. However, if you’ve been asked out, you should always assume you’ll be going dutch to avoid [...]

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10 Reasons Why a Dirty House Is Good for Your Marriage

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

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photo via flickr For the record, we both love a tidy house. We love a clean, well-lighted place in which to read a book or work on a hilarious and/or enlightening post for this blog. Dirty, messy houses can be annoying, stressful, and, yes, smelly. But sometimes, it simply can’t be helped. And when it [...]

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How to Make Masturbation Feel More Intimate

Friday, October 10, 2014

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photo via flickr We often hear women complain that masturbation just doesn’t do it for them, simply because there’s no man or woman attached to the end of the sex toy. In other words, they want masturbation to provide not just sex, but also intimacy. So, how do you make masturbation feel more intimate? Okay, [...]

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Top 10 Tips for Erotic Spanking

Friday, October 3, 2014

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photo via Flickr Hand-to-bum contact, if you can pull it off without cracking up (heh, we said crack), is a great way to add some kinky flavor to your next sesh. It’s intimate, it’s saucy, and — when compared to, say, a whip or a flogger — it’s safe for newbies to try out. Also, [...]

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How to Make Your Ravishment Fantasy Come True

Thursday, September 25, 2014

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There is perhaps no sexual fantasy that disturbs people more than the rape fantasy. ¬†Even people in committed, loving relationships who have successfully navigated such a fantasy with massive amounts of communication and trust can feel weird about it. Readers often ask us, “What’s wrong with me that I’m into this?” Well, as we have [...]

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10 Reasons to Become a Submissive (If Only for a Night)

Friday, September 12, 2014

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LELO’s Etherea Silk Cuffs You want a little freedom from all your daily responsibilities. You’ve been with your partner for a while and things are getting a little routine. You kinda like being held down and tickled. You think our book on the topic “150 Shades of Play” is fascinating. You don’t want to over-think [...]

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Top 10 Sex Tips for College Students (Especially First-Years)

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

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For many young women and men, the end of August marks the start of a new chapter of life ‚ÄĒ one of higher learning, critical thinking, problem solving, horizon broadening, and lots and lots of casual bonking. It‚Äôs a whole new world of unchaperoned independence and freedom combined with 18-year-old hormones ‚ÄĒ which can result [...]

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5 Ways to Spice Up a One-Night Stand

Friday, August 22, 2014

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photo via Flickr One-night stands are inherently pretty spicy, what with all the excitement of the unknown. But they offer a unique opportunity to expand your sexual repertoire without the possibility of being judged or shamed (at least not by someone you know and love). Next time you take a beautiful stranger back to your [...]

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What Are the Rules for Dating Your Friend’s Exes?

Friday, August 15, 2014

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As a general rule, we think it’s bad manners — not to mention bad taste — to date or sleep with a friend’s ex, a.k.a. “dating the floor model.” Why ruin a perfectly good friendship for a hook-up that, let’s face it, probably won’t last the season? The ONLY way we think it’s acceptable to [...]

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10 Quick Ways to Spice Up Masturbation

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

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We know that masturbation feels like an easy lay, but just because you’re a sure thing, doesn’t mean you always have to treat yourself that way. Here are 10 simple ways to spice up your old routine: Dim the overheads and light some candles Pour yourself a drink Take a long bath (with a nice [...]

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