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10 Simple Steps to Fifty-ize You Sex Life

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

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We just did an interview with Cosmopolitan about our new book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, and they turned it into a nifty little 10-step program for introducing BDSM into the bedroom: 1. Talk Dirty to Him “Bringing up S&M with your partner can be shocking and awkward. A great way [...]

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Last Week for FREE Shipping of 150 SHADES OF PLAY!

Friday, December 14, 2012

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Kimono Robe by LELO Your holiday shopping days are dwindling, so don’t miss out on the chance to give your lover a naughty stocking stuffer, your best friend a companion piece to her dog-eared copy of Fifty Shades, or your coworkers something to blush over during the Secret Santa exchange at your holiday office party! [...]

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The 25 Rules of the Booty Call

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

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photo via Flickr Most people don’t talk about booty calls. That’s part of their appeal: “We don’t have to endlessly com-mu-ni-cate because we’re not in a serious relationship.” People rely on a tacit understanding when it comes to casual sex with their friends and neighbors, and especially their exes. But it’s silly to assume that [...]

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Confession: 8 Rules for the Third Wheel in a Threeway

Thursday, November 1, 2012

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photo via flickr Our contributor is a college student who wishes to remain anonymous. She has some sage advice to impart on the topic of three ways… When people give warnings about threeways, it’s usually directed at couples who are bringing in a third party. Threeways are not a relationship-building exercise, they tell you. Are you sure your [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Get the Sex You Want

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

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photo via Flickr For the second week in a row, our favorite comment has been in response to the post, “Your Call: My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm” –  this week reader Tess has some similarly spot on advice: …if this pattern [of unsatisfying sex] is all that [your husband] knows, then you can’t expect him [...]

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How to (TRY TO) Female Ejaculate

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

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photo of Old Faithful  via Flickr Okay, before we tell you how to ejaculate, we have to set a couple things straight: First, yes, women can ejaculate. Next: no, not all women ejaculate. So if it doesn’t happen for you, please don’t stress about it or feel like your parts aren’t working properly. The last [...]

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5 Ways to Make Sex with the Well-Endowed More Comfortable

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

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photo via Flickr Dear Em and Lo, I have recently found that mythical man that every woman wants and movies portray. He’s financially stable, no ex drama, gorgeous (holy crap is he!), very sexy, and very tall (approx 6′ 3″-4″). The latter part of his good qualities is what’s the issue — he’s TALL. Meaning [...]

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The Reverse Coital Alignment Technique (or Reverse C.A.T.)

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

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Image from our book “SEX: How to Do Everything” Yesterday we reviewed the Coital Alignment Technique, a sexual position that involves lots of body contact, slow and steady shifting, and a philosophical readjustment toward intercourse — all designed to increase a woman’s chances of orgasm via penile penetration. (Trust us, it’s sexier than that sounds.) [...]

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The Coital Alignment Technique (C.A.T.) – A Refresher Course

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

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Image from our book “SEX: How to Do Everything” You’ve all heard of the Coital Alignment Technique. It was all the rage a decade or so ago. But have you ever actually tried it? Have you tried it again recently? It takes patience. It takes practice. And it goes against everything you’ve seen in porn. [...]

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Our Commencement Advice to Grads

Monday, June 11, 2012

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In his recent Class Day speech at Princeton University, Steve Carell closed with his version of the “wear sunscreen” list of helpful hints for grads. (Except, of course, the original “wear sunscreen” advice was not given by Kurt Vonnegut during a commencement address at MIT, as the Internets insisted on telling us for years — [...]

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