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10 Requirements for a Sexy Bedroom

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

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photo via Flickr In case your bedroom has been a little worse for wear lately, here’s a quick reminder of the basics of bedroom beautification. Because a beautiful bedroom is much nicer/more inspiring/less psychically distracting to make beautiful music in. Invest in sheets with a decent thread count–there’s nothing sexy about your bare skin against [...]

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Top 7 Love Lessons Learned from The Bachelor (Juan Pablo, Ep 1)

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

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photo courtesy of ABC/Rick Rowell Now that Juan-uary has begun, each week we’ll be bringing you the five most important love lessons you can learn from each episode of The Bachelor on ABC. With each episode guaranteed to be the most dramatic EVER (per usual), this season should prove to be a wildly educational ride. And [...]

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The Married Person’s Top 10 New Year’s Resolutions

Friday, January 3, 2014

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photo via Flickr Have sex with your partner more than you watch porn/read erotica on your own. Trim your toenails like you did when you were single before a date. Kiss your partner on the lips for at least 5 seconds every day. In the next 6 months, be sure to spend at least one [...]

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Turkey Cooking Tips For Better Sex

Thursday, November 28, 2013

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photo via Flickr However distasteful it may sound, there are a lot of similarities between cooking turkey and having sex: prepping naked skin, heating things up, getting stuffed, being done — and when you really think about it, they’re both kind of gross. So in honor of the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, we’ve retrofitted the Food [...]

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6 Ways to Seduce Your Husband

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

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photo by Ezyan Y. Let’s face it: seducing guys ain’t that hard. A little cleavage and some footsie is pretty much all it takes. But when you’re in a long-term committed relationship, the challenge is making your moves new and memorable. What follows are seven classic approaches to seduction that you can make your own [...]

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How to Get Over a Breakup…with Breaking Bad

Monday, September 30, 2013

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In honor of the last episode ever of Breaking Bad (sniffle), we’ve reconnoitered our classic “How to Get Over a Breakup” article so Breaking Bad fans the world over can better deal with the loss of their loved one and try to fill the void left behind by the series ending.  Come here, Baby Blue, [...]

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What Is the C-Spot?

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

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This is the final part of our series on Top Body “Spots” that any self-respecting, shall we say, “anatomy enthusiast” should be familiar with. Even if this is old news to you, it’s always a good idea to brush up The C-Spot a.k.a. The Clitoris, a.k.a. the female penis Yes, some people actually call the clitoris the C-spot, but [...]

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Sex After Miscarriage & Stillbirth

Thursday, September 19, 2013

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Reconceiving Loss is a new online resource for people coping with losing a pregnancy or an infant. There are articles on health and wellbeing, yoga and meditation suggestions, and opportunities for healing through creative expression (e.g. writing, photography, even playlist compilation). One of their contributors, clinical psychologist Dr. Julie Bindeman, recently wrote about sex after [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Boyfriend Won’t Go Down on Me

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

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photo via Flickr Dear Em and Lo, When my boyfriend and I started seeing each other he made it clear he had a problem with performing oral sex and so I’ve never asked him to do it as, after all, I wouldn’t want to do something I wasn’t comfortable with or wouldn’t enjoy. However, after [...]

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What Is the U-Spot?

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

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This is part of our continuing series on Top Body “Spots” that any self-respecting, shall we say, “anatomy enthusiast” should be familiar with. Even if this is old news to you, it’s always a good idea to brush up: The U-Spot a.k.a. urethral spot This is the external area surrounding the urethral opening on a woman. Like the [...]

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